#我的花样生活 #
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< h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > five small things</h1>
Reading "The Soft Hedgehog", which says to list five things that have been done recently, I pondered and picked up a pen and paper to record it.
1, cleaning, three days of work a day.
2. Prepare with your children for the first day of school.
3, the child is in kindergarten.
4. Complete the great challenge of the work.
5. Finished reading a book.
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< h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > how to accomplish these five little things</h1>
These five things, listed on paper, seem so insignificant, but only if you have experienced them can you know how important they are to you.
1. Cleaning
What's worth keeping track of, and who doesn't clean it?
On August 30, I went to my work unit, the kindergarten, to clean up.
From morning to night, no matter how big or small, do not let go of any health dead ends, put vacant a holiday gray classroom, clean the windows, a new look.
Today I am a cleaner, seriously cleaning the classroom, really a day to do at least three days of work, tired of their back pain, walking on their legs like lead.
After that, looking back at yourself, it turned out to be so capable!
Second, prepare for the start of school with your children
My daughter officially went to kindergarten on September 1, and the psychological preparation and psychological counseling before the start of school began half a year ago, but my daughter never said a word of pain and happiness:
"I want to go to kindergarten!"
No matter how much I encouraged and guided, my daughter seemed to have a prophetic vision and was firmly opposed to going to kindergarten.
I also made full preparations for my daughter to enter the kindergarten, studied in advance, obtained the kindergarten teacher qualification certificate, and won the opportunity to work in the kindergarten of my choice.
Soon I will be with my daughter and I will be in kindergarten, I work, she studies.
Third, the daughter goes to kindergarten
Parents with children understand that sending their children to kindergarten is a huge challenge for their children.
Even sensible and strong children who leave their familiar homes and enter kindergarten will become uneasy, anxious and even afraid.
Children who have just entered kindergarten will cry, worry and even get sick, which is a process that children must go through when they grow up.
The daughter, who had never had any yearning for kindergarten, was taken into the kindergarten by me and handed over to the teacher fiercely, and the daughter struggled to find her mother, but her mother left without hesitation.
I peeked through the cracks in the door several times a day, and each time I cried and cried, and my face was full of tears.
Every time I turned around and left, as a mother, the subtext in my heart at this time was:
"Mom wants to push open the door, pick you up, take you in her arms, and we'll go home together."
In this way, I walked with my daughter through the first day of entering the kindergarten.
Fourth, the great challenges in the work have been completed
I have been at home full-time for four years, and although I have obtained the kindergarten teacher qualification certificate, the profession of kindergarten teacher is completely new to me, I have no experience, no experience.
Successful application put me in a difficult job, a new small class.
In other words, the thirty children in my class and I are in kindergarten for the first time.
No need to experience, just imagining is full of picture feelings, children crying, I, a novice teacher, also want to cry.
I've always thought in my heart:
I was not up to the task, and I even asked the head of the kindergarten to change shifts, and to change the middle or senior classes with a good belt.
The head of the kindergarten looked at me with determination and told me:
"You can do it, believe in yourself!"
In the face of trust, for the sake of children, you can only go hard.
Looking back now, I really did it, and I did the job that I thought was impossible.
I put my patience and confidence fully into the children, feeding the children, coaxing the children to take a nap, holding the children to comfort the children, and always paying attention to each child, just like my own children.
Day by day, day by day, after only three days, I said goodbye to the cries and cries, saw the innocent smiling faces of the children, and saw the children laughing and falling into my arms.
My efforts to this end are to walk twenty-three thousand steps a day, shuttle between every child who needs to be cared for, sit on the edge of the child's bed with the rice bowl at noon, not caring about eating a few bites of food, and slap a child with one hand and coax them to sleep.
The children stopped crying, laughed happily, and I laughed too, and I completed the enormous task that I thought was impossible.
Fifth, finished reading a book
This year, I have been reading, because I don't like to read, and I haven't read a complete book for many years.
This year, 2021, I decided to change myself and grow up with my children.
So how to accompany and how to grow?
When you don't know how to change your status quo, then start reading, only reading can make people progress, can make people open-minded, can make people smart.
So far this year, after reading 11 books, I thought that the intensity of the work of the exhausting people made me unable to pick up the books anymore, but my heart has been pushing myself:
Take time out to read.
Every night before going to bed, after waking up in the morning, even if it is only three minutes, try to read two pages of books, and today I finished reading the 11th book.
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<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > hellish heaven between one thought</h1>
Looking back now, the road traveled in the past few days, the five things that have been accomplished, the different cognitions, one is hell, the other is heaven.
Hell Thoughts:
Why do I work so hard?
Why did I allow my daughter to suffer this sin?
Why do I serve such a large number of children?
What a day I've had!
HeavenLy Ideas:
I was so capable, I did so much work in one day!
I entered kindergarten with my daughter and was so lucky to continue watching her grow!
I am so good at the job of taking care of so many children myself!
God really cared for me and let me realize my wish step by step!
I am now much more confident than I was a few days ago!
Confidence in the two words, it is too simple to say, who is not confident? Anyone can open their mouth and say:
"I'm full of confidence in myself!"
We've also heard chicken soup countless times:
"I have to have confidence before I can do something important."
In fact, this is a lowest-level mistake, self-confidence is not out of thin air, self-confidence is done down-to-earth.
The golden rule of confidence is:
Confident behavior precedes feelings of self-confidence.
"True self-confidence" refers to the ability to act according to your own values no matter how you feel, and even if you feel scared, you can trust yourself to be able to do what really matters!
Are important things, hard work, something that can be done overnight?
It's clear, it can't be, what is that?
It is a very small thing, and a very simple work, a big thing and an important work that accumulates.
Self-confidence is not to take the small things of work and life lightly.
Helen Keller said:
"I aspire to accomplish a great and noble task, but my main duty is to accomplish every small task as if it were a great and noble task.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > failures follow</h1>
Some people may say that I have never been confident because I have done a lot of work, none of them have succeeded, I have been doing small things and have not been successful, so I have never known how to be confident.
In fact, at this time, you are on the road of self-confidence, you don't have to worry.
On the American Basketball Association's website, Michael Jordan's biography reads:
"Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player of all time."
Incredibly, at the age of 16, Jordan didn't make it to their high school basketball team.
But it's not hard to believe that after that, he trained hard and entered the team the following year.
Michael's attitude towards failure is healthy.
In his own words:
"In my career, I've conceded more than 9,000 goals and lost almost 300 games.
There were 26 times when people believed I could pitch the winning ball... And I lost it.
I have failed again and again in my life.
That's why I'll succeed. ”
—Michael Jordan
The American philosopher John Dewey put it this way:
"Failure is beneficial, and truly thoughtful people learn as much from failure as they do from success."
The great wartime leader, Sir Winston Churchill, once said:
"Success is the ability to keep failing without losing enthusiasm."
It can be seen that failure is not terrible, failure is commonplace, in the face of failure, find what way to change our relationship with failure, is the most correct way.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-center-line" > how to change our relationship to failure</h1>
Failure is our life, work with the companion, at any time, in any situation failure will come uninvited, no one in the world has not experienced failure, have failed, how to change our relationship with failure?
There are good ways to:
Remind yourself often that failure is a part of life.
What successful person, a good person, a great person, has not experienced failure?
I can't find it, I can only find cases of their failure:
Walt Disney's first animation studio, Ewox–Disney Commercial Art, went bankrupt just a month after opening.
Albert Einstein wanted to go to the prestigious Swiss Institute of Technology, but he did not pass the entrance exam.
Steven Spielberg applied three times to the USC School of Drama, Film and Television, but failed each time because his average grade was only C.
Microsoft co-founders Bill Gates and Paul Allen's first business project, called Traf-O-Data, analyzed traffic flow and failed miserably.
Abraham Lincoln was defeated in his first bid for a seat in the Illinois House of Representatives. He later opened a grocery store, but it closed down a few months later.
Second, think of failure only as an honest feedback.
When we fail at something, it simply tells us that what we do is not going to work.
This was Thomas Edison's attitude when he was developing light bulbs.
One by one, the light bulbs he developed exploded, extinguished, or never lit, after years of failed experiments.
He famously said:
"I didn't fail, I just found it
10,000 methods that don't work. ”
With this attitude, it is easier for us to remember that failure is a natural part of learning.
Failure is an opportunity to reflect on what methods don't work and think about what will be better the next time.
In the words of Henry Ford:
"Failure is just an opportunity to start over, and this time you'll be wiser."
Third, live according to your own values.
Following this rule means that as long as I've been living my values, even if I haven't achieved my goals, I'm still successful.
Learning to coexist with failure is on the road to success, remember that the golden rule of self-confidence is:
Don't care about failure, as long as you act, you will always come to the day of success.
Too concerned about failure, standing still, just waiting for nothing to do, will not fail, and will never succeed.
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<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > read a good book</h1>
After reading "The Soft Hedgehog", just following the book to think about the five small things I have just done, my heart is full of infinite joy and full of confidence, which is the power of the book.
"The Soft Hedgehog" is a picture book read by adults, colorful colored drawings, and chicken soup for the soul that is simply cured.
Reading a book, understanding a small thing, healing a small haze, illuminating the road to the future, is enough!
This book is a healing picture book that accompanies you in countless darkest moments, like a close friend, it gives us sincere, enlightened, generous support.
Its soft pictures and inspiring words can help us calm our anxieties and get through extremely difficult days.
It taught me to have light in my heart in the most difficult moments, it taught me to accomplish little things, it made me feel like my life was extraordinary.