With the development of the times, blind dates are no longer the way for young people to find objects, and more and more middle-aged and elderly people have gradually moved towards the blind date platform. Many of them are divorced or widowed, and after the children have their own families, they are lonely in their later years, and they hope to find someone who knows hot and cold to take care of each other and live in old age.
Brother Zhao is 66 years old this year, divorced, and currently runs a commissary himself, because it is just on the side of the street, and there is only one family around him, so the business is still OK, and there are more than 20,000 left in a year in addition to various expenses.
When it comes to family, Big Brother Zhao's eyes instantly dimmed. In the past, when he was young, Brother Zhao was particularly able to toss, in fact, the conditions at home were very good, and he was the first person in the village to build a two-story house.
But I didn't expect that when I reached middle age, my son actually had uremia when he was 7 years old, and he spent all his family's savings in order to treat his son, unfortunately, it took only half a year for his son to die from the detection of the disease. This hit the Zhao family very hard, and they decided to move to Heilongjiang to live and escape from this sad place.
After arriving in Heilongjiang, Brother Zhao was unwilling to work for others all his life and spent a lot of money to rent a lot of land to grow rice, but he did not expect to be overwhelmed by the snow to crush the seedlings, lost 560,000 yuan, and his ex-wife complained a lot about Zhao Dage, but he still insisted on doing business by himself, and in the second year, he lost money again, and the contradictions between the two mouths were more and more, and then finally came to the point of divorce.
After the divorce, Brother Zhao lived in Heilongjiang for several years, and returned to Jilin in 2013 to open a commissary.
Now that Brother Zhao's daughter has become a family, he also has a stable income, that is, living alone is relatively lonely, he wants to find a companion and take care of each other together, the red lady asked Brother Zhao what are the criteria for choosing a mate, And Brother Zhao said: Good health, no tricks, clean and sharp on the line.
After listening to the situation of Elder Brother Zhao, Red Niang thought of Cao Sister, who was the same age as him.
Sister Cao is 65 years old this year, her fate in the first half of her life is actually more bitter, when she was only 6 and a half months old, her biological mother died, and her father had no way to raise her and gave her to her adoptive parents who had no fertility.
Her adoptive parents were very kind to Sister Cao, so when she later learned of her origins, she was also very filial to her adoptive parents.
When it came to talking about marriage, I met my ex-husband, the ex-husband's family economic conditions were not good, and he could not afford to marry his daughter-in-law, and Sister Cao also happened to be able to take care of her adoptive parents at home, so her ex-husband was upside down to Cao Dajie's home.
However, after marriage, the ex-husband always felt that his heart was dwarf, and often had conflicts with his adoptive mother, resulting in more and more contradictions between the husband and wife, and finally the two people really could not get by and divorced.
After the divorce, Sister Cao raised her children alone, and now that she is married, she always feels that she should find another one in her heart.
In this way, the red lady took Sister Cao to the commissary of Big Brother Zhao to meet and see if two people who had been hurt by each other's marriage could collide and spark.
The first time they met, Sister Cao felt that Brother Zhao was relatively clean and tidy in terms of clothing or the placement of the commissary, and his appearance was OK, and he was quite satisfied, and Brother Zhao also felt that he was more simple and the eyes of the two people were compatible.
Then Brother Zhao quickly introduced his commissary to Sister Cao, and the two began to briefly understand some basic information about each other.
After chatting for a while, I found that the two people were more in tune with each other in terms of feelings and their children's attitudes towards life.
Sister Cao said that she had no pension, there was only one agricultural cooperative in the countryside, and nothing else, and Brother Zhao said that it was acceptable, and for him, he was not picky about the other party's economic conditions, as long as he did not pick on him.
At this time, Cao Dajie said that we can't find too good, the conditions are too good he can't see, we have a psychological burden, which makes Zhao Brother feel that Cao Dajie is more down-to-earth, the chat atmosphere between the two people is getting better and better, Zhao Brother proposed to prepare a table of meals to welcome Cao Dajie, eat first, while eating and chatting.
Came to the restaurant to find that the meal prepared by Brother Zhao was very rich, a total of 10 dishes, during the meal, Brother Zhao, without stopping at all, hurried to pick vegetables for Sister Cao, afraid of neglecting her.
Looking at The enthusiasm of Big Brother Zhao, Sister Cao was also very happy, and then asked him what he had to ask for a mate, and they all said it frankly, opened the skylight and said bright words.
Brother Zhao first said that he had no other hobbies, so he usually drank a little wine, and Sister Cao said that as long as he didn't get drunk, he would do it.
Then Brother Zhao said to find an object, he also did not have any special requirements, that is, he hoped that there was someone who took care of him, could wash clothes and cook, and there was nothing to do at home, and the two people took care of each other.
Sister Cao said that cooking was not a problem for her, and the two people were more suitable in all aspects from eye contact to hobbies and habits, and Brother Zhao was ready to show her his good feelings.
But at this time, Sister Cao talked about a condition, but let Big Brother Zhao stop doing it, what happened?
It turned out that Brother Zhao asked Sister Cao what she wanted, and Sister Cao said that there was nothing else, that is, to give her some money every month.
Brother Zhao thinks that's not a nanny? It was unacceptable to him!
Red Niang hurried to find Sister Cao to understand her thoughts. Sister Cao explained that the main thing was to worry that she would get sick in the future, and the other party would not care about her, then she would have nothing at that time, and it would take several years in vain.
Then I learned that Brother Zhao could not accept this way, either to get a license, anyway, either give money or get a license, you must be able to make her guaranteed!
After knowing Cao Dajie's worries, Brother Zhao took the initiative to tell Cao Dajie that it was okay to get a license, but Cao Dajie was still not at ease, and then asked if he was sick, would he show the other party and take care of the other party?
Brother Zhao generously said that if he was sick, he would definitely be in charge, and the two people would definitely be responsible when they came together, and they would not be sad about how much money they spent.
Hearing this, Sister Cao finally put her mind at ease, and then the two people left each other's phone numbers, and this blind date was very successful.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > my thoughts:</h1>
We can see that there are a lot of middle-aged and elderly people on the platform blind date, but many have seen several have not succeeded, this time Zhao Brother two people can see the two people at once to like each other, I think the main reasons are the following:
First, there are common habits of life. The first time we met, I saw that Brother Zhao cleaned up the commissary and dressed more sharply, which left her with a good feeling, and then in the chat, Brother Zhao also always said that he liked to be clean.
In this regard, Big Brother Zhao is not as strong as some elderly people, macho, and thinks that women should serve him and do nothing themselves. Both people love to be clean, usually clean up and take care of each other, what a good old age.
Second, there is a sense of responsibility. When Sister Cao asked what to do if she got sick in the future, Brother Zhao was able to tell her categorically, everything is with me when you are sick, and I will take you to the doctor.
This sense of responsibility makes Sister Cao, who has been relatively bumpy since childhood, feel safe.
Third, they are very honest with each other. After the two people of Elder Brother Zhao initially understood their respective situations, they directly told each other about their own situation, and also inquired about each other's requirements, without concealing it, so that under the confession, they appeared more sincere.
The success of a relationship is inseparable from the efforts of two people, and the initial sincerity is the key to open the atrium, sincerity to sincerity, naturally it is easier to get happiness!
Finally, I hope that everyone can have a lover and eventually become a family!