First, what is too rational is not love
Da Zhang Wei has always been called "sober in the world", and blurting out his feelings is a series of golden sentences. Don't look at his "superficial" appearance, dyed with colorful hair, wearing fancy clothes, but hiding a hot and sincere soul, with a deep and affectionate feeling that you have never seen before.
For feelings, he is always in a word, and there are many unique solutions.
He said: "I have always felt that the reason why a cold person has always been cold is because he has not met someone he likes, as long as a cold person meets a person he likes, wears sunglasses for a lifetime, and the lenses can be broken." Love is not rational, and reason means not loving enough. ”
When it comes to ideas, love to the depths, a bit like a moth to a fire, do not care about anything, this is probably the depth of love can not help themselves.
In this world, there are more routines and less sincerity. Dare to love and dare to do frankly, it is precisely the scarcity of the world.
Second, dare to confess in public, which is precisely the expression of deep love
One of the manifestations of frankness is to be responsible, willing to disclose your object, and use attitude to show the cherishing and respect for the relationship.
Yang Meng'en's on-site marriage proposal in the "Talk Show Convention Season 4" made the other actors in the same competition excited and burst into applause of blessings. Yang Meng'en proved what courage is commendable with his actions, saying: "There are no natural good people, only bound civilized people." ”
He hopes to use this move to surprise his girlfriend and also give himself a strong psychological hint, after all, the Internet has a memory, and what Yang Mengen said may be turned over in the future. In order not to roll over and punch his face, Yang Meng'en had to do what he said and practice his love for his other half.
It can be said that Yang Meng'en put a romantic sweet tight spell on himself. Yang Meng'en loved his other half enough to dare to confess in public.
Third, I would rather be scaled all over the body than be vigorous
In the vast sea of people, every relationship has a shelf life, no one knows what will happen in the next second, but it is also advisable to love once with an unreserved attitude, after all, life is only once, and the experience is priceless. As long as you can afford it, try it.
In "Paradise Tour", his ex-wife Lin Yi hurt Song Yi carp very deeply, and although Song Yi carp was uncomfortable, he never forgot it. He understood why his ex-wife did this, just because he didn't want to let go.
There was no way, he couldn't afford to give his wife the life she wanted, and that was the reason for her to leave.
From sharing a dinner plate in college, studying together late at night, hugging each other at weddings, those good times are torn apart by the sharp blade of reality.
From the campus to the wedding dress, they should have had a happy day, but they stopped abruptly when they first started.
After only half a year of marriage, Song Yili's mother had cerebral hemorrhage and was often delirious. In order to take care of his mother, Song Yili quit his high-paying job and went home to take over his mother's small restaurant, drive a van, buy raw materials, and get busy. Even if the business is bad, it does not close the door, because you can take care of your mother.
The problem is that the mother's condition shows no signs of improvement, and even from time to time incontinence, Lin Yi can't stand it, and begins to run away from home, and every month he will send a text message asking Song Yili to register for divorce together.
Song Yili could not save Lin Yi's departure, but he did not regret it after loving it. Those moments of powerlessness are precisely evidence of love.
Suddenly, the writer Li Yinhe said: "What can really bring you happiness is love, not other things." ”
Deeply believed, this is also the meaning of the existence of love. The good and the bad are all carved in life.
In feelings, many people are unhappy because they cling to the illusion of not getting it, clinging to the illusion of perfection.
Those who live thoroughly understand: spring wind is ten miles, spring forest is beginning to flourish, if you love, please love deeply, if it hurts, you will leave in a dashing manner.
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