In the entertainment industry, we can often see some old husbands and young wives of couples, the age difference between teenagers seems to be a normal thing, and even more 20 years old, 30 years old are possible, but because people in the entertainment industry are not old in our impression, so age is not very important.
But when it comes to old husbands with young wives, in fact, there is another phenomenon that everyone has not paid attention to, that is, old wives with young husbands. This seems like a ridiculous thing to his eyes, because we can understand that girls will want to find a man who is older than themselves and will be more secure, but not quite understand why men will find a woman older than themselves.
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Therefore, this matter is not understood by society, and there is such a pair in Hong Kong. That is, Bai Yunqin, who was once one of the five talented women in Hong Kong, found a husband who was 15 years younger than himself. The five talented women in Hong Kong seem to be only in Bai Yunqin in the blink of an eye, and in recent years, because of the epidemic in Hong Kong, Bai Yuqin has rarely appeared in the public's vision, and the most recent interview was held in her own home.
We can see that Bai Yunqin's face already has obvious traces of old age, while her husband is still very young. After all, Bai Yunqin is now 76 years old, and it seems impossible to maintain the appearance she once had. Her husband is also in his sixties, and her husband looks younger in comparison.
Perhaps because of his absence, Bai Yunqin seems to be aware of his own problems, he knows that his life can no longer be so publicized, so he changed his previous high-profile personality and sold the property under his name, most of them ultimately just want to let themselves live a stable old age. Although I only knew what I wanted in my old age, it seemed to him that wealth was no longer enough, and he seemed to want something more precious than wealth.
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The marriage between Bai Yuqin and her husband is often said to be said, because in contrast, Bai Yunqin has more status than her husband, so she also has more say at home, and he has always been the image of a strong woman in the eyes of outsiders, so it is inevitable that someone will point fingers at their love. Between them is more of an unequal position of female superiority and male inferiority, and therefore many people criticize him and do not understand him.
I think life is their own, what they want to live, it is up to themselves, outsiders should not make too much evaluation of their marriage and life, they both found each other, it means that they are recognized by each other. Then I think I should not use the so-called female superiority and male inferiority to describe the feelings between them, more should still be respect, in order to respect each other, so it will appear a little low.
In fact, the relationship between the two of them is not as smooth as everyone thinks, on the contrary, it is also a chicken feather. In the decades that they have lived together, there have been countless ups and downs. Bai Yuqin had been imprisoned, and the man had also cheated. In the face of his derailment, Bai Yunqin also relentlessly accused him of being a weak and widowed person, and even publicized the private affairs between them in front of the media, saying that they were nominal.
This matter undoubtedly brought a lot of pressure to the man, but also let him fall into the center of public opinion, the Bai Yunqin himself is not much better, but I don't know why this pair of bitter Mandarin ducks did not divorce, but still continue to be together, it seems that with the passage of time, as Bai Yunqin's age grows, she seems to be more and more inseparable from this man.
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It was probably in old age that she realized how ridiculous she was, that is, from this time on, she began to want to have a love of her own. But some of them are too late, so they can only continue to get along with this person who accompanies them until they are old.
Therefore, anyone's love is not as beautiful as everyone thinks, bai yunqin and her husband's love, but everyone should look very strong. But I didn't expect that even if this was the case, the man would still cheat, and there was no absolutely perfect person in this world. Nor is love the only one. Never believe in the inconsistency of love, because this is always a lie to yourself, but I think a truly responsible person will never take the step of cheating.
After all the ups and downs, they finally chose each other, and I think this is not because the so-called no one can accompany each other until they are old, or maybe it is a habit, an attachment, so that they finally have no way to let go of each other. Their examples are also a good example, they tell us that love is not smooth sailing, it is always full of wind and rain, we should tolerate each other, in order to continue to hide until the end, because the only one who can accompany us in the end is the other party.
Probably only when you get to such a field, away from some worldliness, will public opinion not remove them, and they can really usher in the love they want. Bai Yunqin's age is getting older. Perhaps he has already passed the age of knowing his destiny, and no one knows how long he can live, often at such an age, the more he looks at the age, and he becomes desireless.
Maybe makeup can't change her old state, but there is really no way to do it, and each of us can't escape the shackles of the laws of nature. We will eventually grow old. But one day, we grew old and went around, but we still didn't have the person we liked to accompany us, which was a sad thing, extremely desolate.
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I also want to use this to tell all young people, or some people who are preparing to enter the marriage hall, on that road, there may be a lot of differences, but don't believe that the other party does not love you, because if you don't love you, it is difficult to go to the step of marriage. But we all know that marriage is more about life, and life will definitely consume the love that was once there. But this will not disappear, but slowly, these faded loves will become family affection, and continue to walk together.
May all people be able to find their best love, and hope that in the last time, everyone can come together with the person they like. At this time, love is not very important, what we need is long-term companionship, in the slow companionship, the other party into our lives, this is the true meaning of marriage and love. Maybe it doesn't need to be perfect, it doesn't need to be so vigorous, it just needs to be able to be with you forever when you need him.