Men by clothing, horses by saddles. We can see a person's quality of life from his appearance, a well-dressed person, and the living conditions will not be worse. Some people dress casually, giving people a simple and simple feeling.
As the saying goes, seeing is not believing, and sometimes looking at the surface alone is unable to see the true nature of things.
Around us, there is a kind of person who is very low-key, who is not conspicuous in the crowd, not to mention that he really does not know that he is rich and is a stable and stable rich man.
Some people are keen to show off, even if they do not have the ability, they will pretend that they are very powerful, spend a lot of time and energy on dressing themselves, and strive to create a capable and capable image. Some people are full of strength, but their performance is very low-key and easy-going, and they never show their sharp edge. They don't have bad money, why don't they pay attention to food and clothing, they don't care about appearance, what are they thinking?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >1, be frank, no shelf</h1>
A frank person is easily liked by friends because it is very natural to get along with them, and never has to think about the depth or extra meaning of what they say or do.
I remember when I was in college, there were 6 girls in a dormitory, each of whom did not like to dress up very much, hanging out outside the campus on weekdays, buying stalls, eating street food, everything was complete, no one was an exception, so they could get along with each other.
Among them, there is a roommate, she is particularly playful, but also likes to laugh at herself, often makes us very happy, is the "pistachio" of the dormitory. Once the new semester started, several girls in our dormitory returned to school one after another, and went to the commissary to buy water on the same day. We were stunned to see our roommate get out of a car, and we were shocked to learn that her dad was the owner of a business in Shenzhen.
Knowing the rich family situation of our roommates, we began to be a little unnatural, after all, we are not people on the same level. However, my roommate did not think so, and continued to frolic with us, buying stalls and eating street stalls. She said: "The money belongs to Dad, I am me, and I am the same person from the same starting point as you." ”
It is precisely because of her frank and unlisted personality that it is really pleasing.
Wealthy and easy-going people like my roommates, they don't feel superior because they have money in the family, they know how to take care of their friends' feelings, and they don't become out of place with ordinary people because they are bound by strict tutoring. They pay more attention to their own feelings, how to be comfortable and how to come, do not care about the eyes of others, and live frankly, naturally and individually.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >2, the pursuit of inner abundance, do not care about the appearance of beauty</h1>
Born from the heart, a person's face can reflect his inner world. People with a peaceful heart will have a more peaceful appearance, and people with a dark heart will have a fierce and evil face, which is difficult for people to approach.
There is an old saying: "Clear water out of the hibiscus, natural to carve." "When a person is rich in money, he does not pursue a life of wearing gold and silver, and eating the taste of the mountains and the sea every meal, it is because he pursues different things.
One of my neighbors, Li Bo, like a normal old man, wore a sleeveless thin undershirt and a pair of mid-tube pants in the summer, holding a large sunflower umbrella in his hand, and it was not at all obvious that he was a millionaire.
Li Bo was an old cadre in his youth, and after retirement, he received a monthly pension that was enough to support the family. Li Bo still lives a simple and simple life, spending only 10 yuan per meal, socks have multiple patches, and the large sunflower umbrella in his hand is also missing a dime.
He likes to practice calligraphy the most, the living room of the family is designed by him into a calligraphy room, Li Bo said: "Practice calligraphy, the heart will settle down, looking at the finished product will be very satisfied." ”
No matter how a person dresses, he can't hide his inner thoughts, and there will always be a day when he shows his flaws. There is a kind of person who is very rich, but does not focus on the appearance, they pay more attention to the inner cultivation and spiritual pursuit.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >3, know how to use money in practice</h1>
I believe that everyone has the same feeling: the richer the person, the more miserly. Why? Because, rich people never spend money on irrelevant things, such as inviting wine and meat friends to dinner, buying luxury goods to improve their style, buying famous cars and watches to show off, and so on.
The richer the person, the more he understands that it is not easy to make money, because he will use the money in practice and will never waste every penny.
I have a colleague Pingjie, her husband is a businessman, the company is large, the annual profit is 5 million, she is also a middle-level manager of a company, but easy-going, mingling with subordinates.
Sometimes, we want to drink a cup of coffee for 38 yuan, and Sister Ping is not willing to drink. We discuss where to buy discounted designer clothes and she won't go either. Colleagues all teased her: "Your family is so rich, why are you so slamming the door?" Sister Ping just smiled and didn't speak.
Once in the pantry, I overheard Sister Ping talking on the phone, she was investing in a property, Sister Ping saw me around, and simply explained: "You finally know why I save money, it's all for the sake of buying a property for my children, this is all an investment in value preservation and appreciation." ”
No wonder Sister Ping is so "cutting the door", it turns out that she spends all her money on reality, and makes good use of the money to bring her greater benefits, rather than staying on eating, drinking and having fun.
Rich people have a wide field of vision, broad thinking, long-term vision, know how to use money on the blade, no wonder Sister Ping does not love to dress up, nor talk about eating and wearing, bent on thinking about how to use limited money to make money, which is really admirable.
Everyone has their own pursuits, we should consume rationally, don't punch the swollen face and be fat, let yourself live under the aura of illusion, and deceive yourself. Be practical, low-key and humble is always right.
Your appearance can reflect your inner world, you may wish to abandon the surface scenery, put your eyes on your own heart, pay attention to the inner connotation, you will find a different world.
I am the workplace path of the sheep boy, sharing a little bit every day, making a little progress every time.