The better the girl, the less emotionally smooth it is?
She Shiman served as a "star supporter" in the program "New Blind Date Conference" hosted by Meng Fei.
In the latest episode of the show, there were three female guests with very different personalities, but none of them successfully held hands.
Meng Fei expressed surprise because this is the first time in the six seasons of the show that there has been a successful situation without guests holding hands.
But ShehMan, who was on the sidelines, didn't think there was anything wrong with it, thinking it was mainly because the female guests were too good.
After the show was broadcast, she also posted on social platforms to encourage boys to be brave in pursuing love, and after in-depth understanding, they may find that the points that were originally entangled are actually insignificant.
At the same time, she also supports girls to follow their hearts, do not have to marry rumors, do not have to marry the general, and should love the right person.
Netizens have praised her in the comment area, praising her emotional outlook as sober and transparent.
Perhaps because of this, She Siman has not found his home.
Debuted for many years, there are countless cooperative male gods, and gossip is spread at every turn, and the jianghu people call her "Jiao She", but she is still alone.
01, there are more than ten predecessors, but they are still unmarried
She was originally from a wealthy family, but when she was five years old, her father died in a car accident, resulting in the family's downfall.
After that, the mother pulled three children to grow up alone, and life was very poor.
Fortunately, She Shiman was smart and excellent from an early age and was admitted to the Swiss International Hotel Management University.
During her study in Switzerland, she met her first love, a rich second generation with a wealthy family.
However, She Shiman was not willing to live a life of seeing the head at a glance, so she chose to break up with her first love and return to Hong Kong for development.
Later, she dreamed of being an actress since she was a child, and at the suggestion of her mother, she participated in the Miss Hong Kong pageant in 1997.
In the end, he won the third place and made a smooth debut.
In 2000, She Shiman and Zhang Zhilin starred in the TV series "Moonlight on the Fifth Day of October", and the two had many intimate scenes in the play, and the relationship outside the play was also good.
Rumors about the two's love affair spread so widely that it was even reported that She Shiman was seen sitting on Zhang Zhilin's lap.
At that time, Zhang Zhilin was already Yuan Yongyi's boyfriend, and She Shiman was called "Little Three" for this.
But the two not only did not avoid suspicion, but continued to cooperate in the movie "Happy Valley Moonlight".
Coupled with the fact that during that time, Zhang Zhilin repeatedly denied the marriage news with Yuan Yongyi, and the outside world questioned his relationship with She Shiman even more.
It is said that yuan Yongyi, in order to supervise Zhang Zhilin and She Shiman, directly returned to Hong Kong from Guangzhou to raid the patrol.
But these are all anecdotal rumors, and it is impossible to distinguish between true and false.
Yuan Yongyi later also took the initiative to explain, saying that she just happened to meet them upstairs to shoot a scene, so she called them down to have a meal together.
Perhaps influenced by rumors, the relationship between the three became very awkward.
In 2014, She Shiman Zhang Zhilin collaborated again on the film "Moonlight on the Fifth Day of October", and it was reported that Yuan Yongyi asked Zhang Zhilin to go home for the night during filming.
During the promotion of the movie, Zhang Zhilin also said that when he met She Shiman in the powder room, he did not know how to open his mouth to chat.
Today, Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yongyi are happily married and have a harmonious family, and perhaps it was really the "oolong" that the media caught the wind and made a scene.
However, She Shiman's later love affair with Chen Haomin seems to be more than a hammer.
The two met because of the cooperation movie "Love Soda Machine", and they naturally came together after filming.
There have been media photos of the two living in the same hotel,
It was also exposed that a recording of a conversation between a man and a woman involved an ambiguous private life.
According to the tone, the media speculated that She Shiman and Chen Haomin were flirting with each other.
In the face of various reports from the outside world, the two did not respond positively or deliberately avoid suspicion.
During that time, the media always took photos of them coming in and out, and it seemed that the relationship seemed to be very stable.
Later, not only did the reporter photograph the two suspected of living together.
Even the news of the engagement and marriage came out.
Just when the outside world thought that the two would cultivate the right results, Chen Haomin was exposed to repeatedly going to nightclubs.
There are also rumors that he is very close to a girl in the night club.
At that time, TVB was also trying to praise Charmaine She, worried that the relationship would affect her career development.
I don't know whether Chen Haomin is too scummy or for the sake of the cause of preservation, the two eventually parted ways.
Later, She Shiman also mentioned this past in the program, explaining that the two filmed their own dramas and gathered less and left more, which led to the breakup.
But combined with Chen Haomin's subsequent behavior, her decision to break up decisively was very wise.
After bidding farewell to Chen Haomin, She Shiman repeatedly reported scandals with the male actors he cooperated with.
For example, the love affair scandal with Wu Zhuoxi's "strong woman and weak man", and even some media said that She Shiman raised Wu Zhuoxi.
Wu Zhuoxi also issued a statement saying that the money is earned by his own work, and he and She Siman are just colleagues.
In 2006, when She Shiman and Lin Feng filmed "Acts walker", it was exposed that they were wearing the same couple watch, suspected of talking about "sister-brother love".
But after this relationship passed on for a while, there was no follow-up.
She has also had a relationship with Chen Hao, Miao Qiaowei and other male stars, but it is not known whether they have really interacted.
Among them, the most sensational should be the scandal with Zheng Jiaying.
In 2007, when the two collaborated on "Forensic Pioneer 2", they fell in love with each other, when Zheng Jiaying just broke up with his ex-girlfriend Zhou Liqi.
However, when the two were photographed by the media dating in the car, Zheng Jiaying directly drove She Shiman out of the car to avoid filming.
Zheng Jiaying's predecessor Zhou Liqi also took the opportunity to fall into the well, saying that he had never been kicked off the car.
Seeing that She Shiman was ridiculed and ridiculed, Zheng Jiaying refused to give a clear answer, saying that she would not disclose her other half until she was married.
In the end, When She Shiman filmed "Palace Heart", he announced that the two had peacefully broken up.
When asked why she broke up, Zheng Jiaying said that She Shiman was a big name and that she could not accept the situation of strong women and weak men.
But Charmaine She said that Zheng Jiaying has never taken the initiative, and her words are disappointed in this relationship.
Later, she also had gossip about same-sex affairs.
Some media broke the news that her relationship with her agent Chen Zhaoyin was not ordinary.
But Charmaine Sheh countered inexplicable rumors with the phrase "things that are not facts will not respond."
Although most relationships are not inconclusive, Charmaine She revealed on the show that she had been in love many times.
When she was a guest on a show hosted by Cai Kangyong, the other party asked if her predecessors had more than 10?
She Shiman responded generously: "Probably, almost, there are inside and outside the circle." ”
However, after going around and meeting so many fates, the 46-year-old still did not stay for anyone.
No wonder there are always netizens who are anxious for her, and she has no one to take care of her.
Probably because she wants to be strong and love, right?
Her sober independence in her relationship makes it difficult for her to entrust herself to anyone.
02, strength and financial strength, is the strength of singlehood
The experience of losing her father at an early age and helping her mother take care of her younger brother made Charmaine More mature than her peers.
She had to force herself to become strong and tough, gritting her teeth to face all the difficulties.
The trigger for breaking up with her first love boyfriend was that the other party took her to Taiwan to live for three months.
During this time, she did not have to work, and she ate, slept and watched TV at home every day.
This feeling of doing nothing and clinging to other people's lives made her very anxious.
Therefore, she would rather give up the opportunity to marry into a rich family and insist on pursuing her acting dreams.
After entering the show business circle through the Hong Kong sister beauty pageant, the opportunity that was originally praised by TVB fell to the third place.
But because that year's champion Weng Jiasui and runner-up Lee Minghui were in a fight to grab the rich businessman's boyfriend Wu You, TVB had to focus on cultivating a positive image of She Shiman.
But She Shiman is not from a science class, her acting skills and lines are insufficient, the audience does not buy it, and the media does not show mercy, mocking her for speaking like a "chicken cub".
The staff on the set also unscrupulously "bullied" her, because she was two minutes late, and the director followed her and kept swearing and smashing the script in his hand at her.
In fact, at that time, there was an active figure in Hong Kong's social circles pursuing her, and the other party was very powerful and could become her "shelter".
But after a short relationship, she realized that the other party was rushing to get married, and she did not want to give up her career, so she decisively chose to break up.
She also refused to rely on the other party's help, insisting on relying on strength to prove herself.
In order to hone her acting skills, she only slept for one hour a day during filming;
In order to practice her voice and breath, she insisted on reading the newspaper for half an hour a day.
Relying on the polishing of one drama after another, she has made great progress in acting.
In 2004's "Desire for The Golden Branch", She Shiman's belly Heer Chun, played by She Shiman, won the praise of countless audiences.
Two years later, she won the "Best Actress" and "My Favorite TV Female Character" with the role of one person in the "Phoenix Quartet".
From being ridiculed by the media and not being able to act, to winning the double film in one fell swoop, the effort behind it is unimaginable to many people.
After that, she also picked the beam in the hit drama many times and became a well-deserved "TVB sister".
The "Yanxi Raiders" that participated in the mainland did not require makeup blessings to perform the changes before and after the "blackening".
Fan Xiang'er, the straight and spicy northeast girl in "Sideburns Are Not Begonia Red", was also pinched by her just right, and one move and one style were similar.
With good works and good acting skills, even if she is deeply involved in various scandals, it will not affect her audience.
As her career got better and better, she didn't forget to improve herself, watch a lot of movies, and learn new skills.
In addition to making money from filming, she is also very interested in investment, mainly in stocks and real estate.
According to media statistics, in recent years, She Siman has accumulated more than 100 million yuan in value just by buying and selling houses.
When she took the "Acts" and looked at it again, She Shiman also bought two apartments with full anger, one for herself and one for her mother.
Hong Kong media also pulled out that the mansion (one) where she lived was K11 ARTUS in Tsim Sha Tsui, sitting on the scenery of Victoria Bay, with a monthly rent of up to 290,000 yuan.
Such a strong economic strength, so that she has never lost the perception of a better life, still willing to believe in love.
After participating in the "New Blind Date", she repeatedly expressed her emotional view: "I think love is a very beautiful thing, but don't easily compromise and settle, don't rush to have, don't refuse, be the best of yourself, look forward to a person who is equal or complementary to the same frequency." 」 ”
She didn't just talk about it, but she insisted on it all the time.
Although she has not been able to meet the right person so far, the sense of self-sufficiency makes her more relaxed in her relationship.
03. Conclusion
Today, Charmaine She holds several after-view trophies and over 100 million real estate investments, and is famous and rich.
Every time he appears in public, he also looks energetic, except that he is more elegant than when he was younger, and there is almost no trace of age.
And the TVB actresses of the same generation have either faded out of the entertainment circle long ago, or they have sunbathing their husbands and children every day.
She Shiman has always insisted on herself, her career is becoming more and more prosperous, and her life is becoming more and more brilliant.
What's the harm in being single like this?
Falling in love and getting married is just the icing on the cake, and she already has enough confidence to give herself happiness.
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Author: Asagiri
Editor-in-charge: Zeria