In this world, finally getting married is a fairy tale, and love cannot be life.
A boy who likes a girl, is too humble and flattering in front of her, and will eventually lose her sooner. Girls like a boy, lose their dignity and ego, become self-sacrificing, and lead to emotional breakdown.
A casual search on the Internet will find all kinds of tragedies caused by the humility of love, just like the guests of the love battle, many people love too lowly in love, and finally the inner imbalance causes tragedy.
Why are we so easy to look humble and flattering in front of the people we like?
Why are we so hard to let go, and even unable to get out of that dead end?
Before the psychological imbalance ended in tragedy, I didn't want to understand this, but seeing the chat records of celebrities on the Internet, Wang Sicong's thing, I suddenly let go. I believe everyone knows that the biggest explosive point in the hot search is Wang Sicong, briefly talk about this incident.
It is said that four years ago, 18-year-old Sun Yining became an Internet celebrity because of her outstanding appearance. At that time, she and Wang Sicong met. However, for some reason, she chose to quit, and the relationship between the two was eventually interrupted.
Four years later, Wang Sicong, who concocted Sun Yining's "charity" on the Internet, noticed her again, Sun Yining was really good-looking, and she also grew.
So, he began to pursue Sun Yining madly.
Because the other party was Wang Sicong, at first Sun Yining spoke to him in a low voice, afraid that she would accidentally offend the reverse scales.
But he seemed to be more and more interested in Sun Yining, and he also drove to Hangzhou for several hours, just to meet her, speaking in a low voice, and exuding extreme humility and flattery, and even waiting for her to return cold news for hours.
In the face of Wang Sicong's fanatical pursuit, Sun Yining was very moved, but later she refused.
Their complete chat history is very long, I will not read them here, I believe many friends have seen it online. If you don't see it, you can also search online, and I'm sure you'll see it even better than I said. In addition, someone summed up some of Wang Sicong's golden sentences that he tried to please the other party.
Ah, I really can't imagine that RMB player Wang Sicong sometimes licks dogs. Some netizens said that they always thought that Wang Sicong's way of pursuing girls was to ask a sentence to transfer an account, but he did not expect to be the same as ordinary people.
No wonder some people say that in the face of love, all dogs are equal, and even the richest licking dogs will shed tears for love.
I remember that there was a topic on Weibo, saying that sharing the little tips of bubble girls, Wang Sicong's answer was, hello, I am Wang Sicong.
After seeing the Wang Sicong incident, my biggest feeling is that all love in this world has a victor. No matter how rich you are, no matter how handsome you are, no matter who your father is, no matter what your family background is, you will shed humble tears for love.
So think about it, even Wang Sicong is so humble for a love, so what do we ordinary people have to worry about? Including those who committed suicide for the sake of humble love and were unbalanced for the sake of humble love, there is really no need to dwell on it.
You're not the style he likes. That's all. It doesn't mean you're bad. You just didn't grow up on his aesthetic point.
Therefore, after the Wang Sicong incident came out, many netizens sent messages on the Internet saying that they were suddenly comfortable and relieved. Moreover, you don't think that Wang Sicong's chat record incident is quite positive in another aspect.
He relied on himself to heal the trauma in the hearts of the public, and at the cost of sacrificing himself, he gave a vivid and wonderful love lesson to hundreds of millions of netizens on the Internet. In this sense, it can be regarded as promoting positive energy.
Wang Sicong let everyone know that as long as you like an impossible person, your ultimate fate may be reduced to licking dogs.
He also made the public deeply understand a truth, we always feel that we are not good enough, not rich enough, so the other party will not care about you, but in fact, it is not that the other party does not like you or does not care about you, nor because you are not good enough, but you are not the type that the other party likes at all.
Love is the norm of life, and there is really nothing to tangle with. Not trapped in the heart, not confused by emotions, not thinking about the past, not afraid of the future, is the best attitude towards life.
In the relationship, no one will always be the king, whether you are handsome or rich, in the face of the person you love, all of us are the same, we have to experience humble flattery and gain and loss.
Appearance and wealth are not the universal admission tickets in this feeling, no matter how handsome the face, no matter how much money, the grievances that should be suffered in the feelings can not be less.
The same kind of troubles in the same world, in front of those who want to chase, have been humble as dust, those secrets that cannot be spoken, the hearts that cannot be declared to the mouth, can only be put in the heart and fester, even if it hurts, it will not be easily exposed to everyone.
I also saw a sentence on the Internet before, saying that I sent a message to someone I liked, and he didn't reply in time, so you deleted the dialog box, because when you saw him, you couldn't help but think of that humble self.
Summoning up the courage to send him a message, the result is a stone sinking into the sea, and you are embarrassed and angry, and vow never to contact again.
But one day he nodded his thumbs up under the comments in your circle of friends, and you couldn't help but contact him again. I heard that he likes to eat porridge from a certain Internet celebrity shop, you get up early in the morning to queue up to buy, delivered to him is still steaming, but he only said a thank you next, there is nothing else, he can't see your disappointed face?
No, he just pretended not to see it, and your chat started with you, and when he replied with a few words, you racked your brains again and again, thinking about how to break the silence.
Any time you see a message, you will be happy, thinking that he has finally taken the initiative to send a message, but the result will always disappoint you.
Your heart is like ashes again and again, and you are rekindled again and again. Knowing that it is your own wishful thinking that makes you lose yourself, but you still can't help the moth to put out the fire.
How many people pay in pain, while soberly blaming themselves, hating themselves for why they are not angry, why they do not leave proudly.
But after reading Wang Sicong's chat history, do you still care about the difficult peace?
Everyone has a time when they are not cared about in their feelings, but you don't have to feel uneasy and mind about it, and you can understand it yourself.
The essence of human beings is to lick dogs, we are just one of many cycles, you are licking someone else, he is licking another person, but don't forget that someone is also licking you behind your back!
God is fair to anyone, and once he comes into this world, everyone has to go through these lowly, bitter, and undesirable things, without mind, without chagrin.
In this world, it is a fairy tale to eventually become a family, and love and not to be able to do it is life.