There are always some merchants who say: Do you think differently than most people? There are always students who say: I also want to be like you very, very much, but my family does not support me.
When your ideas are different from most people's, when your approach is not supported by many people, the pressure comes. In the face of pressure, the weaker people quickly change their positions. If not trained, this pattern of behavior that does not dare to differ from others will last a lifetime.
In this life, there must be one, or several times, your ideas, your choices, and your persistence, which will be different from most people, and will hear the questions of many people around you. At this time, taking care of the feelings of most people, it is only yourself who sacrifices.
On the surface: I am a quieter, introverted person, but I still have the gene of "stubbornness" in my bones. When I first fought back, I was still confinement. Because I don't want to be like a rural woman, I will go around the children and the stove all my life.
During confinement, I began to plan to go to work. As a result, it was strongly opposed by the in-laws and the mother-in-law's family. For this, there was also a quarrel. Even now, my parents often complain that I work too long, saying that they hope that I earn 10,000 yuan a month.
I told them: I used to know only what I didn't want, but now I know what I want, and I have to work harder. This is the narrow door of your life, and it is also a path that few people take.
Of course, I'm not saying that you have to work with your family and friends, but you have to ask yourself. If you still enjoy the moment, it's perfect.
Whether you go left or right is just a way of life you choose. The key is that you have to be happy, otherwise, wanting to be unattainable is the source of pain and anxiety.
© : Rabbit Mom, senior copywriting lecturer of listed enterprises, author of best-selling books "Explosive Copywriting Selling Guide" and "Short Copywriting Selling Goods". In 1 year, 46 full-network explosions were created, and the copywriting sold goods exceeded 100 million yuan. More copywriting dry goods, pay attention to the rabbit mother public number [rabbit mother to tell the sale of goods copywriting]