01
Let's start with a police report.
Ali female employee Zhou Mou was violated, and in the noise of disturbance, she finally waited for the police investigation report.
Realistically speaking, the facts released by the police are similar to the 8,000-word anonymous report long article previously published by Ali female employees on the Internet.
But in terms of details, there are some discrepancies.
For example, about being forced to travel on business and being "drunk".
Zhou's self-report is yes, but the police investigation results are not.
For example, the room card is not stolen, but confirmed by the hotel front desk to Zhou.
For example, rape, insufficient evidence.
There are many similar discrepancies, and @China News Network has also produced a schedule for us.
Sorting out the context of the incident, everyone inevitably has to come up with question marks one by one:
Wang Mouwen, who has already gone downstairs and is about to leave, why does he still hold Zhou's ID card?
Zhou Mou, who was still drunk and could not confirm his room number, how to confirm and agree to the front desk to apply for his room card for Zhou?
Why did Zhou contact Zhang, who had molested himself in a hotel on the 27th, on the morning of the 28th, and tell him the room number?
On the morning of the 28th, Zhang Mou was in Zhou Mou's room for more than one and a half hours, why did Zhang only take away one pair of Zhou Mou's underwear after molesting Zhou Mou, but left the condom (unopened) that he took to the hotel and left it in the hotel?
Why did Zhou want to check out first and then call the police, and only accuse Wang Mouwen at that time, but did not mention Zhang Mou?
But no matter how much you have any doubts, one thing is clear:
Wang Mouwen, who is the leader, and Zhang Mou, a supplier, are both suspected of forced indecency and have been subjected to criminal compulsory measures.
As for whether there is any catnip in the meantime, I believe that with the deepening of the police investigation, it will eventually be revealed to the world.
As far as the information released by the police is concerned, in addition to the fact that it is approaching step by step, there is a man who is actually very worthy of our attention.
In his briefing, he was brushed over.
However, in the mouth of netizens, he has become the person who should be praised most in this infringement case.
He is Zhou's husband, the man who stands behind his wife and always supports her.
In the eyes of the world, no matter what the cause, when faced with the problem of sexual assault, it is difficult for women to have the courage to make it public, let alone get the unreserved support of their husbands.
After all, in a way, men will feel more humiliated and more difficult to talk about.
As a result, we also saw that Zhou's husband did not give in half a bit, not only let his wife quickly call the police, but also always think about his wife.
The phrase "You did nothing wrong, I will always love you" is enough to make us respect him.
No wonder some netizens will issue such an exclamation:
"Behind the abuse of Ali's female employees, I only saw that she had a good husband, which is very important."
No matter what you encounter, you will find your husband for the first time, which is the most basic trust.
And when you make that phone call, you will know that he will definitely stand by your side and accompany you to bear the burden, rather than not dare to fight, afraid of being accused of more. ”
there is an old saying Chinese: Husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when the great trouble comes.
We certainly believe in the uncomplaining and regretlessness of two hearts in marriage, but sometimes we have to consider the complex side of human nature.
Can the person who can accompany you to share your happiness accompany you to share your suffering?
Can the person who sweetly talks to you join hands with you?
02
The story of Zhou and her husband reminds me of a case that lawyer Liu Yan talked about in the "Genius Catcher Project".
Liu Liang (pseudonym) and Xu Xiaojing (pseudonym) are a young couple from the countryside.
Liu Yan will never forget the scene when he first met them.
In the hot summer, Liu Liang wore short sleeves, and he could not avoid the ripples of sweat.
Xu Xiaojing wore a thick cotton jacket and kept fighting the Cold War.
This woman's heart was too cold.
They were originally a happy little couple who had a pair of children.
Although the living conditions are a little bitter, both people are diligent people, and the small life is simple and fulfilling.
But one night, bad luck swept through the family.
Xu Xiaojing came home from work at night and was violated by two men.
From that moment on, this woman, who was always smiling, had lost all color on her face.
She felt that she was "not clean", sorry for her husband, and even more sorry for the family.
"I'm dirty, you throw me out."
This was the first sentence Liu Liang heard when he came home that day to see his wife.
Looking at his wife in the collapse, Liu Liang's heart was also falling, and he was eager to tear up the two scum.
At the moment of shaking the gods, Liu Liang's first reaction was to hug his wife.
"If I don't protect her, I'll lose my whole family."
After that, he accompanied his wife to the police and found a lawyer.
No matter how much his wife had concerns and how much fear he had, he always stayed by her side.
Because we are in the countryside, our ideological concepts are relatively backward.
When their relatives learned that this "family ugly" was about to be publicized, they came to them and asked them to stop it.
Even Xu Xiaojing's father said to them angrily:
"This kind of unsavory thing should rot in the stomach, turn it out and smell smelly, and you still hire a lawyer with great fanfare and chew it with relish!"
But Liu Liang blocked all the bullets for his wife:
"I'm not going to let you humiliate my wife with my face and throw dirty water with outsiders."
Later, a defendant's lawyer wanted to bribe Liu Liang and his wife with money, and Liu Liang gritted his teeth and said:
"No matter how much money you can't buy the only truth, I respect my wife, she says whatever she wants."
Then the other party looked for water on the Internet to slander Xu Xiaojing, saying that she was an unclean woman.
Liu Liang simply registered an account online, and replied to netizens who were unknown one by one.
Total disregard for the overwhelming ridicule:
"There's a green above your head, and you're out galloping."
"As a husband, incompetent, as a man, is a twin."
……
In the gossip, Xu Xiaojing thought about self-severance more than once, but each time Liu Liang pulled her back from the edge of the cliff.
Finally, at Liu Liang's insistence, both criminals went to prison.
A year later, lawyer Liu Yan went to visit the couple, and he saw such a scene:
"I went to buy vegetables with them, Xu Xiaojing had sharp teeth, bargained with big mom, and asked big mom to send a few green onions."
Finally, lawyer Liu Yan sincerely praised:
"Liu Liang has no higher education and was born in an ordinary village, but almost every choice he makes is right."
Because in sexual assault cases, it is often the relatives around them who can really get the victim out of the shadows.
But in the hundreds of cases that Liu Yan handled, there are very few families that can really help the victims out of the shadows.
Therefore, Zhou Mou and Xu Xiaojing are lucky.
From their husbands, you can see an important trait that a husband should have:
In addition to love, there must also be the righteousness of liver and gallbladder.
A sentient and righteous man, when he does anything, the first thing he thinks about must not be himself, but not to let the other party be hurt.
This is a woman's greatest asset in marriage.
03
Recently, we have eaten too many scumbag melons on the Internet.
The phrase "a man's mouth, a deceitful ghost" seems to have become a curse hanging over marriage and love.
So, what exactly is it that makes love crash?
Director Shen Keshang once spent 7 years with 8 couples, using a documentary "Happiness Freeze Frame" to tell us:
"Those who laughed and married love, how did they cry later?"
One of them impressed me very much.
My wife's mother was sick and she wanted to see it.
But because the in-laws also need to be taken care of, she can't take care of them.
Exhausted, she often felt wronged.
The wife wants solace from her husband, wants him to stand with her and not deal with her and his parents on his behalf.
But the husband said to himself:
"I know everything, but please know that I'm a boy."
What do you mean?
Probably, I know it's hard for you, but I'm hard for me.
As a husband, I need to go out to fight the world, and as a wife, you naturally have to help me take care of my family.
At that moment, the wife felt isolated.
Once the sea vowed to the mountain alliance, said good to rely on each other, but in the end lived alone.
Two people can come together because of love, but it is a kind of "friendship" that allows you to go on forever.
Therefore, when the director finally reflects on the way he and his wife get along, he will say those words:
"I thought about it later, the key is because I took her as my wife, so I felt that I would use the husband's method of wife to communicate, so after cutting "Happiness Freeze Frame" later, I slowly changed a way, that is, I came home every day to see my wife and I kept saying to myself in my heart, she is not my wife, she is my friend.
If she were my friend, you wouldn't expect your friend to do something, you wouldn't feel like it's right for a friend to have to do something. You will feel that what your friend needs, I will listen, I can help. ”
In other words, husband and wife are not only intimate lovers, but also comrades-in-arms who cooperate with each other.
When the lover needs help, reach out, rather than leaving her alone to bear;
When the lover is wronged, give her comfort and encouragement, rather than preaching and judging;
When the lover needs to prove herself, give her trust and wait, rather than ignoring it.
A man can have no money or be unromantic, but he must have the righteousness of solidarity.
Like the ancient vow that has been passed down through the ages:
Married as a husband and wife, love and love are unswerving; life should return, death should be Sauvignon Blanc.
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