Poverty is the root cause of many things. The nobles who should come do not come, the people who really help do not come, the people who should not come come, what mess comes, there is no social status, and people are left to be slaughtered. In the 1960s and 1970s, there were many brothers and sisters, there were few laborers who earned work, there was no one outside, and the middle peasant component was also suppressed, because their relatives were rich peasants. There is neither economic income nor grain or oil to eat! This family is also more honest.
(1) The media is coming. The eldest son of this family, the second son, from a young age, occupies the daughter-in-law of Ha, and gives the bride price every year, because it cannot be given, and can only be given slowly every year during the New Year's Festival of 10, 20, 30, because at that time the economy was seriously short, the peasants relied on pigs and chickens to pinch some income, of course, the money was indeed worth money, then 10 yuan was equivalent to 1000 yuan now. By the time the child was eighteen or nineteen years old, the financial resources were basically given to the same, and when they were ready to marry their daughter-in-law, the two relatives heard others say that the family was too poor, and your daughter died of poverty after following up, so they repented and broke the contract and did not give it. If people do not give, the bride price should be refunded, the eldest future daughter-in-law's family will soon retire, the second daughter-in-law's family will not only not give people, but also the bride price will not be returned. After the second son heard the news, he directly took a handful of iron to the door of the house, called the woman's father out, said that people would not give us a bride price, people played a trick, said to find you next month, the second said no, now look for it, otherwise there is no good end for you, this woman's father saw that the situation was not good, he quickly borrowed a few hundred yuan to give. I didn't expect the daughter to die three years after marriage. The eldest future daughter-in-law married a person who was poorer than the old people, and it is still very difficult, human life! People are watching the day, not not not to report but to the time has not yet arrived. This sentence is not unreasonable! Since then, the people who say the media of the boss and the second family have continued, but there are not many real and honest media, they are all cheating to eat and drink, because in that era, white noodles and clear oil are very few, and it is still a good family to eat a meal of white noodles or long noodles or oil cakes and oil money for a few months, but people seize the psychology of the elderly, say that it is impossible to say, first mix with a good meal and then say, the good words are very beautiful, the thunder is loud, the rain is small, eat and drink, there is no news. For many years, finally the old man got used to it and didn't care.
(ii) The people who pulled the coal came. In the 1970s, not only was there not enough to eat, there was a shortage of grain and oil, but even the firewood and grass burned were also in short supply. Since there was no money to buy carbon, they could only use the firewood and grass allocated by the community team and the firewood and grass they looked for in the fields, mountains, ditches and other places, if they were diligent for a year, they would burn, if they were lazy or busy with agricultural work, they would be burned. In the autumn and winter, people swept away the leaves on the trees, shoveled the sweaters and grass paste on the fields, hillsides and ditches, some could cook, some were used to fill the kang (kang), and in the middle and late winter, the fields, hillsides and ditches were bare, and the ecological vegetation was very damaged because of poverty. In the past, the eldest and second eldest of this family herded sheep to the social team, while herding sheep, while scraping firewood, every year in the yard of the family to pile a grass fall, do not herd sheep, there is no time to scrape firewood, cooking and filling kang to a certain time on the lack of firewood, then the parents of the family hope to buy some coal to make up for the shortage. But at that time, I didn't know the purchase channel, so someone in the social team promised them to buy charcoal, and the parents were very honest, they believed it, gave the tube a good meal, and also gave the money to buy charcoal, and as a result, they did not pull a lump of charcoal for three or four years. There is really no way, the father led his two sons from Zhuanglang Wolong Xuejiahe to pull a very bulky shelf car to huating coal mine, when he came back to pull a car of coal, at that time to go up and down the Guanshan Mountain, the road is tortuous, uneven, some are muddy roads. The most unexpected thing was that when I went to live in a private shop in Huating, the steamed buns that the three big men had brought on the road for a few days were all stolen, alas, it was really unlucky, which was worse, and the heavy rain coincided with the destruction of the house. I reluctantly pulled the charcoal back to the car all the way to eat.
(3) Yin and Yang are coming. Someone said to this family that your family is poor, the daughter-in-law does not give, it is the yard is not suitable, so the old man asked Yin and Yang to play a whole, ate and drank, paid for the money, and left. Some people say that the door of your house is not suitable, please a yin and yang to tidy up, they invite another yin and yang, read the scriptures, send a text, prostrate their heads, do a good meal, pay the money and leave. After a while, some people said that your family grave is not suitable and needs to be straightened out, the old man has invited a yin and yang to tidy up, after a while, some people say that a woman came in at the door of your house, unfavorable incense, need to be rectified... In short, this family often asks Yin and Yang to clean up the whole house and the grave, in fact, the effect is extremely small.
(iv) The lama is coming. Someone said, your grandfather or grandfather has something in his hands, you need to make a lot of efforts to make up your mind to clean up well, yin and yang are not good, you need a lama, so the old man in the family invited a lama, Yue Bao's. Stayed at home for a few days, ate and drank, smoked paper cigarettes, smoked shisha, followed by back and forth, warm hospitality. This lama said, there is a ghost that has plagued your family, your family has not been going well for many years, I will fight with it in the cemetery for a few days and nights, and after grabbing it, I will bury it in a bottle and bury it in a place, so that it will never turn over, and the family will believe it, so the father will prepare the things according to the lama's schedule, and indeed this lama chanted the sutra for half a night, wrapped up for half a night, and he said that the ghost was indeed caught, put in the bottle, the lid was tightened, and buried in a desert ditch. Now there is no problem, and your family will be at peace. It also costs a lot of hard work! In fact, after that, it is still the same as before, there is no change in the family, it is still so poor, the daughter-in-law still can't say. This is called objective idealism, this is called ignorance.
(v) The bully is coming. There was a cashier on the team, who clearly said that the old man borrowed 10 yuan, but the people insisted that they borrowed 30 yuan, forcing the old man to pay back 20 yuan more. Someone said directly to the old man in person, there are five boys in your family, each boy wants five courtyards, five daughters-in-law, and these problems will crush you to death! In fact, the father was not given by the daughter-in-law of the two sons, which was a great blow, a great pressure, and he died of illness.
(6) The one who planted the dirty frame came. The grain in the social team was stolen, because at that time the grain production was low, the collective labor efficiency was low, the distributed grain was not enough to eat, and part of it had to be compensated by the state supply, and there was no way to "steal" when hungry. The cadres of the social team brought a group of people from house to house to find grain, found this family, many people stepped on the wheat seedling field that had just been planted, the child said you should not step on our wheat, a few people came and beat this child up in a menacing manner, the father heard the situation and blocked it, let several people in the family fight together, the people in the father's team heard the news and rushed to fight, otherwise there may be a danger to their lives. Special note is that food was stolen from another team. The next day the wicked man filed a complaint first, and the people wrote an article to the brigade branch, announcing that the family had stolen grain, and the brigade branch secretary was also simple-minded and believed, and told people everywhere, and spoke on the radio of the whole brigade, and from then on people who did not know the truth thought that this family was a thief. He stole other people's grain, in fact, the result of the later search was to take out a lot of grain from the kang eyes of the beaten family. People, poor, bad composition, low social status, reasonable and unclear, who will prove it for you? Who will wash this innocence for you? Therefore, the current WeChat WeChat text says it well, at the bottom of society, people deceive people, people step on people, and in the upper class, people lift people and people respect people. Not without reason! Now Zhuanglang, beautiful mountains and clear waters, abundant grain and oil harvest, sufficient materials, melons and fruits all over the mountains, who will steal? Every household burns coal, even electric heating and electric ovens, gas canisters for cooking, and the ecological vegetation is particularly good, and no one goes to look for firewood and charcoal at all.
(7) Relatives no longer recognize people. People are poor, and even their closest relatives do not recognize them. When the children of the aunt and uncle are having a good time, they will go to the aunt's house first, and then go to another home. The aunt's family was poor and difficult, so they passed through the aunt's house first, and did not come in, but went to the rich family first. The uncle's family did not go to the sister's house first, but to the powerful captain's accountant's house. Everything makes people laugh bitterly, so who makes your family poor?
(VIII) When a good friend becomes a state worker, he is far away, and there are noble people and people who really help you, but very few. Most of them are hilarious about watching your jokes. On rainy days, the farmers are idle talking about how poor your family is, and how can your daughter-in-law not marry? In fact, it is very normal, for a country, backward to be beaten, we In China do not know how much bullying?
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