When a boy is still a baby, he needs to establish a special intimate connection with someone who raises him, and the mother provides the milk she needs most to soothe and hug. The father will play games with the child that excite him, such as throwing a high horse on the shoulder, which mothers usually do not do. Fathers and mothers, when you think that your children will really grow up quietly all the way, the former little obedient will unconsciously become a helpless little demon. We know that children at this time are not fluent in saying other things, but often when they say no to this word, the small mouth is very stingy, calling aunt not aunt. Sometimes the mother says that her child began to rebel like this when he was more than one year old, and the child developed a face that rejected you at any time, because he had heard you refuse too many times. Mothers always like to be commanding when communicating with their children, don't do what not to do, so the child learns to say no prematurely with you. Faced with the rebellious little boy of this period, there are several positive methods of discipline:
First, don't always communicate with the tone of command, parents are rude, boys will follow to learn your roughness, followed by endless violence to counter violence, so parents should first change 1%, then the baby will change 99%, for example, you can not throw toys everywhere, this sentence directly said that the baby should put the toys away, this sentence he is more willing to accept.
The second is to say don't be too democratic, we usually say to the children we go to dinner, okay, no? Well, children tend to answer like this. Many parents are used to this seemingly democratic way, in fact, after the child rejects you, we will give him the facts and reasoning, remember that the boy at this time does not understand what is called a person, people are iron, rice is steel, they only understand this meal without hunger. So for boys of this age, there is no need to be too democratic.
The third thing to tell parents and friends is not to take power alone. A psychologist once said that the mother's love makes us obsessed, but the mother's excessive love will make a boy grow small, so that he will stay in the state of a little boy forever, so the fathers wake up and wake up, the most significant sign of the Chinese family is anxiety, the mother's family is absent from the father. I don't know how many fathers are listening to this sentence at this moment?
A kindergarten teacher told me about an incident in which when we washed all the children's dishes, a little boy happened to be next to me, and I asked him to help me sort out the dishes, but I didn't expect to be rejected by the little guy. He said to me solemnly, no, I can't help you do these things, because these things are done by women, and my dad never does these things. For the boy, no matter how old he is, the father is a guide, and if a boy is with a suitable man, the boy will never go down the wrong path. Boys who walk at the end of this stage begin to have gender awareness, so dads will unconsciously become role models for boys.
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