Those things I shared with my mom.
Whether in film and television dramas or in literary works, the mother-daughter relationship is always one of the topics frequently discussed, so that the mode of getting along between mother and daughter is sometimes like a personality test, and people can always find the one that matches their growth trajectory.
Stills from the movie "Hello, Lee Huan Ying"
In the 2003 comedy film Freaky Friday, the protagonist mother and daughter unexpectedly begin to "share" their lives because they exchange their souls. No matter how "anti-human" the plot in the movie is, we can't ignore that even if the sharing is only the details of life, the connection point with the mother is also in the moment of "sharing", making us unconsciously raise the corners of our mouths.
Stills from the movie "Hot MomMy Hot Girl"
Cosmo, which knows the greatness of maternal love, abandons sensationalism and chooses to use the perspective of "sharing" to re-elaborate the possible patterns of mother-daughter relationships.
Under the definition of COSMO, the "sharing" between mothers and daughters can be to grow up together in the state of peers and experience new things over and over again; it can be a small tacit understanding of the aesthetics of mother and daughter dressing; it can be a partner to complete a work together; or it can be a role model (model) for mothers in the workplace. When the daughters gradually grew from "little cotton jackets" to the most solid "beautiful armor", mothers also spread their charm in growing up together.
Of the 9 mothers and daughters we interviewed, they shared different things, but they all found resonance in love. There are thousands of ways to get along, and we can always "enjoy" with our mother.
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Mom: Ms. Ma
From time to time, he makes a cameo appearance in Bamboo Video, aged 60+
Daughter: Bamboo
Weibo vlog blogger, Weibo fans 400w+
Vlogger Bamboo, who often deals with videos, is very accustomed to and good at communicating with the camera, but her mother, Ms. Ma, is not. This is the first time that the mother and daughter have been photographed by a magazine, Ms. Ma is very anxious, one moment feels that Pose is not placed well, the other moment looks at the "gully" on her face on the screen, and she is very congested, and she has the urge to give herself a "return my drifting fist". "Don't see it, are you embarrassed?" Bamboo teased Madam Ma from the sidelines. "Well, I'm in a pretty calm mood right now." Ms. Ma replied solemnly.
In the eyes of others, Bamboo and Ms. Ma are more like a pair of "atypical mother and daughter". Bamboo calls her mother "Ms. Ma" and her father "Mr. Shao" much more often than "Mom". She sees this as a "second generation" for her parents. Ms. Ma didn't mind at all, she only had one minefield - "It can't be Sister Ma, everything else can be." She also gave herself a little additional name—the young woman's body." I tell you, I'm actually quite rebellious, very rebellious, until now, I'm 60 years old, still rebellious. Bamboo said that Ms. Ma has a kind of superpower, "I don't know what kind of magic she has done, but there is a way to live to be the same age as me." ”
The mother-daughter confrontation and tension that usually exist in adolescence have never happened to Bamboo and Ma. "When I was young, I thought that all the mothers in the world were like this, and I didn't know it until I grew up." Ms. Ma is the legendary "other people's mother".
Ms. Ma, the "mother of others", feels that she will not educate her children, and in order to communicate comfortably, she claims to have used a stupid method to "immerse herself" - from the birth of bamboo to the present, she has always placed herself in the same age group as bamboo. Even after Bamboo went to high school, Ms. Ma has begun to regard Bamboo as a small teacher, and from time to time asks her to answer questions, including small conflicts and small frictions between her life and Mr. Shao. They also naturally formed a united front of mother and daughter in the family, and they always took the same spearhead to deal with Mr. Shao.
Bamboo said that Ms. Ma went to her school for a parent-teacher conference, never listened carefully, in addition to drawing at the meeting, that is, came back to feedback that xx's father was a bit handsome, xxx's mother was so beautiful and so on. "The teacher would often call my name because of the problem of early love, etc., so that the parents would stay after the meeting, and my mother never stayed, and went directly."
Bamboo is Cancer and Madam Ma is an Aquarius. Bamboo said that Ms. Ma was particularly typical and eccentric. They don't even need any special topic guidance between them, as long as the conversation box is opened, it can't be closed at all, Ms. Ma is "secret", and bamboo is more like her "hugging". Although the quarrels and contradictions that really involve deep feelings have never been between them, the desire to win or lose is always happening.
Mother and daughter are on par with each other, but "my mother can always go into a mall and pick out the ugliest one for me." A similar divine repair knife is not strange between Bamboo and Madam Ma.
Ms. Ma said: "I can have a child at the age of 26, can you?" ”
Bamboo replied for a second: "I can not have children until I am 33 years old, can you?" ”
Ms. Ma: "I will make ravioli, can you?" ”
Bamboo: "I can run 5 kilometers, can you?" ”
Ms. Ma: "I can drive for 5 hours in a row, can you?" ”
Bamboo: "... I don't have a domestic driver's license. ”
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COSMO: What is the type of relationship between you?
Bamboo mother: girlfriend + mother and daughter
COSMO: Under what circumstances would you have the idea that you're cool in front of your daughter?
Ms. Ma: I have it all the time. Recently, I just want to go to a relationship. I will imagine a scene in my heart, and then I am still very beautiful in my heart. For romantic love, there will always be a little non-division of thoughts.
COSMO: If one day, you could cross to your mother's adolescence like Lee Huan-young, what would you say to her?
Bamboo: I might tell her, don't marry your first love boyfriend, try a few more. Because my dad was her first love boyfriend. I just want to say, your youth, you must go out to the waves!
"A Thousand Tacit Understandings" from the Wardrobe
#共享衣橱 #
Mom: Seagull
Everywhere she went, she was praised for her figure,
Forever 18 years old
Daughter: Wild Jenny
Vlog blogger, love xia family
In jenny and her mother's philosophy of dressing, even if the two people are in Shanghai and Hunan, their favorite clothes can be completely shared. From school days, Jenny, who did not play by the routine, focused on her mother's wardrobe, observing which clothes her mother did not often wear and which bags were not often carried, and took them as Vintage to sell. "At that time, Jenny showed some fashion taste, picking the ones she thought were good and could be sold, and exchanged them for one or two thousand dollars." "Junior high school began to love pretty, will go to Watsons to buy Maybelline lipstick."
Jenny would also sneak out a fur coat from her mother's closet, paired with a sweatshirt and high-waisted jeans, and hang out on the street with her classmates, "thinking I was dragging." These things, my mother didn't know until the moment Jenny said it during the interview, and then she began to say: "Oh, no wonder I can't find that belt, it must have been sold by you." ”
It is also because the mother's dressing style has always been very fashionable, two people often compete for the "schedule" of a piece of clothing, and it is common for Hunan and Shanghai to send back and forth. Even so, they still have their own attachments in terms of dressing style. When her mother sent Jenny to Beijing for college, she felt that her daughter had to have a good dress that could withstand the scene, so she went to buy a brand-name trench coat. But Jenny always felt that the whole person could not stretch out when she put it on, and she did not wear it once, and it was still hanging in the closet of her home in Changsha.
Jenny said that her mother once learned that she was going to court to testify, and immediately called her to send "that set of clothes" over immediately - "you have to change three sets of clothes a day, and the court is also your show." "It is also in this kind of you and me, the two people gradually found a suitable style and consumption concept - Jenny prefers sports and comfortable wear, only in the need to spend moderately; mother will spend more than 70% of the income on buying clothes, clothes are mostly short skirts that highlight the figure.
According to her mother's own words, she will only "look like a mother" at two times: one is to ask her to evaluate Jenny's "false abs" style, she will say that this is still too much, girls should have a girl's appearance; the other is that whenever she sees Jenny wearing a crop top, she will remind her, don't get cold, the body will be overwhelmed in the future.
Last year they were playing in Japan, and one day when they went out, they found that the two were dressed quite similarly: mom wore a khaki jumpsuit, and Jenny wore a brown-orange top. Seeing this, Jenny went back and replaced her black leggings with khaki pants—a little coincidence, and a little bit of heart, and she put on a girlfriend outfit.
COSMO: If you had to choose a dress from your mom's closet, which one would you choose?
Jenny: Jeans. She had several rows of jeans, and I liked the one with the high waist and tight fit (sneaking up: I actually sneaked them away when I was in college, and now it's missing).
COSMO: How does Mom stay in shape?
Mom: Keep up with the gym, but I haven't been to the gym in a month.
COSMO: Are you also acute? You're still talking quite slowly.
Jenny: I'm in a hurry, I'm going to do something, and I'm going to "hurry up and get it fast" (the tone is suddenly urgent). I think it may be genetic.
Mom: She eats really fast, very quickly.
Jenny inner os: Today is not going to eat this terrier...
COSMO: In one sentence, describe your mother-daughter relationship.
Mom: Like a sister.
Jenny: Hmmm... I think about it, depend on each other, I think.
Two molds carved out of the workplace mother and daughter
#共享职业路径 #
Mom: Shi Xiaonuo
Host of CCTV Financial Channel, age 40+
Daughter: Youyou
CGTN TV news editor and amateur Vlog blogger
This year is the first year of Youyou's return to China, after she returned to China, she joined CCTV's foreign language channel CGTN as a TV news editor, and her mother Shi Xiaonuo, who is a famous CCTV host, officially became a colleague working at CCTV. Although the working channels are different, the two will occasionally meet in the CCTV building, "when we meet, it is the most surprising, often the two of us will look at each other silly for half a day, sometimes if the two people are in the building, they will also take time to drink a cup of coffee together, there is a wonderful sense of happiness." ”
"Mom is a public figure" has been recognized since Youyou remembered. From the Chongqing local station to CCTV, she has long been accustomed to the fact that her mother's face appears on TV. Her mother likes to share anecdotes about what happened at work at home after work, and Youyou, who grew up listening to "TV stories", has always had a yearning for her mother's work, and the CCTV place seems to be covered with a layer of "sacred" light for her.
And for the creation and content output of the good and like, it seems that you are also born. When she was in college, the media major was also completely your own choice, and when she was studying, she became a well-known vlog blogger. During the holidays of her freshman and sophomore year, she tried to intern at CCTV.
In the past two years, after her mother had her own program "Meet the Big Coffee", Youyou often offered to participate in the program recording with her mother, "When I see her doing the program up close, I still feel admiration from my heart, and I can learn a lot from it." When I work, my mother is very aura and professional, which is very different from life. ”
The mother in life is very grounded, Aries confusion and carelessness are both occupied: sunglasses are thrown one after another, others will take it seriously if they say something out of tune, after seeing her "special two" appearance, it seems difficult to associate her in life with her at work. Mom commented that Youyou will be much calmer than herself, "She is a non-flustered personality, before the epidemic, she could not buy a ticket back to China, I was anxious, but she was a 'this is not a matter' look, especially calm." ”
Both of them evaluate each other as "people carved out of two molds", but they have nothing to talk about each other, work feelings gossip, and no taboos. Recently, because of being a "colleague", work is often the core of their chat. The two of them often give advice to each other's work, Youyou will help her mother's interview outline to follow the logic, and her mother will often teach her experience, this state of mutual giving makes them both enjoy, "This is a very happy thing." Youyou has a love and talent for this aspect, so I am also in favor of her choosing to enter CCTV, and she can learn a lot here. ”
The only drawback after work is that it is difficult for the two to get together in their rest time, so they especially cherish the rare leisure moments. They have a tacit agreement to "walk six kilometers together" and walk six kilometers from home. Along the way, the two people occasionally talked, Youyou wore headphones to listen to songs, and his mother watched the scenery all the way, and the breeze blew through, which was the most beautiful time.
COSMO: Speaking of shared memories with each other, what was the first image that popped up in your head?
Youyou: My mother especially likes to bring me boiled eggs, always afraid that I can't keep up with nutrition and can't eat enough, so she will bring me a boiled egg everywhere she goes.
Mom: One day we both drove to Wangjing to see a movie, and our daughter was wearing shorts and flip-flops and headphones singing out-of-tune songs. I was driving, the sky was gray, and I felt very beautiful when I thought about it.
COSMO: What do moms expect from their daughters professionally?
Mom: It's good to be a good journalist and journalist. It's a profession that can communicate with different people and can create indefinitely, which is never-ending and irreplaceable by other jobs. So I like it when she goes this way.
Attachment is an occupational disease that my mother "inherited" to me
#共享爱好 #
Mother: Liu Dan
Dance teacher, age 40+
Daughter: Wang Xuerou
dancer
In the 2019 variety show "Dance Storm", people remembered the dancer Wang Xuerou who reversed the trend because of "Confused Heart", and xuerou's mother under the stage also caused a lot of "beauty storm" in the bullet screen because of her outstanding temperament. They are usually "sisters" who stand together and make people "silly and unclear", and they are also partners in dance.
"I also want a mom who is a teacher." Because of Xue Rou's small "request", as an actor, her mother chose to turn into a dance teacher; it was also under the subtle influence that Xue Rou's feelings for dance gradually changed from a hobby to a professional ideal.
"I think girls need to learn dance and exercise their body shape, but when she told me that she wanted to learn dance as a profession, I was still very hesitant. In the future, the road to study and work has been cut off by more than half, and it will take great effort to have the hope of being seen. ”
Mother and daughter work in the same field, and it is natural to avoid professional "exchanges". The tangled problem encountered in rehearsals is a hot topic for mother and daughter, when the mother can always stand in the perspective of the dancer and the audience to give advice, "I will jump out and treat myself as an audience, because not all audience members can know very clearly what this body language is expressing, and feedback to her is more useful." 」 ”
The mother's occupational disease was also successfully "inherited" to the daughter, and the position of the mat during class and the formation obsessive-compulsive disorder during rehearsal did not fall.
In the mode of getting along with Xue Rou and her mother, she can be a "Xue'er" who seeks advice from her mother, or she can be a "Wang Xuegang" who is blessed with hard work. "In the past, I would give Xue Rou some professional advice, but now she will update my knowledge, more like a state of feedback." For example, I would learn from her movements that help me with flexibility and then teach my students to improve my muscles. These methods are indeed better to use than the original methods. It was also in this mutual inheritance that the two gradually became each other's Rolle Model.
COSMO: What are the most similarities between two people?
Xue Rou: If you look at the outside, it should be the eyes, and everyone says that we look exactly the same.
Mom: So let me talk about something else, we both have a tenacity and axial strength in the dance.
COSMO: What words best encapsulate each other's traits?
Snow Rouge: Perfectionism and the unknown girlish heart.
Mom: Persistent (very, very), emotional, and a little bit of boyishness.
COSMO: Two people with the same career, where is the biggest happiness?
Xue Rou: Even in the early hours of the morning, we can talk endlessly for an hour, without looking at the time.
Mom: You can see your own shadow in her.
When the aesthetic fit is high, the sense of happiness will explode
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Mom: Mom Miki
Be a dressing blogger with your daughter, aged 50+
Daughter: Miki
Fashion blogger
"In fact, my mother is a person who is not very willing to face the camera, and everyone's praise and recognition have encouraged her." Most of the social media shows young people wearing, but if we search for mother-daughter clothing, we can definitely see Miki and her mother in different scenes of temperament street photography.
In 2017, Miki, who had just become a full-time blogger, began to drag his mother to appear in front of street shots from time to time. The practical color scene collocation has gained a group of followers, and also allowed Miki to gain 120W+ Weibo fans.
When Miki and his mother were filming on the street, they often met fans who came up to say hello and said that they would shoot with their daughters/mothers in the future. "Maybe this is how many people are encouraged to think that their mother can dress up beautifully at this age, and then they also want mother and daughter to take pictures together."
"Fashion blogger's mom" is just a simple seven-word title, but it is inexplicably easy to arouse people's curiosity. Miki's mother was a style icon in her youth, and was Hollywood star Julia Roberts. The neutral, fashionable, low-key high-end elegant tone occupies the entire wall of Miki's mother's wardrobe, and also affects miki's growing aesthetic tastes along the way.
"My favorite photo of my mom from more than a decade ago. In the photo, she wears a small white top hat and an off-white tight knit shirt with a long skirt with black polka dots on a white background underneath. I remember that the long dress was designed by herself and then made by a tailor, and it was specially matched with a pair of white lambskin flat shoes. This set is particularly good-looking, it is a slightly neutral but very feminine, and very comfortable spontaneous temperament. "A little more comfortable, a little more casual, a little less saturated color - this is the principle of dressing that Miki's mother has always adhered to, and it is also the main tone of Miki's daily sharing of clothing on self-media." And my mother always didn't forget to nag more: "Thin is king!" ”
Miki and her mother usually have the habit of archiving street pictures, and also have the habit of collecting items online and wanting to buy items, and their aesthetic overlap in daily life is very, very high. "Many times when we share the pictures we collect, we find that many of the clothes we want to buy are exactly the same."
Regarding the issue of dress, they have a heated discussion almost every day, and Miki says that he often asks his mother where he is not sure, and he always has a great idea. Sometimes when they see a beautiful dress on the road, they will go directly up to ask together, and when they ask, they will buy it. "In fact, my mother is a very receptive person, although for some of the younger styles, she will not try herself, but she is very willing to accept and appreciate, will see a lot, the span is very wide." 」
"Taking photos and sharing together is a great way to enhance your relationship." Miki said, "There are many, many small things to communicate in the process, but it makes me and my mother know each other better and be more considerate of each other in more and more frequent exchanges." In fact, before her mother did not particularly accept the job of fashion blogger, for a long time, she felt as if Miki had been playing. It wasn't until later that she really participated in this work, learned about the triviality and hardship of this job, and knew that this job needed a lot of thought, and taking pictures was far more than just taking pictures...
"Mom loves beauty and is very hardworking. She can cook a big table of dishes, and she can clean up the house spotlessly every day, but I won't. But she will help me in life, and we can share the beauty together in front of the camera, which is very happy. ”
COSMO: What is the type of relationship between you?
Miki: Also a teacher and a friend. When I was a child, I was a mentor and listened to my mother. As I grew up, we communicated more and more, and my mom respected my ideas more and more.
COSMO: To create a harmonious style of "mother and daughter in the same frame", which piece is best to start with?
Miki: Natural capture works best. If you match the same frame, you can do some echoes, which can be accessories or local colors. For example, the color of my mother's hat and the color of my shoes echoed the color of my shoes. You can do a kind of collocation and echo on two people, which can be more harmonious and have a sense of wholeness.
COSMO: Are there any classic pairings to recommend?
Miki: One was taken in the winter, my mother wore a black, I wore a red, and then the photographer grabbed that one very naturally, and there was a red and black visual impact overall.
There was also one that we took when we went to Jeju Island, in front of a cabin coffee shop by the sea. The place is particularly beautiful, in the photo, I am wearing a blue sweater and white pants, and my mother is wearing a set of earth colors.
These mother-daughter relationships,
It's not the same as what the script says...
Who says there's only one script for a mom and daughter story? In fact, even if you don't cross, the coolness of the mothers is something you can't imagine. Let's get closer to four pairs of "non-everyday" mothers and daughters, and you will be amazed: you can still do such a fun thing with your mother!
The grown-up children's book god mother vs the daughter of the ancient book master
Share Method: Publish a book with your mom
Mother: Qin Wenjun, writer
Daughter: Dai, a young writer
"Every work I work with is very important to me." Several children's books co-published by Qin Wenjun and Dai Qianyuan's mother and daughter have been loved by generations of young readers. "Because those works were first certified by me," daughter Dai Haoyuan recalled her mother's experience of writing "Inspiration Muse + Little Military Division" more than 20 years ago, and said proudly.
In order to divert his daughter's fear, Qin Wenjun carefully made up a set of "hair washing stories": each time he told a paragraph, he knew what would happen later, and listened to the next wash of hair to decompose. Qin Wenjun recorded this series of "hair washing stories", which was the best-selling children's book "Naughty Days" for 20 years.
The manuscript decided to be published, lacking a set of illustrations, the editor of the publishing house came to the door with a flower and solemnly came to the door and "invited the drawing" to Xiao Haoyuan, and the little girl promised on the spot: "A small matter!" I'll paint. This led to the first time that the mother and daughter partnered to publish a book.
Every time Qin Wenjun went home on a business trip, Xiao Xiangyuan would always tell her about what happened when her mother was away, so she had a series of children's books "Xiao Xianggu"; Qin Wenjun, who liked little bears when she was young, so her mother Qin Wenjun planned the children's book "Little Bear Buns", which was written by her daughter Who was studying for a doctorate in finance at the time.
In the collision of creative inspiration, the mother and daughter seem to go back to many years ago, the bear bun can smell all kinds of smells, the two not only let the bear smell of happiness, the smell of loneliness, but also the smell of horse ass essence, the smell of fart worms... Haunting said: "I think of the fart worms in life, if you can smell it, it is probably the kind of smell that can't be shaken off." ”
Nowadays, He has made great achievements in the study of ancient books, has an old and pedantic soul, and is called "Master Dai" by his mother every day; in the eyes of his daughter, his mother's heart will always live with a child who has not grown up, and this childlike perspective is becoming more and more precious in today's society. Who knows what kind of works the "master and child" in the mother-daughter heart will bring us in the future?
Chao Cool Love Brain Mom vs Yan Control Daughter
Share Method: Dating mom
Mother: Sister He
Daughter: Doudou, CEO of an educational institution
"My mom knew I was in love, and the first question was: 'Handsome or not?' Show me the photos! Doudou described the relationship with his mother: plastic mother and daughter, real girlfriend.
"Don't call it Auntie, Sister Jianghu." Sister He, who has a certain "status" in the jianghu, received an invitation from the "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" program group, called the "girlfriend" daughter Doudou for the first time: "If you want to go, you have to go with me, I stand alone on the platform and don't pull a few." As girlfriends, it is natural to insert a knife in the ribs of the sisters' lifelong events, and Doudou is obligated to do so, so they have become the first "dating mother and daughter" in the "Do Not Disturb" program.
On the show, Sister He wore a cheongsam, and this classical Chinese beauty look attracted a foreign male guest on the field, and Sister He was selected by him as a heartwarming girl. "My mother is not a Chinese woman in the traditional sense at all, she is young and fashionable." Doudou said bluntly that at that time, the male guest was blinded by his mother's appearance.
"I and my mother find the same standard as the other half, to be tall and handsome, to be able to play basketball, to sing well..." Good guys, mother and daughter get together with the appearance association, the biggest daily worry is: "Don't look at the last person, grab the boyfriend!" ”
As a daughter, Doudou actually knows that her mother has paid a lot for herself before: "In these years of being single, she has armed herself indestructibly, and when she moved, she carried the sofa upstairs by herself... Until one day, I found out that she was in love, and it turned out to be a little woman. ”
Seeing that the mother of the 6-figure head can still devote herself to love and reveal the side of a little woman, Doudou feels sincerely happy. What does the ideal mother's other half look like? In addition to being able to meet the requirements of "girlfriends" for appearance, Doudou thought that "he must love her very, very very much".
Domineering president + net red mom vs big factory girl
Share Method: Work with mom
Mom: @I'm Capricorn
Daughter: @Gemini Baby, Jamie, blogger
After studying for eight years, I returned to China and found that my mother was a well-known Internet celebrity? Online articles do not dare to make up like this! This episode happened to Jamie. During the epidemic last year, Jamie worked with her mother, giving her the opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of her mother's entrepreneurial landscape, and also saw the other side of "the daily rice oil and salt at home, but also the mother's all-out efforts outside".
From the ordinary people with dozens of fans, to the dressed parenting bloggers who can also be recognized by small fans when walking on the road; from 0 basic 0 experience Taobao stores, to growing into the top 500 store owners in the Taobao clothing category; whether it is Weibo in the home of young people, Xiaohongshu as an Internet celebrity, or e-commerce entrepreneurship and live broadcasting, my mother asked herself that every step is just out of love and heart, there is no so-called "long-term planning". As for how to accurately step on the Internet outlet at every step? This makes Jamie, a daughter from a professional strategic investment consulting background, also call "insider".
"Last year, because of the epidemic, the whole atmosphere was particularly depressing, so I thought it would be better to share some interesting things with the fans and make them happy." So the mother pulled up the three daughters who worked from home because of the epidemic, and the mother and daughter four broadcast live every weekend. Unlike other e-commerce pure selling live broadcasts, their fans crouched in front of the mobile phone screen with relish, just to watch the mother and daughter family share daily fun things such as travel, life, and shopping.
The "terrible" work rhythm of mom e-commerce entrepreneurship makes the daughter of the big factory work out of reach, from supply chain production to sales to after-sales, busy until the early morning is a common thing. "My mom averages a meal in 10 minutes, turns her head and goes to work." Influenced by her mother, Jamie has now become a qualified "10-minute cooker".
Jamie noticed that the internet gangster quotes that were painted on the public account were exactly what her mother practiced with actions every day. For example, Zhang Yiming, the founder of ByteDance, said that reading at least 10 user feedback every day, the first thing her mother did when she got up every day was to read the buyer's comments. The mother's enthusiasm for work not only infected her daughter, but even affected her future planning, and "working with her mother and growing up together" has been officially included in Jamie's career wish list.
Ancient Girl Mother vs Second Dimension Big Daughter
Share method: Hanfu Play with mom
Mom: Kasumi
Daughter: Your Royal Highness, Cosplay player
Cosplay, Lolita Wind... The mother cherishes her daughter's two-dimensional attributes at all stages from childhood to adulthood, "For her hobbies, I have always respected her, and I hope she has fun." Under the influence of her daughter Wu Highness, her mother has also become a maverick "2.5-dimensional" among her peers, and she has a good understanding of the two-dimensional culture that young people are addicted to, and the mother and daughter have also filmed Hanfu blockbusters together.
In addition to wearing Hanfu to shoot out the film, His Highness Wu usually does some handicrafts related to Hanfu, such as headdresses and ancient props during shooting, etc. Since pulling her mother into the pit together, the family has another powerful "handicraft god": her mother will study with her how to match better, and now she can personally help her daughter make a single product.
His Highness Wu still remembers that when he was a child, he loved to wear a bed sheet and fantasized that he was a fairy in a costume drama, and this kind of beauty-loving fantasy personality is difficult to say that it is not inherited from his mother. Wearing Hanfu only once and countless times, Hanfu's first experience opened the door to a new world for the mother: from quietly watching her daughter chase her dreams, to now the mother and daughter are addicted to it, and the mother and daughter Hanfu Look is still in the circle for a while. His Highness Wu said that many friends in the Hanfu circle do not get the understanding and support of their families: "They see that my mother not only supports my hobbies, but also takes pictures with me, which can be said to be very envious!" And on the mother's side, after several relatives watched, they even began to secretly ask their daughter to dress up and take pictures.
His Highness Wu's mother and daughter proved by themselves that the dimensional wall is used to break! Everyone is equal in front of hobbies, the daughter can be a little fairy who has crossed over in ancient times, and the mother can also be a beautiful and innocent little girl.
Editors: Gong Zheyi, He Zhiyang
Text: Wang Mumu, Bao Xiaoxia, He Zhiyang, Kuang Ying
Photography: Bao Yanzhou, Xie Tian, Yunmo -Bao Bao
Makeup and hair: Ye Lily, Xue Ning, Liu Xiaolin, Han Hao
Costume styling: Elio Wang, Wu Zhuoxin
Vision: Yuqing
Illustrator: Shu Xiaoni
Editorial Assistants: Kiki, Zoe Shan
Design: Delay
This article is an excerpt from the May 2021 issue of Fashion COSMO
"The Things I Shared with My Mom"
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