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Lu Jian
Lu Jian is a well-known news anchor of CCTV, who has hosted many news columns such as "China News" and "Today's Attention". In 2021, the "China Geographical Names Conference" presided over by him is even more popular throughout the country. Lu Jian's wife, Zheng Tianliang, is also a famous anchor of CCTV, who has hosted famous column programs such as "Oriental Time and Space", "News Live Room", and "Morning News of the World".
The CCTV "famous mouth" couple had a halo on their heads, but when they stepped off the screen, their married life was soaked with heartache and tears. What is it like to live apart for many years under one roof? How do Lu Jian and his wife resolve the contradiction between life and career?
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March 6, 2003, was the most memorable day of Lu Jian's life.
On this morning, he and his girlfriend of two years, Zheng Tianliang, were licensed to marry at the Civil Affairs Bureau of Beijing's Haidian District. Because the "two sessions" are about to be convened, the young couples have to rush to the scene for interviews and reports, they do not have time to prepare for the wedding, and even the wedding photos are not taken, but the close relatives of both sides are invited to eat a meal together, and the marriage is considered to be married.
Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang
On the wedding night, Lu Jian guiltily said to his wife: "I'm sorry, other people's weddings are grand, but you didn't even wear a wedding dress, and you were wronged." Zheng Tianliang smiled: "As long as I can be with you, it doesn't matter if I wear a wedding dress or not, or not I can do a wedding." The days should be lived with heart and affection, and have little to do with those external factors. His wife's words warmed Lu Jian's heart...
Lu Jian was born in 1972 in Alxa League, Inner Mongolia, the son of a sand control expert and a librarian at a local cultural center. In the middle school era, Lu Jian was both excellent in character and learning, and when he filled in the college entrance examination, all his volunteers filled in peking university. Although his grades exceeded the undergraduate admission line, he was not admitted to Peking University, and as a result, Lu Jian entered Baotou Teachers College.
After graduating from university, Lu Jian was originally assigned to be a teacher in a middle school, and it happened that the Alxa League TV station was recruiting an announcer. In order to give people one more choice, Lu Jian went to apply. His height, image, and Mandarin are outstanding, and he was successfully admitted to Alxa League TV.
Early years of Lu Jian
After working for two years, Lu Jian was admitted to Gansu Television station and became an announcer for the provincial station. It is said that a college student has such a good career, but Lu Jian's heart is as wide as the ocean, and he wants to enter the CCTV work. In 1996, Lu Jian quit his job at Gansu Television station and went to Beijing Broadcasting Institute (later renamed Communication University of China) at his own expense for further study. In 1997, Lu Jian was admitted to Beiguang With excellent results.
After graduating from graduate school in 2001, Lu Jian was assigned to work for CCTV. At the beginning of his employment, Lu Jian made a love for the female anchor Zheng Tianliang in the station. Zheng Tianliang is 6 years younger than Lu Jian and is a native of Yantai City, Shandong Province. She was born in Shuxiangmendi to the son of the editor-in-chief of Yantai Daily and her mother to an announcer at Yantai Radio. Under the influence of the family, Zheng Tianliang has read a lot of books since childhood, exuding the elegance and bookish atmosphere of an intellectual woman. Zheng Tianliang graduated from the Broadcasting Department of Beijing Broadcasting College with a bachelor's degree and is Lu Jian's little sister, but the two did not know each other during college.
In August of that year, Lu Jian, Zheng Tianliang and several newly assigned colleagues were arranged by CCTV to intern at Chifeng City Television Station in Inner Mongolia. Lu Jian was a native of Inner Mongolia, and he felt that this was a good opportunity for The Heavens to arrange for him to get close to Zheng Tianliang, so he did his best to invite Zheng Tianliang to drink milk tea, eat roast leg of lamb, and go to the yurt to listen to the melodious horse head piano.
Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang
Watermelon in Inner Mongolia is sandy and sweet, and is Zheng Tianliang's favorite, and Lu Jian buys her watermelon every day. A month later, the internship ended, and Zheng Tianliang became emotionally and psychologically attached to Lu Jian. After returning to CCTV, Lu Jian burned another love fire: when he met Zheng Tianliang working overtime at night, Lu Jian waited for her in the stage, and then rode a bicycle to send Zheng Tianliang back to his residence. Sometimes when Zheng Tianliang was hungry, Lu Jian bought her a fragrant baked sweet potato. Zheng Tianliang gave half to Lu Jian, and the two stood in the moonlight and ate together. You look at me, I look at you, and your eyes are full of tenderness and sweetness...
Lu Jian's tenderness was like a net, and Zheng Tianliang became tighter and tighter, and the two fell in love. Two years later, they naturally entered the marriage.
Before marriage, the unit gave Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang a small one-bedroom apartment of more than 50 square meters. Lu Jian just joined the work, there is no savings around, his parents are also ordinary wage earners, he can't bear to increase the burden of his parents, and he has no conditions for luxurious decoration of the marriage room. Zheng Tianliang was considerate of Lu Jian and did not make any request in the decoration of the wedding room. In order to save money, Lu Jian wore a hat rolled up from newspaper to paint the walls and ceiling, and also bought floor leather to spread in the marriage room. In terms of furniture and appliances, he only added a desk, a refrigerator and a double bed. The whole wedding room was arranged, and Lu Jian only spent more than 6,000 yuan.
On March 6, 2003, Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang married a hundred-year relationship amid the blessings of their parents. The day after the wedding, the couple rushed to the venue of the "two sessions" to conduct interviews and reports. In the evening, Lu Jian and his wife lived in the hotel arranged by the conference group, and during the entire "two sessions", the couple never met, never returned home, and were in a state of separation. Their good professionalism and diligence and professionalism have won the praise of Taiwan leaders and colleagues...
Zheng Tianliang
In view of Lu Jian's outstanding qualities, the station arranged for him to serve as the host of two news programs of "China News" and "Today's Attention", while Zheng Tianliang hosted two programs of "Midnight News" and "News Live Room". Lu Jian works normally during the day, while Zheng Tianliang's working hours are at night, and the couple's work and rest time is completely staggered. Every morning when Lu Jian went to work on CCTV, Zheng Tianliang was sleeping. Worried about waking his wife, he washed carefully and crept around. When Lu Jian returned home from work in the evening, Zheng Tianliang had already gone to the station to host the program, and he had to be busy until the early morning to go home. At this time, Lu Jian slept soundly. Although this CCTV "famous mouth" couple is a colleague, although they are under the same roof, they live apart almost every day, becoming the shortest separation distance in the world.
Separated under one roof, Lu Jian is worried that if she snubs his wife, she will feel bad in her heart. In the early morning of September 2003, Lu Jian sat in the living room, drinking tea while waiting for his wife, in order to see Zheng Tianliang and say a few words to her. However, due to missing the best sleep time and the excitement of drinking tea, Lu Jian could not sleep at all in the second half of the night. When he got up the next morning, Lu Jian's mental state was somewhat depressed, a hint of blue halo appeared around his eye circles, and his face was also a little haggard.
This will affect her husband's working status, and Zheng Tianliang's heart has a little worry. She rubbed her sleepy eyes and said sincerely to her husband: "We are peers, I understand your heart, and I can fully accept the state of life of living under one roof, you don't have any psychological burden." Or live at your normal pace, leave me alone. Lu Jian grabbed his wife with unsympatheticity: "I am so lucky to be able to marry you." ”
Lu Jian and Zhang Shuyue hosted the show
Time just walked and stopped in the "separation" of Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang. In Lu Jian's impression, in the busiest month, he only met with his wife twice at home and said 4 sentences. Separated under one roof, this married life is full of bitterness and tragedy!
In September 2006, Zheng Tianliang was more than 3 months pregnant. Due to the irregularity of work and rest, Lu Jian did not have time to take care of his pregnant wife, and Zheng Tianliang had to take care of himself. When the baby was 7 months old, Zheng Tianliang still went to work every day with a big belly. Zheng Tianliang's pregnancy reaction is serious, often vomiting, Lu Jian every day before going to work, he prepares his wife's favorite fruits and pastries at home, and presses a note under the fruit plate: "After waking up, you must eat these things at once, you are now not only eating for yourself, but also for the baby in your belly." ”
After Zheng Tianliang woke up, while eating fruits and pastries, he read the note left by her husband, and her heart was full of warm currents. On March 16, 2007, Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang's daughter Lu Zhiyu was born in Beijing, and her mother and mother-in-law rushed to Beijing to take care of Zheng Tianliang's confinement.
Due to the narrowness of the house, Zheng Tianliang took his daughter to sleep in the bedroom, his mother and mother-in-law slept in the living room, and Lu Jian slept on the folding bed on the balcony at night, and life was very inconvenient.
In late June, Zheng Tianliang took maternity leave and went to work. The two mothers can't stay in Beijing for a long time, not to mention that they can't sleep at home, it's not realistic to invite a nanny to come to the house, Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang don't know where their infant daughter should go? Troubles and pressures roared towards Lu Jian and his wife...
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In the entanglement, Lu Jian carefully consulted with his wife: "Or shall we let the old man take our daughter with us?" Zheng Tianliang knew that this was the best placement for her daughter, but her daughter was only born more than 3 months ago, and she couldn't bear it. Lu Jian gently comforted his wife: "I don't want to send the baby away, but life is full of too much helplessness, in the future, we will take more time to see our daughter, and do not let the father love and mother love be absent." Women in the workplace are doomed to a dilemma between family and career, and Zheng Tianliang reluctantly agreed.
The grandparents took care of their granddaughter as a matter of course, and Lu Jian originally wanted his mother to take her daughter back to Inner Mongolia, but Zheng Tianliang did not agree. It is not that she does not trust her mother-in-law, the reason is that her father-in-law suffered from cerebral hemorrhage in 1988, her health has been not good, and her mother-in-law is a little inadequate to take care of her father-in-law, where is the time and energy to take care of her granddaughter? So Zheng Tianliang consulted with her husband: "Your mother's burden of taking care of your father is heavy enough, or let your daughter let my mother take her back to Yantai." Lu Jian thanked his wife for her understanding and agreed.
When Zheng Tianliang said this idea to his mother, his mother happily promised: "You can rest assured, my father and I are still physically tough and will not let the baby be wronged." Lu Jian's mother said gratefully to her mother: "This responsibility should have been borne by me and Lu Jian's father, thank you for sharing the burden for us." Mother Zheng smiled: "In my mind, my sons and daughters are the same, and I have always regarded Lu Jian as my son." "The kindness and generosity of the two mothers brushed away the heaviness in Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang's hearts...
On June 20, Mr. and Mrs. Lu Jian prepared to let their mother-in-law take their daughter away. Early this morning, Zheng Tianliang got up, bathed her daughter, changed her clothes, and gave the baby her last breastfeed before weaning, and she kept tears in her eyes. Lu Jian and his two mothers helped the baby pack up his belongings, and he also had a special taste in his heart.
Lu Jian took his wife (second from right) and daughter to record the show
At 9:00 a.m., Lu Jian and his wife drove their mother-in-law and daughter to the train station, and the couple kissed and said goodbye to their daughter one by one. Watching the train slowly drive away from the platform, Zheng Tianliang endured tears for a long time. Lu Jian took his wife into his arms and patted her back with his hand, giving wordless comfort...
Although the daughter was sent away, she also needed the sunshine of father's love and mother's love. If you leave your daughter like luggage and never pay attention to it, you are an irresponsible parent. Therefore, despite the busy work, Lu Jian and his wife have to take time to return to Yantai every two months to see their daughter. Blood is thicker than water. Although he does not often meet with his daughter, Lu Zhiyu is very clingy to his parents. As soon as Lu Jian and his wife entered the door, the daughter followed them like a small tail, and wherever they went, the daughter would stagger and follow them.
At night, the daughter slept between Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang, clutching her father in one hand and her mother in the other, afraid that they would leave in the middle of the night...
Because of their work relationship, Lu Jian and his wife generally only live in Yantai for one night, and the next day they have lunch and have to return to Beijing. Every time they parted, my daughter cried her heart out. The daughter cried, and Zheng Tianliang also cried, holding her daughter and not letting go. Lu Jian forcibly separated his wife's and daughter's hands, and his heart hurt like a pinprick. On the way back to Beijing, the couple talked about their daughters, and Zheng Tianliang's tears were dried again and again. After all, she is a professional woman with strong self-regulation ability, as soon as she returns to Beijing, Zheng Tianliang will bury her thoughts about her daughter in her heart and appear in the unit with a capable and full posture.
Later, when Lu Jian and his wife left Yantai, in order to avoid the sadness of the two generations, Lu Jian proposed to leave without his daughter, and Zheng Tianming agreed. In the days that followed, Lu Jian and his wife generally waited for their daughter to take a nap before quietly leaving Yantai to return to Beijing.
The daughter is not around, and Lu Jian and his wife try to find warmth in the separation. Sometimes Lu Jian took a day off, and after lunch, he accompanied Zheng Tianliang to the supermarket to buy ingredients, and then went home to cook together. In the supermarket, seeing some parents taking their children shopping, children sweetly calling "Mom and Dad", grabbing the placket of their parents and not letting go, Zheng Tianliang will think of his daughter. She said sadly to her husband: "We are not competent parents, and we owe too much to our daughters." Lu Jian looked at his wife complicatedly: "In the future, when we have a chance, we will try to make up for our daughter." ”
In September 2013, lu Zhiyu turned 6 years old and it was time to go to primary school, and Lu Jian and his wife took their daughter back to Beijing. When she first sent her daughter away, she was still in her infancy, and now when she returns home again, she has grown into a 1.2-meter little girl. The two shots overlapped in Zheng Tianliang's mind, and she suddenly felt like a dream.
In order to take better care of his daughter, Lu Jian, who lived separately under one roof, and Zheng Tianliang did a division of labor: he was responsible for sending his daughter to school every morning, Zheng Tianliang was responsible for picking up his daughter in the evening, and Lu Jian came home at night to cook for his daughter. For the sake of his daughter, Lu Jian even canceled his normal social interaction, let alone participated in parties and socializing, and rushed home every day after work in order to make dinner for his daughter on time.
Mr. and Mrs. Lu Jian with their daughter
Every morning at 6 o'clock, Lu Jian got up and prepared breakfast for the family. The daughter was stubborn and began to eat the same breakfast for several days, and then began to be picky. Lu Jian had to change various tricks such as bread, flower rolls, sugar triangles, eggs and so on. Worried about the smell of oil smoke in his hair and clothes, Lu Jian had to take another bath and hair at home after breakfast, and then hurriedly sent his daughter to school and went to work on CCTV himself.
Because of the lack of synchronization of work and rest, Lu Jian and his wife never went to school together to hold a parent-teacher meeting for their daughter, so that some teachers and parents had misunderstandings and thought that Lu Zhiyu was a single parent.
Every year on Lu Zhiyu's birthday or Children's Day, she hopes that her parents will take her out to play at the same time. But only Lu Jian or Zheng Tianliang could take her out at a time. Every time Lu Zhiyu muttered to his parents, "The other children are accompanied by their parents, why don't you take me out together?" The daughter is still young, even if she explains the particularity of her parents' work, she will not understand, Lu Jian had to apologize to her daughter guiltily, and Zheng Tianliang's heart was also sour.
Due to the perennial separation under one roof, not only lu jian's normal life with his wife was disrupted, but also affected his daughter, so that Lu Zhiyu lived a life of regret at a young age. As soon as they think of this, Lu Jian and his wife will feel a wisp of heaviness in their hearts...
In May 2014, Zheng Tianliang was found to be more than three months pregnant. Due to professional reasons, a daughter let Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian's heart exhaustion, zheng Tianliang is not ready to have a second child. Lu Jian, however, hoped that his wife would give birth to a second child, and he enlightened: "Now the state encourages the birth of a second child, what a good opportunity, why don't we have a baby?" As far as I know, many couples in their forties and fifties are still preparing to have a second child. Zheng Tianliang sighed, "If we add another child to the family, can we still work normally?" Let's face it. When his wife said this, Lu Jian did not squeak, but his heart was unwilling.
Two days later, his mother-in-law called Lu Jian to inquire about Lu Zhiyu, and Lu Jian inadvertently revealed that Zheng Tianliang was pregnant with her second child. The mother-in-law's words were full of excitement: "Great, you have to give birth to the second baby with peace of mind." Lu Jian said Zheng Tianliang's attitude, and his mother-in-law said in an unmistakable tone: "Then how to do it?" Must be born. Lu Jian told his wife about his mother-in-law's attitude, which made Zheng Tianliang tangled. After hesitating for a while, she said: "The decision is in our hands, and the opinions of our parents can only be used as a reference." ”
What lu jian and his wife did not know was that as soon as the mother-in-law hung up the phone, she immediately called her mother-in-law who was far away in Inner Mongolia and relayed her son-in-law's words to the other party. Lu Jian's mother's attitude is also very clear: "This baby must be born." Three days later, the two mothers rushed to Beijing from Shandong and Inner Mongolia respectively, and their central issue was only one, that is, to persuade Zheng Tianliang to have a second child. They spoke about their desire for a second child and the benefits of having two children at home. Zheng Tianliang's mother also sincerely stated: "Your father and I are not old, our bodies are relatively tough, and we are willing to come to Beijing to bring you children." The mother-in-law also promised Zheng Tianliang: "If there is a need, I will do my best to help you." ”
Lu Jian pulled his wife into the study: "Everyone says that you are a filial daughter-in-law and daughter, so just obey the old man." With the addition of a child in the family, the daughter will become more sensible and responsible. "Zheng Tianliang couldn't bear to make her husband and the mothers on both sides sad, and promised to conceive a second baby...
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In August 2014, Zheng Tianliang was more than 6 months pregnant, and her movements became more and more inconvenient, and her mother came from her hometown in Shandong To take care of her life and living with meticulous care. Every day, my mother-in-law was also responsible for cooking for Lu Jian's family and transporting Lu Zhiyu to and from school. With the help of his mother-in-law, Lu Jian was freed from the heavy physical load. He no longer has to get up at 6 a.m. every day and can sleep an extra hour. After work, there is no need to rush home to cook like a march and fight as before, and when he pushes open the door in the evening, Lu Jian can eat ready-made hot dishes and hot rice.
On November 23, Zheng Tianliang gave birth to his son "full" in the hospital. Lu Jiancheng witnessed the process of his wife's childbirth and was moved by her strength and motherhood. When Zheng Tianliang gave birth in the hospital, her mother-in-law also came from Inner Mongolia. But because she had to take care of her wife, who suffered from the sequelae of cerebral hemorrhage, her mother-in-law only stayed in Beijing for a week before returning to Inner Mongolia, and Zheng Tianliang's mother was alone in Beijing to take care of her daughter's confinement.
Mr. and Mrs. Lu Jian and a pair of children
A week later, Zheng Tianliang's mother and son were discharged from the hospital, and Lu Jian invited a sister-in-law to come to the house, and he assisted his mother-in-law and sister-in-law to take care of his wife and children. At this time, Zheng Tianliang was 36 years old, an elderly mother, and due to the rapid decline in progesterone in the body, mood fluctuations occurred. But under the joint care of Lu Jian, her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, she quickly passed the postpartum discomfort period and returned to her previous stable state.
In early March 2015, Zheng Tianliang's maternity leave ended and it was time to go to work. Because the family could not live, Lu Jian was ready to rent a one-bedroom apartment near the community, take his father-in-law over, and let the old couple help take care of the two children in Beijing. He asked for advice from his father-in-law on the phone, who retired a year later, not as busy as before, and agreed.
So Lu Jian began to look for a house in a nearby community, which is located in Beijing's West Third Ring Road, and the cheapest one-bedroom apartment in the neighborhood costs 4500 yuan per month. It was difficult to find a satisfactory house, but the mother-in-law did not agree: "4500 yuan is too expensive, not cost-effective." You are so tired for a month, how much can you take? "My mother-in-law did not want to rent a house in Beijing and insisted on taking Man man back to Yantai. The filial piety of the old man focused on a "Shun" word, and Lu Jian and his wife agreed.
Soon, Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang sent their mother-in-law and Man Man back to Yantai. Separated from his daughter before, and now he has begun to be separated from his son, Lu Jian and his wife have a special taste in their hearts. Originally, Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang planned to go to Yantai to see their son once every two months, but the parents-in-law were worried that the little couple's boat and car would affect the state of work, so they said: "In the future, you don't have to look full in Yantai, we take the baby to Beijing every once in a while, I retired early, And dawn Dad is also about to retire, and the time elasticity is greater than yours." ”
Lu Jian was worried that his parents-in-law were tired by train and did not agree. The father-in-law said in an irrefutable tone: "That's it, you and Dawn are the most difficult time, and it is nothing for us as parents to pay more." Not only did he marry a reasonable, virtuous and capable wife, but he also met a pair of loving and considerate parents-in-law, and Lu Jian felt that he was too lucky.
Since then, every other month and a half, the parents-in-law have come to Beijing with Man man to reunite with Lu Jian and his wife. Under the careful care of the old two, full of white and fat, lively and cute, the body immunity is also stronger than that of children of the same age, rarely cold and fever. Lu Jian and his wife did not have the slightest worry, and they took care of their daughter and worked hard.
Zheng Tianliang's parents are almost 60 years old, although the body is still quite tough, but often take long-distance trains between Beijing and Yantai to and fro, which is also a huge challenge to energy and physical strength. On March 19, 2016, Zheng Tianliang's father had some low fever, but the train ticket had been booked a week ago, and he and his wife took the train with full loads. The train was crowded and the air circulation was not smooth, and as a result, Zheng's father's condition worsened, and he developed a high fever, accompanied by nausea and vomiting.
When Lu Jian went to the train station to pick up the station, he saw that his father-in-law was pale and the whole person looked sick, and he quickly took him to the hospital. After drip treatment, my father-in-law's body returned to normal after 3 days. After experiencing this time, Lu Jian consulted with his wife: "Our father and mother are too tired to take the train for a long time, and we can't let them suffer this crime anymore, let's change a big house and take the second elder over." The hardships of his parents, Zheng Tian's bright spots were all in his eyes and agreed.
Zheng Tianliang with daughter and son
Soon, Mr. and Mrs. Lu Jian sold the house under their name, and then bought a large three-bedroom apartment near the fifth ring road. In November of that year, the house was properly renovated, and Lu Jian's family moved into a new house. At this time, his father-in-law had retired, and Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang rushed to Yantai to take the second elder and Man Man to Beijing to live together.
Mr. and Mrs. Lu Jian arranged the room with the best lighting and ventilation conditions to be warm and tidy, and made a bedroom for their parents-in-law. Considering that his two children had to be taken care of, and there was a large amount of housework to deal with, and the burden borne by his in-laws was too heavy, Lu Jian proposed to ask for a live-in nanny. The parents-in-law were not accustomed to an outsider living in the house for a long time, so Lu Jian hired an hourly worker for the second elder to come to the house every day to clean up and make a lunch.
The in-laws are responsible for making breakfast and dinner, transporting Lu Zhiyu to and from school, and bringing full people at home. Lu Jian and his wife separated under one roof, and the couple also tried to give their parents a hand after work. Every day, as soon as they opened their eyes, the Parents of the Zheng Family began to consider the affairs of their daughter's son-in-law's family, and they were busy all day long. After taking care of the two children to sleep at night, the old two washed and washed until 11 o'clock at night.
The hard work of his parents-in-law, Lu Jianjian collected in his heart, he respected the filial piety of the second elder, and emotionally regarded them as his biological parents. Lu Jian affectionately called his parents-in-law "Mommy and Daddy", and every day before going to work, he had to greet the second elder. As soon as he got out of the elevator after work in the evening, he called "Mom and Dad" in the corridor. What fruits and pastries his parents like to eat, Lu Jian remembered them well, as long as the second elder was almost finished, he would buy them home in time. Every New Year's Festival or the birthday of his parents-in-law, Lu Jian wants to invite his parents-in-law to go out to dinner and send WeChat red envelopes to the second elder.
In the Spring Festival of 2017, his parents hoped that Lu Jian would return to Inner Mongolia for the Chinese New Year. Lu Jian was the only son in the family, and since his father was not in good health, he should go back. However, thinking that his parents-in-law came to the house as a free nanny and left the second elder in the first year, Lu Jian couldn't bear it. So he called his mother, sincerely expressed his thoughts, and proposed that his parents come to Beijing for the New Year together. The Lu family's parents feel that their son's approach is right and are willing to come to Beijing for the New Year. On the 27th of the 27th month, Lu Jian rushed back to Inner Mongolia and took his parents to Beijing, and the three families of 8 people were together for a lively and lively New Year. Seeing the old man's eyebrows open and smiling, and the children happy and lively, Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang felt that life was so happy and real!
In 2019, Lu Jian began to host CCTV's new program "China Geographical Names Conference", and later launched the "Lu Jian Interview" named after him. The program hosted by Zheng Tianliang also made adjustments and began to serve as the anchor of "Chaowen Tianxia". In this way, the couple's schedule is synchronized, and the bitter life of living separately under one roof is finally over.
Zheng Tianliang, Lu Jian and a pair of children
After returning home from work, Lu Jian and his wife rushed to take care of the housework, take care of a pair of children, and help their parents-in-law reduce their burdens. On weekends, Lu Jian and his wife do not go out, cook at home, tutor their daughters with their homework, take care of their sons, give their parents-in-law a day off, and let the second elder go out to relax. After living in Beijing for a long time, Lu Jian and his wife also took time to accompany their parents-in-law back to Yantai to visit their relatives.
In August 2020, after the epidemic in Beijing eased, Lu Jian sent his parents-in-law back to Yantai for a week, and then he rushed over and took the second elder back to Beijing. Some sons-in-law have lived with their parents-in-law for a long time, and there will be frictions and contradictions, but Lu Jian is considerate and filial, and his parents-in-law are kind and kind, and they have lived under one roof for many years and have never had a red face.
In August 2021, Lu Jian celebrated his mother-in-law's birthday, and his father-in-law said: "After going to primary school, we will return to yantai to live in our hometown and no longer burden you." Lu Jian resolutely disagreed: "Mom and Dad, you have taken so much for me and Tianliang, and how much effort you have put into bringing up your two children." When you are old, you will follow us to live in Beijing for a long time, and I will treat you like my own son. "The parents-in-law's hearts are sweet.
Lu Jianjian family fortune
Today, Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang have been married for 18 years, and the couple has spent 15 years in separation. After ending their separated lives, Lu Jian and his wife worked hard to make up for their debt to their children, they rarely socialized, and regarded the affairs of children and the elderly as the top priority of the family.
In the 15 years of separation, Lu Jian and his wife had entanglements, tears and bitterness, but they also gained touch and warmth, as well as the warm affection between three generations. After years of separation, Lu Jian's relationship with his wife deepened, and he also realized the preciousness and importance of family affection. Living apart is a precious asset in the lives of Mr. and Mrs. Lu Jian, and they will always remember it!
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