The Secret Visitor's Cinematic After-Effects
I don't know why this movie was named Secret Visitor, because the title of the film really didn't make me have the urge to watch it. After checking it out, I liked the foreign name and felt very appropriate to "Home Sweet Home", which is the movie I wanted to see about home.
Starring powerful actors such as Aaron Kwok and Duan Yihong, this film must not be wrong.
Like the copywriting "Every family has secrets, and our secret is home." ”
Seeing that there are comments that some viewers can't understand, and some audiences may understand part of it, in my opinion, the good thing about a movie is that the audience has some realistic contrasts and thoughts about the characters and plots in the process of watching the movie, and such a movie has more practical significance.
In the secret visitor film, I saw some plots derived from reality, but also combined with my own life experience, with some thoughts, for reference only:
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The scenes and pictures of family life at the beginning of the movie, in a luxurious and simple villa, the living atmosphere of the family is very depressing, everyone's eyes and expressions are strange, and the behavior of the sister and brother playing the piano is also easy to feel the disharmony.
In my opinion, in many rich and powerful families, family life is serious, unfree, and depressing, which may be related to my experience of growing up in the fields of the countryside, so far, when I go to families with rich money and power, it is easy to feel their shackles, the shackles from architecture, the shackles of rules, the shackles of behavior habits, all of which make me feel the beauty and joy of life.
I still remember when I just graduated, I went to a Hong Kong capital group company as the president's assistant, the president did not like to go to the office, so many times need to go to his home to deal with some work matters. Every time I go to his house, I have to go through two strict guards, and then on the top floor of more than 30 floors, there are two floors and a building is his home, the decoration is luxurious, half of the room walls are bookshelves and display shelves, American furniture is more exquisite than one, and the nanny is busy at home 24 hours a day. Although I knew that such a home would require a lot of money to buy, I never felt the warmth and comfort that home could bring, and every time I stayed in it, I felt extremely depressed and uncomfortable, and until I left the company three years later, I did not feel that the home was more comfortable than my small rental house.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" >2, Selection and Acceptance</h1>
If I were to summarize the entire film in one sentence, I would probably say that it is a story of redemption and self-redemption between several family members who have been pieced together by various coincidences.
Everyone in the family has their own purpose and their own constraints, which is very much like life as it is. Mr. Wang likes photography and foreign joy, forced to go home to get married and have children, and began the long road of redemption and self-redemption; because of her own identity as a junior and the experience of losing her child, her mother found a driver who could continue to redeem herself and at the same time seemed to have no choice but to gather in the family and play a role in the family; the sister had no choice, without her mother, she could not get the love of her stepfather, and she could not find her own sense of existence no matter what she looked for, but she was bent on the driver of the redemption basement. How helpless this life is; the younger brother was transferred custody by his biological father, very hard to find his future, but Mr. Wang as a sustenance to raise him, the heart can not grow up completely healthy; the driver in the basement can not walk out of his own shackles, do not dare to face his own faults, he is also very pitiful, especially in the hospital, no one came to see him, and finally even if he is free, he still can't find where to go, still choose to return to the patchwork home, this is the living reality of society.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" >3, thinking about the meaning of life</h1>
How people's lives should be more meaningful and valuable, seeing such a movie ending, it is inevitable to think deeply.
There is no winner in life, we have to choose and choose in life, we go to the big city and lose the tranquility and indisputable life of the countryside; we choose marriage and lose the freedom to walk and go around the world; we take the salary given by the boss and give up many good times of free and arbitrary. In these many choices and trade-offs, our lives have changed, sometimes a choice determines the direction and outcome of future life, it is difficult to make choices and trade-offs, and no one can help themselves.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" >4, everyone has secrets, there may be visitors</h1>
Everyone in the movie has their own secrets, and the part that can be revealed to the outside world is like a visitor visiting, seeing only the tip of the iceberg that is exposed.
In the movie, relative to Mr. Wang's secret, there are too many visitors, the family is a visitor, because the family does not know the real situation and reason why he is unwilling to go home to marry and have children abroad; the daughter is a visitor, because the daughter is through the mother's choice to have a relationship with Mr. Wang, and can not understand the world of adult parents; the son is a visitor, because the accident entered Mr. Wang's family life, to enjoy the part of being loved, but do not know why love arises, why it is different; the wife is a visitor, Taking the initiative to choose to walk into Mr. Wang's life, not knowing Mr. Wang's past and experience; the school bus driver in the basement is a visitor, and a person who can't beat Mr. Wang's eight rods, but has to bear his own secret clues.
From that day on, when the child approaches his parents' ear and says that he has a secret, life begins to confront the ego and the non-self. What are the more or less ulterior secrets in everyone's heart, like a mountain of foolishness, from here to there, from the east to the west, have not actually decreased, but the size and importance have changed. When I was a child, the class flower that I quietly liked was a big secret, parents and classmates were visitors, knowing one or not knowing the other, the secret when I grew up was nothing; the ordinary and ordinary birth and growth environment may be a secret in front of high-level company colleagues, the company HR or partner is the visitor, a little bit about it, but once you leave the company and return to your own class environment, the secret may disappear.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" >5, facing visitors, it is appropriate</h1>
Everyone has secrets, every home has secrets. As a visitor, if you accidentally break into the secret world, you must know that it is appropriate to stop and retreat contentedly, because everyone's maintenance and intention of secrets are different, and we must be more careful in maintaining secrets. When one day, the secret becomes less important, the person will disclose or put the secret down, and that time, it is dawn.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" >6, Mother's Day</h1>
Today is Mother's Day, just with such a movie to bring thinking to celebrate their understanding of this holiday, in the morning to look through their own photo albums, more than 30,000 photos, can not find a few photos with their mothers, can not find a few photos of their mothers. I think that many people's mobile phones, should not find many photos of mothers, parent-child relationship harmony needs wisdom, needs opportunities, needs fate, and we, often do not feel satisfied, from the love of relatives are deserved.
I hope you have time to review your parent-child relationship with your parents, and I hope that you have a home that is very different from the movie.
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May 9, 2021 · Chengdu