Finally waited for you, fortunately I did not give up.
Columnist of World Chinese Weekly: Qingqing
One of the great comforts the world has given us is that there are always people who destroy our once-impregnable beliefs, and there are people who rebuild our faith in its precariousness.
On July 1, SBS TV's "Same Bed, Different Dreams 2: You Are My Destiny" published a video of the Sino-Korean cross-border wedding of Yu Xiaoguang and Qiu Cecixuan.
One of the enviable and touching scenes made all the guests and many netizens burst into tears.
At the wedding scene, wearing a white wedding dress, Qiu Cixuan, who was like a fairy, proposed to Yu Xiaoguang with a confession letter:
"Yu Xiaoguang, thank you for coming to me, thank you for being my closest relative, thank you for always supporting me, thank you for always making me not alone, always being able to make me laugh, and walking with you in this life, I think it is really short, if I can, I will definitely meet you in the next life."
I'm going to propose to you now, will I marry you in the next life? ”
Qiu Cixuan solemnly knelt down and proposed to his lover. Standing opposite Yu Xiaoguang, this northeastern warm man who has always been steady and responsible, has long been in tears in the face of his wife's ingenious and carefully prepared surprises.
He strode forward, as if each step was a firm determination.
It is always the right thing for a woman to be proposed. Today Qiu Cixuan proposed marriage to Xiaoguang, and the affection between the two of them has long been beyond the confinement of etiquette.
I'm afraid I won't be able to be with you in the next life, so make an appointment for your next life in advance.
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There is such a sad sentence in "When I Am a Woman": "I have longed to be collected, properly placed, and carefully preserved." Lest I be frightened, lest I be bitter, lest I be displaced, lest I have no branches to rely on.
But the man, I know, I have always known, he will never come. ”
Perhaps, she did not expect that her former unmarried self would one day be given to her a home where she would no longer wander around; one day, she would be properly placed and cherished.
Pence said that a life without love is a long night without dawn.
Her life, let alone love, even the slightest pity and affection, seems to be "unworthy".
Originally, she thought her birth was a mistake.
▲ Childhood autumn porcelain dazzling
Born in South Korea, Cho Cho Cho Hyun has a deep-rooted concept of "son preference" in his family. Grandma has 7 sons, except for her father, the remaining 6 sons have men in the family to continue the family bloodline.
Only Qiu Cixuan's parents have no sons.
▲ Qiu Cixuan talked about this past in the variety show "Stars To My Home"
Grandma does not hurt Qiu Porcelain Xuan, and does not want to see her mother, often speaks harshly to each other, is picky in every way, and once bluntly said: "You can't have a son" to insult the dignity of the mother, and even provoked the relationship between the parents, so that the mother's spirit has a problem.
In addition, the accidental drowning of the sister is a fatal blow to the mother.
When it was serious, she would even point at Qiu Cixuan and scold: "Why didn't you die?" "Why don't you die for her?"
The mother may just be crazy for a while, or maybe she just doesn't say anything.
However, the most incurable heart is the one who hurts me the most.
Many times, I have to swallow all my grievances. The cruelest thing is that day after day, those angers that are not wrong in the first place end up becoming their own sins.
Such relatives have no other feelings to maintain except blood relations, and living in such a home is tantamount to sending people under the fence.
When I was in high school, Qiu Cixuan said to her mother, you are my mother, you are also a very beautiful woman, I think you are still young, you find another lover.
His parents reorganized the family one after another, and his mother married far away from Japan.
She no longer had to live in that cold and abnormal family, which also meant that there was no place for her in this world.
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After graduating from high school, she was admitted to the drama department of Dankook University in South Korea. In order to live, she had to take on a lot of commercials.
There's a line in "What a Home": "I thought we could be good people and be loved by everyone, but God didn't want us to be like this, He would rather we be dishwashers." ”
The road to art is also the road to survival, although it is very difficult, but she relies on her own strength and strives to create her own piece of the sky.
In 1996, she was discovered by star scouts because of her pure and sweet appearance. Soon, she partnered with Song Huiqiao, took over a youth drama of "Feeling 18 Years Old", officially stepped into the film and television circle, and began the career she loved.
▲ Stills of "The Feeling of Growing Up 18"
After that, she successively starred in many Korean dramas, including "The Success of the Bright Girl", and was named "Snow White" in the show business circle.
▲ Stills of "The Success of the Bright Girl"
After graduating from college, she left the country that had devastated her. Perhaps because there is no sunshine in the heart, there is no difference between the homeland and other places.
Until Heaven pointed her way to China.
In 2003, her partner Peng Yuyan played the female number one "Yin Xiangzhi" of the Taiwanese drama "Love Xiang", with a fresh and unworldly appearance that was unforgettable.
In 2005, Qiu Cixuan was invited by the producers of the Chinese mainland to audition for "The Legend of the Hero of the Great Banner", and soon she became the only officially signed actor in the play "Twins and Double Dan".
▲ Stills of "The Legend of the Great Banner Hero"
The role marked on the employment treaty as "Water Spirit Light or Wen Dai Dai" set a precedent in the entertainment industry.
This is her first Chinese mainland drama, and because of this, she has formed a wonderful relationship with China.
Fate is a chain of buckles, and the spring of her acting career seems to spread like a cloud.
In the world of martial arts, she is the "Lin Lang" of "The Legend of Chu Liuxiang";
▲ Stills of "The Legend of Chu Liuxiang"
In the shadowy "Wooden House", she is a Naxi woman "Aleqiu" who is torn between love and hate;
▲ Stills of "Wooden House"
In the tide of the times, she is the brave and resourceful four ladies in the "New Wulong Mountain Bandit Record";
She is also Chen Jianyu, an underground party member who skillfully fought with the enemy Zhou Xuan in "The Last Battle" to commemorate the 70th anniversary of the victory of the War of Resistance;
Entering the world of love, she is the "Bei Xinru" of "Let Love Turn into Pearl Rain" on Xiamen Island, and at the same time, she is also the bumpy and strong Gao Zhenzhen in the urban drama "Happiness Together".
And the most impressive is Lin Pinru, who was reborn in Nirvana in "The Temptation to Go Home".
▲ Screenshot of "The Temptation to Go Home"
In the play, from the rebellious Lin Pinru to the courageous and capable Gao Shanshan, it is a "revenge" process of resurrection from the dead. Lin Pinru's quest for perfection, Gao Shanshan's heart is deep, in the corner of her drooping lips, between her raised eyebrows, switching freely.
After this play, as a Korean, she became China's "national daughter-in-law".
When the play was popular, she made a guest appearance in "Happy Base Camp".
In that episode, there were many hosts' mothers on the scene, and after interacting with the mothers, she burst into tears and choked up several times.
There was no one behind her. She longed for a family and avoided marriage because of her youthful misfortune.
When she incarnates a variety of roles through various times and wanders through a variety of lives, she does not know that the more busy she is, the more difficult it is to hide the self-pity of Gu Ying under the lonely lamp.
In the middle of the night, I don't know where to find the clouds in my dreams.
Therefore, the greatest misery in the world is not the wind and rain you endure, but that you carry all the difficulties alone, and no one is by your side.
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In 2006, Qiu Porcelain Xuan won eight awards for the movie "Life and Death Decision". She smiled at the award ceremony, and fate finally extended a friendly hand to her.
▲ Stills of "Life and Death Decision"
However, the moment she returned home, she could not make a phone call where she could share the honor, and she sat for a long time facing the trophy.
▲Qiu Porcelain Xuan made a guest appearance in "Very Quiet Distance"
Looking around at the seemingly gorgeous house, the biwa zhu yong of the fireworks of the inhuman world suddenly became the broken rubble in the heart.
But "there's always someone who's going to show up that will make you forgive all the hardships of life." ”
Until she met Yu Xiaoguang.
"The Happy Time of the Spicy Girlfriend" is a drama about happiness, which is the red thread in the hands of the old man of the moon, which fulfills their transnational love.
▲ Stills of "The Happy Time of the Spicy Girlfriend"
However, the hurt from her family as a child was always a tribulus in her heart, and every time she thought about it, it would sting her nerves.
The "acute trauma" of her sister's drowning, and the "invisible trauma" left by her mother's vicious words after her mental breakdown, made her extremely sensitive and inferior.
In order to get along well with the crew, she went to prepare a hearty meal after the intensive play.
On the reality show, she was afraid that the elders would not like her, so she changed into casual clothes and put on a hanbok to show her respect.
All this, Yu Xiaoguang saw in his eyes, he understood that she was humble, but also inferior; she was kind to people, but also cautious.
"The snow that falls on a person's life, we can't see it all. Everyone spends the winter alone in their own lives. ”
And he transformed into a fire, melting the cold snow attached to her with his enthusiasm and sincerity.
Someone said, "The most moving thing in love is not that the other party rushes to see your light, but that you are still willing to come to your side knowing your difficult and depressed moments, and despite your embarrassment and exhaustion, gently and calmly extend your hand to you." ”
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Looking back, she said, when she was tired from loneliness in China, she could receive text messages from him every time she saw her phone. The moment you see a text message, you will get a lot of comfort. His heart never changed, so I decided that if I got married, I would have to follow him.
Yu Xiaoguang confessed to her at the dinner table: "You used to be very hard, I want you to feel at home." ”
▲ Source: Variety show "Same Bed, Different Dreams 2"
So, he gave everything he could to build a warm love nest for her in China. He is not a traffic star, and he is in debt to buy a marriage house.
Even, in order to make her feel love and security, he willingly signed an unequal treaty with her to "lose power and humiliate the country".
When his son was born, Akira was rushed to the ICU because of postpartum pregnancy complications. During that time, he was nervous and terrified, until she woke up, and he almost cried with joy: "After so many nightmare-like days, as long as she can be well, I am willing to switch her with one." ”
Later, when they went to record the show together, when she was cooking, he laid hands and his eyes were full of spoiled sweetness;
In the first sentence of the morning, he was numb but naturally praised: "How do you wake up so good-looking";
When she was angry, he played a trick and sold the treasure, only to smile for his beloved wife;
Wherever he went, she would hear the heartfelt "I love you"...
He knew the great flaws in her heart, so he did not hesitate to fill her little by little in his own way.
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A good relationship is not only about taking and one-way exporting, and she also tries her best to take care of this heavenly gift of happiness and happiness.
Yu's mother suffers from encephalopathy and has a poor memory, so she takes good care of her and does it herself.
When she took Yu Xiaoguang's parents to South Korea for a tour, she not only took her in-laws on a sightseeing trip, but also worried about the health of the second elder, she took them to the physical examination, and said to her mother-in-law with a serious face, "From head to toe, you must check, Mom." ”
Yu's father once said: "This family can't do without you." ”
When she found out she was pregnant and told her mother, the first thing her mother-in-law said happily was: "My daughter is the best!" ”
The in-laws regarded her as a daughter, and she cherished this mother-daughter relationship gifted by Heaven even more.
The fatherly and maternal love that she once lacked was treated as her own mother-in-law a little healed and compensated.
Natsume's Friend's Account says, "I want to be a gentle person because I have been treated like that by gentle people, and I deeply understand the feeling of being treated gently." ”
South Korean media reported in the previous stage that a welfare department received a donation from Qiu Cei Hyun, stating that this money was a gift money received by Qiu Cei Hyun and his wife for the make-up wedding, and specifically explained that this donation was used to help the children waiting for adoption find a new family.
Love is inspiration, but also transmission.
She is willing to be the woman who was once treated by fate and now gives back with love.
And Qiu Porcelain Xuan's wedding, which made Netizens in China and South Korea cry, did not usher in his own biological parents.
She stood at this end of the wedding scene, without her father's escort and without the blessings of her relatives, but she still smiled and smiled, and under Xiaoguang's affectionate gaze, she married happiness as she wished.
She has starred as a lucky bride several times, and now she finally lives more than just an illusory film and television drama.
"Everyone who appears in your life has a reason and a mission. People who like you give you warmth and courage, and people you like make you learn to love and be self-sustaining. ”
If you love him and happen to love you, if you cherish him and he happens to cherish you, then this should be the biggest coincidence and surprise in the world.
Another name for all the beautiful fairy tales in life should be "miracles of love".
Qiu Porcelain Xuan, you must be happy.