Happy people use childhood to heal a lifetime, and unfortunate people use a lifetime to heal childhood.
With the progress of the times, more and more parents recognize the impact of family care on their children's lives.
The influence of the original family on the child's life is huge, which is vividly reflected in Ji Baoru.
Born in 1962, Ji Baoru was a popular child actor in Taiwan at that time.
From the moment she was born, she began a life of suffering.
In the eyes of outsiders, when she was a child, she was a child star, with unlimited scenery and fame and fortune.
But only she herself knew, her own helplessness.
Ji Baoru was born in a very patriarchal family, and her mother did not have a speaking position at home because she was not the main room.
Ji Baoru was born with her brother Long Feng, but at that time she was regarded as an "unknown" as a girl.
As soon as she was born, she was sent to live in her grandmother's house, and it was her grandmother who raised her to the age of five.
When ji Baoru was a child, he did not see his parents much in his impression.
Only when he receives that humble living allowance every month will he return to his own home.
However, the more undervalued the child, the more tenacious the vitality.
When he was a child, Ji Baoru looked very cute and had a great desire to perform.
Once grandma saw her young age, she was very emotional when she watched TV, and she teased her that if she cried out in 10 seconds, she would give her money.
At that time, the young and ignorant Ji Baoru thought that his grandmother liked himself, and when he heard it, he cried out.
Unexpectedly, this incident became the beginning of changing the fate of her life.
Ji Baoru, who was only 5 years old, was sent into the film and television circle by his grandmother, and began to perform as a small actor, and also became a cash cow for the whole family.
At that time, Ji Baoru was smart and cute, and the performance was vivid, and the audience liked it very much.
In a short period of time, Ji Baoru became the hottest child star at that time, and sang a song "Ten Thousand Miles to Find a Mother" at the age of 9, when everyone praised the child's young age, how could it have such a delicate interpretation? And earned the tears of many viewers.
In fact, at that time, Ji Baoru lived with her grandparents, and she couldn't see her parents several times a year, so she also threw her thoughts about her parents into the song.
But at that time, because of her popularity, her grandmother let her go to act one by one, and as soon as she turned on the TV, she was a cute figure.
But in fact, Ji Baoru, who should be the most carefree age, is not happy at all, and she calls herself an annoying little adult.
She doesn't have time to go to school and doesn't spend time with her peers at school, so her cultural knowledge is very limited.
What is even more infuriating is that in order to keep her innocent and have money to earn, when she was 13 years old, she was taken to the clinic by her grandmother and injected with a "growth inhibition needle", and she could no longer grow tall, always only 149 centimeters.
Even now, at the age of 59, she is still only 149 centimeters, which has become a pain in her life.
Although she always has a baby face and her voice will not change, the inferiority brought to her by her appearance makes her hate her grandmother.
She has always longed to be loved, and met Yu Long when she was 19 years old while filming.
Yu Long cared for her like a big brother, and also made her feel the warmth she had never felt before.
At the age of 19, Ji Baoru married Yu Long in the opposition of his family and quit the show business circle.
Although life after marriage at that time was very plain, Ji Baoru cherished this warm family environment.
She gave birth to three children over the course of several years.
However, when she was busy taking care of her three children, she found that her husband was having an affair, and Ji Baoru was very angry and ran away from home.
And her husband Yu Long also went out to drink because of the quarrel and encountered a fire, and unfortunately died.
At that time, the in-laws complained that she had killed her husband, and Ji Baoru was even more distressed.
But life does not continue, relying on part-time work, Ji Baoru's small body has a tenacious will and raises his three children.
The pressure of life often overwhelmed Ji Baoru, and she used to scold her children.
The second son went astray because of the change in the family environment, and in order to save the child, she sent the child to prison.
At that time, the mustard between mother and son was very deep, and the child was very resentful of her.
It took Ji Baoru six years, rain or shine, to visit his son three times a week, before his relationship with his son improved, and his son finally quit D.
Now Ji Baoru is 59 years old, has experienced the ups and downs of life, she is still very grateful for today's life, the three children have long grown up, life is plain but very happy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks:</h1>
The influence of a mother on her children is enormous.
Ji Baoru's unfortunate childhood when she was a child had a huge impact on her life.
Life does not experience wind and rain, it is difficult to see the rainbow.
Everyone's farewell has a bitter story, but it is this suffering that can inspire a person's positive motivation.