Fukuhara loves to think about the marriage change, can the marriage of Ge Cha still end well?
Regarding Fukuhara's marital status, it has now developed to the point where Both Wenchun and Female 7 have begun to break the news.
Although according to the available information, it can be inferred that Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie should not have divorced, but from various "responses" and "insider disclosures", it is not difficult to see that the relationship between the two has indeed appeared.
The marriage incident began and ended
This incident originally originated from the clues found by Leeuwenhoek netizens: Ai Sauce announced that it had shifted its career focus to Japan, and it seemed that none of them had recently worn wedding rings, and Weibo was rarely @ Jiang Hongjie.
On February 18, some Japanese netizens speculated in the comments: "Divorced? "Divorced."
On the Chinese side, Douban also gave God's prediction on February 21.
After noticing that something was wrong, netizens began to care about Fukuhara Ai's recent situation on Weibo, such as asking why he did not wear a wedding ring, saying that he wanted to form a group to beat Jiang Hongjie, and so on.
In the face of suspicions about the marriage change, Fukuhara Ai replied that he did not wear a wedding ring because of his work, and also gave Jiang Hongjie a birthday celebration through Facebook on February 22.
Jiang Hongjie directly accepted an interview with reporters at the press conference on February 25, saying that Ai Fukuhara went to Japan because of the Tokyo Olympics and would return in March, which made netizens think that it was a false alarm.
(Source: Boo Xingwen video)
However, immediately after, on February 25, female 7 broke the news that people familiar with the matter said that the two had separated.
However, on the Lantern Festival on the 26th, Jiang Hongjie shared a photo of his parents eating tangyuan with Fukuhara Ai's mother on Weibo, and @ Fukuhara Ai.
At this time, the two should not want the marriage change to cause too much discussion, so they have debunked their own rumors with zero interaction.
However, because Fukuhara Ai has a high reputation in both China and Japan, coupled with the fact that this time the matter is reversed and reversed, it is really enough to satisfy the appetite of the melon-eating masses, so many newspapers and entertainment records have begun to dig up materials desperately.
So there was Wen Chun's march 3 revelations about the agreed divorce and the photo of the female 7 who said that it was suspected of being unrequited.
(Source: Wenchun Online)
On March 4, Ai Fukuhara posted a handwritten apology letter on the company's official website explaining the truth of the "date".
Jiang Hongjie also issued a statement saying that "my love for Xiao Ai has not changed from the first day of understanding to the present", and said that the two will continue to grind cultural differences.
(Source: Fukuhara Ai Company omusubi official website)
However, what I want to talk to you about today is not the marriage change of Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie, but a word that has been mentioned since the two got married - gecha marriage.
About the marriage of the grid
As early as when Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie talked about marriage, gecha marriage became a label for them.
In August 2016, "Women Themselves" broke the news that the Japanese Table Tennis Association wanted to prevent Ai Fukuhara from marrying Jiang Hongjie.
(Source: The picture above is the original text of "Women Themselves", and the picture below is the translation of "China Youth Network")
On the one hand, the reason for the block is that I hope that Ai Fukuhara will focus on table tennis as before, and then win glory for the country at the Tokyo Olympics. On the other hand:
Some cadres in the table tennis association are also not optimistic about the love affair between Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie, and some cadres revealed, "The Olympic Games were lost in the preliminary round of the group, Jiang Hongjie was one level lower than Fukuhara Ai, and the income gap was also very large, if you get married, you will definitely be said to be a "bad marriage." "
First explain to the small friends who are not familiar with this term what is called a poor marriage.
At first, "gecha" will be more paired with "society" to indicate the social situation of a large gap between rich and poor and a large class span, and then slowly begin to be paired with "marriage" and "love", to describe the huge gap between the two sides of marriage /love.
(Definition of "Gecha Marriage" on the "Japanese Colloquial Dictionary" on this Website)
This gap refers not only to wealth and income, but also to family lineage, status, fame, education or appearance.
At the same time, it can not only describe the situation that Fukuhara Ai is strong for women and weak for men, but also for marriages where men are extremely strong and women are extremely weak.
However, because Japan and even the three East Asian countries have a kind of marriage inertia thinking of "male and female protagonists", when "poor marriage" is mentioned in real life, it usually refers to the marriage of strong women and weak men, and sometimes it is linked to marriage and soft rice.
To take a classic example to help everyone get the word more sincerely, Rimi Ishihara and Kazunobu Tsushima in Takashima Kazumi is a typical gecha love.
(Nichiba, Takamine Flower)
In Japan, the celebrity couple known as the marriage of gecha is of course not only the pair of Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie. The Japanese media in 2017 took stock of the entertainment industry in the top 10 of the marriage, here is an introduction to the Chinese netizens are also more familiar with a few pairs.
Miyazaki Aoi and Takaoka Soyo
Aoi Miyazaki is a Japanese actress who is very familiar to everyone, whose representative works include "Tokuhime", "NANA", etc., and has won the Best Actress award of the Japanese Drama Academy Award many times, and is also very popular in Japan.
Takaoka received most of the roles he received after his debut, participating in "Battle Royale" and "Hot Blood College", and his most recent appearance seems to be in 2014 when he made a cameo appearance in "Sakura - The Woman Who Heard the Incident", and was later arrested in 2016 for injuring people in a fight.
On June 15, 2007, Aoi Miyazaki announced his naturalization with Takaoka Cangyou, and a wedding ceremony was held in July of the same year. On December 28, 2011, the two formally signed a divorce, ending a four-and-a-half-year marriage.
Anyu Yu-Yuwa Idota
On September 14, 2005, Anda Yumi and Jun Idoda married Bongko because she was pregnant. On January 9, 2009, they were officially divorced, and custody of their daughters was owned by Anda Yushi.
Anda Youshi's "Flower Night Road" is one of the popular materials edited by Station B, and she is still active in film and television dramas and CM as a child actress, and last year she starred in the TV series "Throw It Away, Ms. Anda" under her real name.
Jun Ida is a funny entertainer who can only be regarded as famous in Japan, and after divorcing Anda Yushi, he still often mentions his ex-wife and daughter on variety shows, and jokes: "When I mention each other (Anda Yushi) on TV, she will get angry." ”
Anda Yushi said in an interview with Akashi's saury about his past marriage: "There is no impression anymore, before I remarried, he constantly publicly expressed his desire to get back together, which really bothered me, and once made others dare not come after me." ”
Ryoko Hiromi and Candle June
Ryoko Hiroshi must not need to introduce it more, Ryoko's sister's two marriages can be counted as a gecha marriage, her first husband is called Takahiro Okazawa, is a model and designer, the two married in 2003, had a son, and then divorced in 2008.
Now there is not much information about Takahiro Okazawa on the internal and external networks, and the only thing that appears frequently is this wedding photo.
(Source: Google)
On October 8, 2010, Ryoko Hiromi married candle-making artist Candle June Bongko, giving birth in March 2011 and a daughter in March 2015.
Fujiwara Norika and Tomoyuki Jinuchi
In February 2007, Fujiwara Norika and Tomoko Shinuchi officially held their wedding ceremonies.
This pair is arguably the only couple on the list where both of them are more famous in Japan.
Although Fujiwara Norika has not been active in recent years, she is definitely familiar with her by older Chinese audiences, starring in "Three Sisters of Cat's Eye", "Spicy Teacher", and cooperating with Aaron Kwok in the Hong Kong film "Thunder X-Men".
People who like to watch the nikko may have seen the show of Tomotsunobu Jinnai, who produced a lot of sketch-type comedies in "God of Entertainment" and hosted "Jichael Mackson".
Fujiwara Norika could be regarded as an international actress in Japan at that time, even if Satoshi Shinuchi was not a nameless person, her status and income were much higher than those of Satoshi, in other words, the two were not a coffee at all.
"Katsuragi marriage" was originally used to refer to Fujiwara Norika's marriage, and at the marriage disclosure meeting at that time, Tomoyuki Jinnai personally said that this marriage was a Katsuragi marriage.
In March 2009, the two ended their marriage for more than two years and filed for divorce registration.
Disparity Marriage Japanese Society
Words such as gecha marriage and gecha love began to be widely used in Japanese society around 2007.
When the word became a proper noun and was accepted by the Japanese public, it also reflected that such marriages began to enter the mainstream perspective, rather than just a small marriage model of scattered one or two pairs.
As for the reason for the large-scale emergence of gecha marriages, it is fundamentally because after the economic turmoil in 1997, more Japanese women began to enter the workplace and have income and social status, and then the number of couples and couples with strong women and weak men began to gradually increase.
(Source: Number has a model)
Compared with other workplaces, Japan's art industry itself has many popular female stars with good looks and strength, so the situation of poor marriage is more likely to appear.
When female celebrities marry people who are inferior to their own in terms of popularity, income, coffee position, etc., the label of poor marriage will follow, unless the man has a great improvement after marriage, it is possible to tear off this label.
So what is the Japanese attitude towards marriage?
Judging from the discussion on the Japanese Internet, the attitude of society can be divided into two directions.
The first is the attitude of the Japanese Military Association and the Japanese media to Fukuhara's love marriage, which actually reflects the attitude of Japanese society towards the marriage of celebrities - questioning, or even not optimistic.
They feel that the weak side will use the resources and reputation of the strong side, such a marriage is a kind of self-consumption for the strong side, and the image is a bit like the "poverty alleviation marriage" in our eyes.
In the past few years, when Apricot and Higashi Izumi Masadai, Kawaei Rina, and Tomoki Hirose got married, they were all sung by the media under the name of Gecha marriage.
This is in 2015, when Apricot and Higashito got married, when Higashi's income was lower than that of Higashi, so it was said that it was a gecha marriage, and the report said that Higashito himself was very anxious about this and said: "Don't call us Gecha marriage." ”
Looking back now, Dong Chu may be because of this anxiety, and later there is indeed an effort to narrow the gap between himself and Xingxing, but then everyone knows what happened later.
At the beginning of 19 years, Kawaei Li Nai's fame with "3 Years Group A" was greatly enhanced, and it can be said that he was in the rising period of his career, and as a result, he suddenly announced that he was married with a ball in May of the same year, and the object was still a stage actor with no fame, which made many fans stunned.
However, on the other hand, for the marriage model itself, Japanese netizens have a much milder attitude, and they will look at it with the dialectical attitude of "everything has two sides" when talking.
For example, the following are two articles on Japanese websites discussing the marriage of the difference, both of which very rationally list the advantages and disadvantages of this kind of marriage.
"Listen to what people say! 5 Pros and Cons of Bad Marriage
The original text is a case to share, this side only shows the point of view, and then combined with the case to translate it for everyone, the advantages are:
1, the woman bears most of the expenses of the family, busy with work and has no time to do housework, the man will be more willing to undertake housework.
2, the woman often works overtime or even on rest days to work, and the man in the marriage will be more able to understand and support the woman's work.
3, when married, the woman's income is much higher than the man's, which has been motivating the man, and now the income of the two is almost the same.
The disadvantages are:
1, because the woman was pregnant and gave birth to a child, she had to shorten the working hours, the salary was reduced, and the annual income of the family was greatly reduced.
2, the two people's consumption concepts are in conflict, when the woman consumes too much on clothing and cosmetics, the man will feel that this is not good.
The second article is titled: "Affirming faction vs negative faction, marriage below, bad marriage, so-called love affair with "low-level men""
This article is very long, sharing more cases, but the point of view is similar to the previous one, like the affirmative view still has to share the housework; now there is no difference, whether this person has room for appreciation is the most important; if you like a small milk dog, find a young boyfriend who has no money is also quite happy.
The opposition's view is also mainly from the perspective of money, and mentioned that the relationship will hurt the man's self-esteem, or it is better to be evenly matched.
Overall, these views are somewhat convincing, and the quality of a marriage varies from person to person.
Why did the marriage fail?
As mentioned above, almost all the marriages in the entertainment industry end in divorce, and here is not a deliberate selection of divorce cases to show to everyone, but 6 of the 10 couples in the list have indeed been divorced.
Of course, because the sample of this list itself is relatively small, it cannot be concluded that the divorce rate of differential marriage is very high, and the Japanese side has not given data on the divorce rate of differential marriage, so instead of dwelling on the fact that poor marriage is not easy to divorce, it is better to discuss the reasons for the failure of poor marriage.
It is true that in the beginning, the marriage will be a little harder than ordinary marriage, because the marriage will be more or less under the pressure of public opinion. If it is an ordinary person, the pressure of public opinion comes from the people around them, if it is a celebrity star, the pressure of public opinion mainly comes from various media and network speech, and these public opinions will directly affect the mentality of the parties.
Just as the Japanese media bluntly said that Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie were married to each other, and they were resisted by people around them and fans, Ai Fukuhara said in his blog: "It is not decided with an immature mood." Gamble on life and play table tennis. The Olympics have just ended, and I haven't been able to fully face my feelings at the moment, hoping to give me time to fully consider it. ", in this way to express their psychological pressure is very large.
Jiang Hongjie's sister came out to hold her brother's grievances, saying that her brother's income was not as low as the media said, and the love between the two people could not be measured by money.
However, the reason why the marriage ultimately failed is not because it is a bad marriage, like the several poor marriage couples mentioned above:
Miyazaki Aoi because the man scolded Fuji TV on Twitter at that time to introduce the Korean Wave, directly offended the TV station, and then was fired by the office, public opinion spread to Miyazaki Aoi, which eventually led to divorce, but there were also revelations that Miyazaki Aoi had transferred to love at that time, and the Hallyu incident was just a fuse.
Fujiwara Norika finally decided to divorce because the two got together less and more, and the man suspected of cheating and let the cheating partner get pregnant.
Anda Yushi divorced because the man was messing around and eventually "in order to continue his different lives".
At the end of Ryoko Hiromi's first marriage, she issued a divorce statement through the firm, saying: "I still regard Okazawa as a good and worthy object to talk about, and I will always respect and trust him after that", so it is speculated that the two may have decided to separate peacefully because of personality incompatibility or weak feelings.
It is worth mentioning that at that time, Ryoko Hiromi and Anda Yushi had both withdrawn from the circle very traditionally after they got married, which weakened the gap to a certain extent, but the marriage still failed after all.
The above reasons are actually common divorce reasons in ordinary marriages, and they have little to do with the difference.
The gap between two people in the marriage of the grid is not only after marriage, such a difference already exists when in love, since the two people decide to enter the marriage after careful consideration, then they will definitely think about the difference between the two people more clearly than outsiders.
At the moment of marriage, the couple expects each other to support each other for the rest of their lives, rather than how to narrow the gap between the two after marriage.
If you have to attribute a reason to a failed marriage, it may be that marriage is not easy in the end.
Just like Ma Yili's famous quote at the beginning:
As for fukuhara's marriage change, as bystanders, instead of guessing whether the man's PUA or the woman's is not, it is better to bless them and be able to get rid of the marriage crisis smoothly and live the life they want.
※ This content is the independent opinion of the author and does not represent the position of Nippon Pass.
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