In a woman's life, no matter how beautiful and excellent, experienced, or knowledgeable, in the end you still have to find a man who can give you happiness to rely on, just like Andy in "Ode to Joy". Marriage is a woman's second life, and if you choose the wrong one, marriage is the grave; if you choose the right one, you can be happy for a lifetime. But now there are many scumbags in society, and there are too few good men. Today Xiaobian teaches you how to judge whether a man is a good man or not, so that you have a happy life. Good men generally have the following five characteristics.
First, the feelings are single-minded
A good man has to be single-minded and devoted to a woman. Women's minds are originally very delicate, and very sensitive, always like to be hurt by spring for a little thing, it is easy to lack of security. I believe that a good man will definitely bring women a sense of peace of mind, do not have to worry about love will deteriorate, and do not have to worry about men changing their hearts.
Men who are not entangled in the past and are responsible for their current feelings are what every woman wants, but there are too few such men, and if you have them around, you must cherish them.
2, self-motivated, will not be satisfied with the status quo
Some men will let women choose between love and bread, because he does not have the ability to give women love and bread to women. In fact, from this point, it can be seen that this man is a person who is not self-motivated.
A truly good man who doesn't make you worry about bread will just keep trying to give you a better life. He will tell you with his own actions that he has been working hard for your future, and such a man can be regarded as a good man.
3, will tolerate women, not much machismo
Good men will share it with you when you have something to do, and when you make a mistake, you will think about how to help you solve and redeem it, instead of blaming you for how you did it wrong again.
He won't impose his sense of opinion on you, and he won't ask you what you have to do about it. When encountering something that needs to be decided, it will first ask for your opinion, take a mutually acceptable approach, and get along with such a man, which will make the woman feel respected.
4. Be honest and trustworthy, and do what you say
Sweet talk can be said by anyone, but few people can really do it. A good man, he must be able to keep his promises and do what he says so that women are not always expecting and yet disappointed.
Whether in work or love, consistency between words and deeds is the basic requirement for others to trust him, and such a person will not easily give others expectations, but as long as he says it, it will definitely be realized. Such a man who is consistent in words and deeds and keeps his promises, if you have it around you, you must be good and sincere, because such a man is really rare.
4. Don't lose your temper for no reason
There are many men who like to send their temper to the people closest to them, which actually brings endless harm to women. No woman can accept that the person closest to her does not respect herself and only uses herself as a punching bag. Bringing negative emotions to women when you're out there getting angry or having a bad job isn't something a good man would do.
A good man, he will respect women and will never lose his temper with women for no reason. No matter how low the mood is, he will also try to adjust, and will never bring negative emotions into the feelings of two people.
Many men now only know how to eat, drink and have fun, and there are really too few good men. If you can meet a good man who does what he says, take advantage of it. Marrying such a good man will really be happy for a lifetime, so don't be blessed in the blessing.
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