Exploring the Enneagram is like getting a magical key and opening a door to the heart.
What to explore today is: the carefree number seven.
No. 7 in the crowd, his eyes are agile, he looks smiling and kind, and he is energetic. Positivity is full of curiosity about the world.
Want a happy adventure? Fasten your seat belt oh~
Carefree Peter Pan, if attracted to others, he is very good at using happiness to tempt others to go with him.
One day Peter Pan went to capture his own shadow and was attracted to Wendy, who was good at storytelling, so he decided to take her to Neverland. He said to Wendy: I can teach you to ride the wind and whistle away.
When Wendy wants to take her two younger brothers with her, she will also tempt her brothers to take them with her. When I saw that they were worried about leaving their parents, I would tell them: There are mermaids , and Indians , pirates
The two younger brothers could not resist the temptation to leave, and when they saw Wendy still hesitant, they would tell her in her ear: "Forget them, forget them all, and follow me to a place where you never have to grow up." ”
If you have been seduced by his seeming harmlessness, but "fasten your seat belt" to protect yourself, because this may be a dangerous thing.
He will be oblivious to his own goals and will not even know who you are when he seduces the other party.
After flying into space, Peter Pan asked One of Wendy's younger brothers, "Who are you?" ”
After arriving at Neverland, she was busy taking Wendy to share happiness with her friends, and the confused Wendy almost forgot her brothers. It wasn't until Wendy remembered that there were two other people who had been lost when they arrived at Neverland and were attacked by Captain Hook.
No. 7 way to escape pain
Peter Pan takes Wendy to see the elves dancing, and the two of them are very happy, and when the love is deep, he suddenly says to Wendy, "These are all fakes, right?" ”
Wendy asked him: What are the real feelings?
He instantly changed his face "Love? I've never heard of it, never, I feel sick just hearing it. Why are you upset? Didn't we have a great time? I teach you to fight and fly, what else is there in this world? I don't want to grow up, you can't force me, or I'll banish you like a banish jingle! ”
No. 7, who laughs and giggles every day, will immediately change his face if he feels the restriction. It's as if you never knew this person. In fact, it is not his real indifference and desperation, but his way of isolating pain. He actually wanted Wendy to stay with him.
Peter Pan left and went to Wendy's house. Seeing Wendy's parents waiting by the window with their windows open for Wendy to return, he gambled and closed the window as if Wendy would stay with him and not leave.
Why Peter Pan never saw Wendy again after sending wendy home – the responsibility of the 7th
The secret to Peter Pan's magic is that he can fly if he thinks of something happy. "Happiness" is his magic.
Captain Hook asked Wendy, "If Petpan had been sad, would he have fallen too?" "When he was fighting, he told Pete Pan that Wendy was leaving him, that she would rather grow up than accompany you, and Peter Pan lost his fighting power in that instant, and was wounded by Captain Hooke and fell into endless sorrow.
In the end, Peter Pan sent the children of the island home with the Wendy siblings. Let the children on the island have mom and dad, but they never see Wendy again.
Happiness was the source of his magic, and that was why he couldn't grow up.
Wendy must grow up, and growing up is a terrible thing in Peter Pan's eyes, as if nothing is right, many things will be a mess, and some beautiful and simple things will gradually be forgotten, leaving only the worldly distractions. Gradually losing happiness, the body will become heavier and heavier and can no longer fly.
He couldn't grow up with her, and never seeing each other again was probably the best gift for each other.
At the beginning of the film, Peter Pan tells that he lives with the lost boys, they are really lost, children who are accidentally removed by the nurse, and will be sent to Neverland within 7 days without being adopted.
I prefer to believe that it is Peter Pan's responsibility to have happiness, so it is not that he does not want to grow up, but that he cannot grow up.
At the end of the film, he says, "Being alive is the greatest adventure." ”
Peter Pan, who seems carefree, also has his own helplessness. Whether he doesn't want to grow up or can't grow up, he's already quietly grown up.