Chinese twenty friendships, each of which is touching.
From ancient times to the present, friendship has always been one of the most beautiful feelings between people. Today, let's take stock of the 20 kinds of friendships handed down from ancient times, and see how many you have.
1. The friendship of cloth
[Source] "History of Lian Po Lin Xiang Xiang Biography": "The subject thinks that the friendship between the cloth and the clothes is not deceitful, and the situation is big. ”
[Interpretation] refers to the friendship between ordinary people. Cloth clothes, the clothes of ordinary people in the old days.
2. Friendship of tribulation
[Source] "Drunken Awakening Stone": "Pu Zhifu's friend of suffering, today's younger brother looks at him for us, and the other day we also look at him on behalf of the younger brother." ”
[Interpretation] refers to friends who have lived through troubles and hardships together and made in adversity.
3. Poor and lowly friends
[Source] "Later Han Shu And Song Hong's Biography": "Hongyue: The courtiers must not forget the friendship of the poor and the lowly, and the wives of the chaff do not go to the church." ”
[Interpretation] refers to the close friends made when they were poor.
4. The friendship of wine and meat
【Source】 Tang Dynasty Shi Yiwu's "Travels to Wenshui County Meet Li Shaofu": "For the jun three days to abolish the trip, a county official is a wine friend." ”
[Interpretation] Also known as "wine and meat friends", it refers to friends who do not do their proper work and only know how to get together to eat, drink and have fun.
5. The intersection of gold and stone
[Source] "Book of Han and Biography of marquis of Huaiyin": "Although Jinzuxia thought that he was a golden stone with the King of Han, he was eventually captured by the King of Han. ”
[Interpretation] refers to a friend whose friendship is as deep as a golden stone.
6. The intersection of pestle and mortar
[Source] "Later Han Shu Wu You Biography": "Shi Gong Sha Mu Dong traveled to Taixue, had no food, but changed his servants and servants, and was a servant for You. You and Yu were shocked, so they and Gongding were handed over between the rods and mortars. Later generations used the term "friendship between pestle and mortar" to refer to making friends without distinction between noble and lowly.
[Interpretation] refers to friends made regardless of whether they are rich or lowly. Pestle: Sticks and mortars of the rice.
7. The friendship of the past
[Source] Tang Dynasty Du Xunhe's "Visiting Cai Rongyin": "Whenever I see a hard work to repair a good thing, I have not tried to open my mouth to complain and make peace." ”
[Interpretation] refers to friends made in the past.
8. Eight prayers
【Source】 In the Song Dynasty Shao Bowen's "Smelling the Previous Record", Li Ji visited Wen Yanbo.
[Interpretation] refers to the brothers and sisters who worshiped with different surnames in the old days as the friends of the eight worships.
Eight prayers, the ancient etiquette of the children of the world to meet the elders.
9. General friendship
[Source] Song Dynasty Zhu Xi's "Zhuzi Language Class": "Friends make friends, inherent depth, if the friendship is general, one by one must be circumvented, and it is not possible." ”
[Interpretation] refers to friends who have a general relationship and do not have deep friendships.
10. One-sided friendship
【Source】 Han Dynasty Cui Yu's "Theory of the Book": "And the theory of the phase of the world is also a matter of one-sided friendship, and the decision of Zang is determined to be negative." ”
[Interpretation] refers to a friend who has only met once and has not been deeply friends.
11. A gentleman's friend
[Source] "Zhuangzi Shanmu": "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is as sweet as liquor." ”
[Interpretation] refers to the friendship between the sages, plain as water, not yet vain.
12. The intersection of the neck
[Source] "History of Lian Po Lin Xiang Xiang Biography": "The car phase and the joy are the friends of the neck." ”
[Interpretation] refers to a friend who does not change his heart even if he loses his head.
13. Forgetting the form
【Source】New Book of Tang Dynasty, Biography of Mengjiao:
"Less hidden Song Mountain, sex introduction, less harmony, Han Yue yi see, forgetting the form of intercourse."
[Interpretation] refers to friends who agree with each other and are informal.
14. The Friendship of rebirth
[Source] "Song Shi Shao Bowen Biography": "Berwyn entered the father's teachings, and out of the matter Sima Guang, etc., and Guang and others also condescended to the throne, and berwyn for the next life." ”
[Interpretation] refers to the friendship with both father and son.
15. The intersection of glue paint
【Source】 The story of Chen Zhong and Lei Yi of the Eastern Han Dynasty is a classic.
The Book of the Later Han Dynasty records that Chen Zhong and Lei Yi were two gentlemen of high moral character and self-denial in Yuzhang Commandery (present-day Nanchang, Jiangxi) during the Eastern Han Dynasty, and the two were close friends, and at that time people praised "glue paint called itself strong, not as good as Lei and Chen." Later, the metaphor of "Chen Lei glue paint" was extremely deep.
[Interpretation] refers to the intimate, deep and difficult friendship between friends.
Glue and lacquer are the two most sticky things, feeling in the heart, fit in the line, kissing the glue paint, Kundi can not be separated.
16. The Friendship of Bamboo and Horse
【Source】 "The World Speaks New Language, Fangzheng": "Emperor Yue: Is it good to talk about the old and reminisce about the bamboo horse?" ”
[Interpretation] Also known as "the good of bamboo horses", it refers to the friends made when they were young.
Bamboo horse refers to a child riding a bamboo pole under his crotch as a horse, which is used to refer to juvenile.
17. No adverse friendship
[Source] "Zhuangzi, Grand Master": "Four people look at each other and laugh, do not rebel against their hearts, and then they are friends."
[Interpretation] refers to friends who have the same taste and are very good.
Inverse, opposite. No reversal, consistency.
18. Forget the year
[Source] "Nanshi He Xun Biography": "Nanxiang Fan Yun saw the Sun's countermeasures, greatly praised, because of the marriage and forgetting the year. ”
[Interpretation] Refers to friends who have formed deep friendships regardless of their age.
19. The friendship of the heart
[Source] Bai Juyi of the Tang Dynasty," "Daishu Poems One Hundred Rhymes and Micro Rhymes": "The lungs are all separated, and the shapes and skeletons are not bound."
[Interpretation] refers to friends who have nothing to talk about and push their hearts.
20. The turn of the car
[Source] Jin Dynasty Zhou's "Records of Customs": "Although Qing took a ride and I wore a hat, I met the day after tomorrow and got off the car; I walked, the king rode on a horse, and he met the king every day." ”
【Interpretation】 Making friends between rich people and people without money is called "friendship of car kasa", which refers to friends who are not noble and lowly.