Flower sister crazy wave 3 years to collect 10.32 million fans, all said because of her beautiful song tearing, do not know that she has been doing these 3 things
"In the days just seven years after I graduated, my failures reached an epic scale, the money was not earned, the work was not achieved, the life was chaotic, it seemed, it seemed, there was no life." 」
This is the current situation for many people.
The truth is: our present is caused by our past, and our present is caused by our future. That is to say, if the unsatisfactory life we are living now is caused by our past wrong behavior, then what we want to do now is to stop doing nothing in the future.
And Sister Hua, at a young age, let tens of millions of people call for her, what did she do right? Is it really because of its beautiful songs torn apart? Because of "Wild Waves"? Seeing the underlying logic through the phenomenon is what this number has always advocated, and it is also what I have been pursuing.
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Brushed a lot of small videos of Sister Hua, everyone has a feeling, she seems to want to reset something, expose something, reset something, the song is hoarse and not charming, even if it is out of tune, it is also a feeling to hear.
Why?
That's what it means!
Anything that has meaning has the value of paying, and the value of paying will be liked and recognized by the public.
Some around? Let's take a look at the comments.
Here are a few pictures I took at random, recognized, resonated, loved!
Yes, these simple words explain the core of any business act!
There is a happiness crisis in modern society, everyone has a wound in their hearts, they all need to be soothed, they always feel that something is missing in life, they feel overwhelmed, lonely and have no sense of accomplishment, day after day, year after year, because they have not died and choose to live.
And music may be this light, and there are no boundaries!
And she was lucky enough to choose to be this light, because the real person, the same feeling, the tear, a mouth is singing into your heart. Wild Waves was released on December 6, 2018. The catchy style makes people want to listen to it, and some people comment that the song is a high-definition offshore boating mv in the 90s, softening the phoenix legend.
Vertical, heart-wrenching!
In the end, the account is meaningless, but people can give meaning to it through their own perceptions and reactions to music, a lifetime, a year, a month, a day, a moment, a moment, a second! It may sound like some metaphysics, but that's the essence.
We may not be able to learn the posture and timbre of Sister Hua, but the unique understanding of life may also become our own characteristics, starting from knowing what we have, what we can do, what we can get, and what we can give up.
The sticker is right, not the son of heaven, but also the half son of heaven!
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Take Hua Jie as an example, at first she embarked on the road of singing is also singing casually on the side of the road, has been singing, constantly groping out her own timbre characteristics and musical style, hoarse with enthusiasm, but also constantly changing the scene, in the crowd of roadsides, subways, parks, etc., to attract the attention of passers-by, and finally, she became an Internet celebrity and musician with tens of millions of fans, and did what she liked for the rest of her life.
Screenshot of Sister Flower's early singing
In 2017, Hua Jie began to do this, it is not easy, of course, she is not the only one who does this, but there is not much that can be done, so when we are optimistic about a thing, we must have courage, the best opportunity is when the trend just came, and then now!
Regarding the behavior of Sister Hua, passers-by have never understood, to frantically call, which also shows this point: on the discord between the most virtuous and the multitude, and the great achievements do not conspire with the public. This is a sentence in the Zizhi Tongjian.
Why? Because people who want to achieve great things must have certain ideas, visions and insights in their hearts. When you want to do a big thing, if you listen to this and listen to that opinion, your mind will be shaken, which will affect your decision, so you should believe in your original decision.
Be brave enough to try it out!
The river and there are thirty years of Hedong and thirty years of Hexi, people should be more so, do not use the status quo to look at their own capabilities and the future, just as the young Ma Yun will not predict that he can become China's richest man, stirring up the rolling waves of China's e-commerce, many elites can not budget to one day can become the pillar of a country, ordinary people can not predict that one day a plague will rage... Everything is growing in change, and people are also shaping and perfecting their personality in day-to-day work, learning and cultivating their abilities in one thing and one line in a lifetime, and the future is the result of life in the present.
As Shang Martin said: For ordinary people, the planning of things at the beginning cannot be discussed with them, and they can only enjoy them together after success. Those who pay attention to lofty morality do not conform to the laymen, and those who have made great achievements do not have to consult with ordinary people. If the country can be strong, the old rules and regulations can be replaced.
Mediocre people are content with the status quo, ordinary readers are limited to their own knowledge, these two kinds of people can only guard the current stall, it is really not worth talking to them about reality and things other than their knowledge. Wise men can make new laws for the country, mediocre people can only guard the existing situation; wise people can change the system, and incompetent people can only stick to the status quo.
A country's system can still be changed, why can't a person try something in his lifetime?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 Long-termism: Do the most important thing for the rest of your life</h1>
Give it a try, how long? 1 month, 3 months, 1 year, 5 years...
Then, give up, of course not!
Hua Jie's video began from 17 years, so far more than 3 years, she insisted for three years, waiting for the flashpoint of her life! That's the most important thing I want to tell you, long-term thinking!
What exactly is long-termism? Why determines whether we will succeed or not!
Zhang Lei of Hillhouse Capital just finished talking about long-termism in the book "Value", and was criticized for "short-term operation" and "seeing the wind and making the rudder" in the investment of new energy vehicles. Mr. Lee is seen by Munger as "the smartest man in the room," a believer in value investing, and undoubtedly a long-termist, but he says that investors should be like golfers and should play memoryless balls. contradiction? split?
How do you balance "long-termism" and "improvisation"?
There is a need for a "two-line understanding" that is enough to change the course of one thing.
The concept is more obscure, we tell a story, such as Liu Bang to fight the world, this is a long-term ideal, he can not point out the Jiangshan can be his, he needs to keep fighting with Xiang Yu, one after another, in order to increase the probability of success little by little.
Simply put, long-termism is the ultimate final win rate, so that people can clearly understand what they need to insist on, and can persevere, as Japanese entrepreneur Kazuo Inamori said, when you can't choose to do what you like, like the things you choose, and then pay no less than anyone's efforts!
In the process of deciding to pay no less than anyone's efforts, it is necessary to fight monsters and upgrades, do a specific thing, overcome specific difficulties, and for self-media practitioners, it is to do a good job in every topic, write every title, and then do a good job in every frame of the video, so that every sentence has an example, with its own BGM, with its own Internet celebrity genes.
Listen carefully to each song of The Flower Sister, it seems to have its own label, let people listen to it and never forget!
Of course, not just being an internet celebrity, many people's lives do unfold in this way, including anyone you know who has become famous and started a family.
"Man plans his life around a series of questions that bother him and the answers to them."
This is a phrase I like very much.
Because I found that we all began to look for solutions because of some things that happened in life and work, some troubles and pains, this is the side track mechanism of "long-termism": "improvisation".
What good is it to recognize this?
Take my own experience, for example, I wrote articles for the first six years to make money, and as a result I didn't make money.
If I don't write, no one knows I can write;
Without my own masterpiece, no one will find me to write articles at a high price;
When I started writing, there were naturally more people looking for me.
Based on this belief, we will no longer focus on short-term monetary benefits, but on the strategy of future development, enhance the value of our own abilities, let our own high value to attract money to flow to ourselves, and our subsequent actions will become open, build a win-win relationship with others, be willing to invest in ourselves, and the environment will become more conducive to our personal development, so that life will enter a positive cycle.
This is what the flower sister who has been successful comes with herself, and it is also what we need to learn the most!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > postscript:</h1>
Don't let the mindset trap us, change the way of thinking, life will achieve a 180-degree turn, in the face of difficulties, not to avoid, self-pity, stagnation, self-abandonment, with the current impossibility to define the future is impossible, but to use more brains and think more, more research, select a vertical field, study its industry characteristics, find their own advantages, label the right label, encounter questions and cut cocoons, use new ways to solve it, the darkest moment, more to themselves to carry the past, Because this moment may be the flashpoint, crazy, wave!