Today's children are very tired, going to school very early in the morning, making up classes after school, writing homework late every day, and attending interest classes on weekends, with almost no free time of their own.
The reason why parents will let children continue to learn, in order to lay a good foundation for their children's lives, every parent hopes that their children can learn well and become more and more excellent, but some children seem to like learning on the surface, but in fact, they are "false diligence", if you want to know the child's learning status, parents can get answers through some details.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > is the child "learning bully", or is he pretending? </h1>
Yesterday colleague Jiaojiao told me that her son has been in the first grade, the academic performance is not very ideal, in order for the child to be able to study well, Jiaojiao has put a lot of thought into it, often making a variety of food for the child, providing a good learning environment for the child, but the child's academic performance is not very ideal.
This day is the weekend, Jiaojiao's son and classmates made an appointment to write homework together, the students' academic performance is very good, in the class at the top, Jiaojiao hopes that her son will study with others, and in the future, she can also improve her academic performance.
The two children were writing their homework, and Jiaojiao and her husband were watching from the sidelines, when Jiaojiao suddenly noticed that the erasers of the two children were very different.
After the classmates left, Jiaojiao directly slapped her son, and then said to her son: "You say that you study well every day, you look at people's learning attitudes, and then look at your own learning attitude." ”
The son was very unconvinced, Jiaojiao immediately found the eraser, and then said to the son: "The same eraser, you look at people's erasers, rules and regulations, usually in class must be listening carefully, and then look at your rotten eraser, what you did in class, don't think I don't know." ”
Hearing what his mother said, the son was dumbfounded, and he no longer argued, quickly admitted his mistake with his mother, and promised to study well in the future.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > parents know the "rubber law"</h1>
Academic performance is very important for children, but it is also the most headache for parents, because it is difficult for parents to know how their children behave in school, because parents cannot follow their children every day, and can only judge whether their children like to learn through report cards.
In order to make their parents happy, even if they do not like to learn, some children also pretend to be particularly fond of learning, parents think that children have a good learning attitude, so they do not do too much requirements for children, resulting in children's academic performance getting worse and worse.
In fact, whether children like to learn, parents can see the clues through some details, such as the famous "rubber law".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > want to know if the child is a school bully, parents can look at the child's eraser</h1>
1. Cut into small pieces
If you find that children always like to cut the eraser into many small pieces, but also can make a shape, and even use the eraser as a mini version of the building block, play happily every day, indicating that the child feels very bored in class every day, and does not use his mind on learning at all, if the child's academic performance is not good, it is also a very normal thing.
2. Paint on an eraser
There are also children like to paint on the eraser, the original white flawless eraser, always drawn dirty by the child, there are ballpoint pens and pencil marks on it, in fact, the child is the eraser as a drawing board, the child can play their imagination, on the eraser to express their mood. But always doing something unrelated to the class in class is bound to affect the grades.
3. Serious wear
If the child's eraser is seriously worn, and the state of wear of the four corners is very natural, and there is no trace of graffiti on the eraser, it means that the child is a "school bully". In fact, for active children, the classroom is very boring, many people will use erasers to pass the time, but if the child can restrain himself and spend all his energy on listening to the class, the future academic performance must be very good.
4, the eraser is very new
If the child's eraser is always particularly new, often replaced, does not necessarily mean that the child likes to learn, but the child may like the new and tired of the old, may also often lose the eraser, this is a very bad habit, parents should help the child to correct, let the child be careful, usually keep their own belongings.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > how can I get my child to concentrate on the lesson? </h1>
Some parents believe that sending their children to school can liberate themselves, and educating their children is a matter for teachers. In fact, this is not the case, if you hope that the child can concentrate on listening to the lesson, parents should cultivate the child's concentration, which is not a day or two can be cultivated, it takes a long time to accumulate.
1. Do not interrupt the child
If the child is concentrating on playing with toys, or is reading a book, parents should not interrupt the child, otherwise it will destroy the child's concentration. Parents should wait on the sidelines, even if what the child is doing is not meaningful, do not disturb the child, because the child is specializing in research, but also exercising concentration.
2, do not make too many rules for children
Although it is necessary to let the child follow the rules, parents should not make too many rules for the child, otherwise the child will be confused. In fact, the simpler the rhythm of life, the more helpful it is for the improvement of children's concentration.
In short, parents should understand the child's learning status, can view the child's eraser, and judge whether the child likes to learn through the status of the eraser. If the child is bored with school, parents should actively find ways to solve it, otherwise it will affect the child's future academic performance.
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