Have you ever held a rabbit?
Soft, warm, white soft hairs are very comfortable to touch, like rubbing white clouds, blowing cotton, people don't want to let go anyway.
Have you ever held a hedgehog?
Hedgehogs, full of sharp thorns, are easy to be punctured when touched, and may bleed into a river when they move. embrace? Forget it, disturbed, the subject retreated.
It's just that you probably don't know that the daunting hedgehog is sometimes more eager for a warm hug than a rabbit.
For the weak, people are always habitually protective.
You see those soft and weak little girls, milky and cute little milk dogs, always arouse people's desire to protect, want to put all the tenderness and care in the world into their hands.
The sharp-looking hedgehog type men and women are much more miserable.
The hard thorn reveals their inaccessibility, and makes people consciously classify them into the camp of the strong, thinking that they do not need protection, do not need to embrace, do not need to be heard, do not need to be understood.
But what about the facts?
The hedgehog's thorn is only an armor for self-protection when encountering enemies, not a claw that shows off everyone. A person curled up in a lonely night, he also wants someone to embrace it in his arms.
Luo Yue in "Mr. Love", the poisonous tongue royal sister loves to pick thorns, has a real and straight personality, and opens up when she does not agree, which is simply "Miss Hedgehog" herself.
Others see her as full of combat effectiveness, always able to wind and fire, very quick to deal with their own problems, let people feel very capable, just like her upright hair, tall, very independent, not close to people.
But beneath her strong exterior of self-preservation, there was actually a soft heart hidden, beating cautiously but with great determination, longing for an embrace that had not been encountered for many years.
Sometimes hedgehogs are more eager to hug than rabbits
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In this glitzy world, not only the rabbits that look weak and delicate need to be protected, but the hedgehogs with thorns on their backs also want to rely on them in the cold night.
In everyone's impression, Pan Pan will always be a super queen who is not willing to show weakness, cold, cool, handsome, full of bad breath, and the four words "do not come near people" are written on the door of the brain.
But such a person, after getting drunk, actually collapsed on the ground in an almost humble prayer tone and took my hand and said, "Joel, you hug me..."
"It's been a long time since anyone hugged me..."
When I saw her, who was usually a punk, collapse on me and cry like a child in an instant, I was a bit square.
It was the first time I felt vulnerable and helpless in her, and from her intermittent murmurs, the sadness and sorrow she had endured for many years was overwhelming.
It turns out that I despise those new age strong women who can only hiss, whine, and weak as I do, and will also take off their armor and become soft sisters, and also want to be weak occasionally, and be warmed by people...
She also hopes that someone can listen to her unspeakable weaknesses and sadness, and she also longs to have a hug of her own and get rid of all the grievances and insecurities in her heart.
Every hedgehog longs for a warm embrace of its own, forever open to itself.
I think that if it really happened, every hedgehog would be willing to pull out the thorns on its body in pain, even if it would hurt itself, it would be able to extend the warmth indefinitely.
No matter how hard the hedgehog stabs people, there will still be soft places
The biggest contradiction of people is that they long to be understood and afraid of being seen through.
Just like me, whether in the article or in real life, I always like to put on an image of an emotional expert who sees through the vicissitudes of the world, sees through the red dust, and treats love rationally to terrible emotions.
But behind the scenes, I am still silently forwarding koi to get rid of the single, longing for someone to illuminate my ordinary life, let me rekindle the small flame of love, and find the throbbing feeling.
All my life, I also long to be collected, properly placed, and carefully preserved.
Lest I be frightened, lest I be bitter, lest I be displaced, lest I have no branches to rely on.
But because I couldn't get it, and I didn't want to admit that I couldn't get it, I swore with my mouth that I didn't want it, even if my eyes were full of what I wanted.
Like a hedgehog armed with spikes to its teeth, it looks like it is full of teeth and claws, but when it is peeled off, it is full of soft flesh, harmless to people and animals.
Watching the other little sisters being gently held in their arms, carefully caring, and speaking softly, I would raise my head and begin to despise and disdain...
What good people don't do to do what pets are really humiliating, Lao Tzu doesn't want Barabala's.
The mouth can be strong, the heart will not lie.
No matter how much you don't care on the surface, behind the scenes, you are still envious and jealous to the point of itching your teeth, and you will even be eager to immediately turn into a weak to feel the warmth of being touched, to taste the taste of someone being petted, someone hurting, someone feeding, and someone taking care of.
Although it sounds funny, how can a defensive hedgehog be willing to show weakness?
In fact, hedgehogs also have hearts, they will cry, they will laugh, they will hurt, they will be jealous, they will be disgusted, they will also be spoiled, they will be willful, they will be sensitive, they will be fragile, and they will also be heartache.
Covered in thorns like a hedgehog, I still hope that you will embrace without taboo
If weak
It has been revealed
Who would give me a hug
Without retreating
Author: Qiaosinfu1