I am Miko, a failed entrepreneurial "Kanu", after five years of social baptism, successfully lived a "negative" life, I hope this self-statement can give you some help.
Eleven holidays with my husband to attend the classmate wedding, happened to meet a good buddy rhubarb, rhubarb is our college classmates, after graduation to return to the hometown, when we once suspected that his head into the water, it turned out that now he is the best in the class.
Because they are busy with work, after graduation, everyone will have less contact, and they can only meet occasionally at the wedding of their classmates.
I remember when I first interned, the three of us worked together in a food factory, with a salary of 1700 a month, no mortgage, no car loan, and no children to support.
It doesn't matter whether you earn money or not, as long as you show us the certificate at the end of the internship period, it is completely a mixed day's work.
A flash of 6 years passed, these five years my husband and I entered the palace of marriage, we took the first money after marriage to invest in the opening of the store, the result ended in failure, but also a debt.
I wanted to turn over by doing self-media, but I caught up with the epidemic and I was unexpectedly pregnant, and finally I could only give up the second entrepreneurship, I honestly raised a fetus at home, with a baby, and my husband returned to the ranks of part-time work.
Last year, I successfully gave birth to my son, and we who were successfully promoted to parents were more happy but more troubled by economic pressure, in addition to the foreign debt of more than 300,000 yuan for entrepreneurship, as well as car loans and housing loans.
Almost every day I get a dunning call from the bank, and every day I plan to swipe that credit card and pay that credit card back.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > we really became full "kanu", and the dream of "negative man" that we were bent on pursuing at the beginning was also realized. </h1>
Looking back at the past 6 years, my husband and I have changed jobs almost every year, although we have always developed in a field, but we have never worked for a long time, either because of our own reasons, or the company is not well managed.
On the other hand, although Rhubarb is running business in townships, it is now making a lot of money, not only buying a house but also replacing it with a big G.
Seeing Rhubarb sitting among us, confidently introducing his good salary of twenty or thirty thousand a month, my husband was eager to immediately change careers and run business with him.
To this end, Xi Bao's husband invited Rhubarb to dinner alone, and he also understood his husband's intentions, and naturally he did not hide his experience of working hard all the way.
There is no doubt that if you want a high salary, in addition to working hard, it is to stick to the end.
Rhubarb can have today's results, inseparable from his first two years of hard work and persistence.
He worked in this company for more than three years, the first year of employment, a month to get a salary of 2,000 yuan, in addition to eating, spending and renting and other expenses, there is very little left.
But he persevered, and finally ushered in a high salary in the third year, and now he almost does not have to go out to run every day, he can pick up tens of thousands of orders, and easily get 20,000 or 30,000 salaries a month.
For her husband, Rhubarb is not optimistic about his running business, because this job also needs to be "boiled", but also in the township to run business, the businesses encountered are individual, for the husband such an "honest person" challenge is too big, it is difficult to carry out business.
So after weighing it up, my husband decided to give up the idea of changing careers, honestly do his current job, and in his spare time, he can also engage in a side business and subsidize the family.
For us, the most important thing now is the child, in the words of my husband: the account will be paid off one day, but the growth of the child can not be absent.
My husband's mentality has always been better than mine, when I was pregnant, because of the epidemic, all the work was stopped, there was no income to pay back, my mood was very low, my husband tried his best to comfort me every day.
Now think about it, although we still owe money after failing to start a business in recent years, fortunately, we are still young, we can still work hard to make money to pay back, and we have gained a cute and naughty son - this is our greatest wealth.
Heaven has always been fair, life in the world is not bitter, the taste of which only he knows, just like Rhubarb would not have today's high salary if he did not have his original persistence and hard work.
Work is like a race, if you always change tracks at both ends of the three days, you will always start from scratch, never reach the end, and never get a high salary.
Because there are very few people who insist, there will never be a traffic jam on the way to success. May you and I both sort out our minds and find the right direction to persevere!
I am Miko, a full-time mom who likes to record her mood with words, and friends who see me remember to give Miko an encouragement, and also give myself a silent encouragement!