In April 2010, Nick Hu Zhe had just finished a wonderful speech.
The name sounds strange, but just by looking at his appearance, you may have a little impression.
Nick Hu zhe is a well-known orator who has visited 34 countries, participated in more than 1500 lectures, and reached an audience of more than 3 million people.
He often said a sentence on his lips, that is, "No hands, no feet, no worries, I create miracles myself!" ”
On this day, Nick Hu Zhe held another public service speech, the audience was as full as usual, at the end of the speech, Nick Hu Zhe played his inspirational film "Butterfly Circus" and shared with everyone.
After everyone had finished reading it, not a single one who did not shed tears, or even some of the sentimental people, ran directly to the podium and hugged the disabled speaker, Nick Hu Zhe.
After the speech, Nick watched the audience slowly exit, but he was actually looking for someone. It was just when the film was playing, a girl with four eyes opposite him, the girl's eyes were very beautiful, which made Nick in the crowd at a glance to be attracted to her, and in an instant a warm current rushed to his heart, he knew that he was in love with her.
Finally, Nick found the girl in the crowd, and he said to the girl with great sincerity, "Tell me your email address, okay?" ”
And the girl just said lightly: "I have friends who know you, in two days I will take care of their email address." Turned and said goodbye to Nick and left.
The girl who made Nick's heart was called Miyahara Kanae, who was only 22 years old at the time, his father was Japanese, and his mother was Mexican, so this "mix-and-match" made Miyahara Kane have thousands of styles.
Miyahara's profession was nursing, and at that time, she was living in a friend's house in the United States, did not have a full-time job, and usually helped her friend with children when she was fine, and her friend also happened to be Nick's friend.
After Nick saw Miyahara Kanae, his mind was full of her face, and from time to time he opened the TV mailbox to see if there was any mail from Miyahara Kanae.
Miyahara Kanae said "in two days", it has been 3 months, and Nick's heart is extremely lost.
He felt that he was acting sentimentally, after all, most people would find a healthy person to entrust for life, how could they find a disabled person who did not even have limbs?
Nick no longer dared to hope for love at this time, and in these three months, he tried to go to a friend's house more than once to find Jia Miao, but as long as he thought about his appearance and life, he did not have the confidence he had when he spoke.
Therefore, at this time, Nick gave himself a conclusion: "I will never get married, I will never find a job, and I will never find a purpose in life." ”
In Nick's mind, he decided that he didn't know how to be a good husband, and he couldn't even hold his wife's hand.
Life can't take care of herself, even if she finds a loved one, how can she guarantee her life?
Although Nick later had his own career and fame, he was still full of longing for love in his heart, but for marriage, he was discouraged.
It's not the first time Nick has been hit by this unrequited relationship, and according to his parents' recollection, when Nick was 8 years old, he recorded this passage in his diary: "I know that some people can get true love smoothly, but some people have to struggle to find a partner in life." 」 And I am destined to be the latter. ”
When Nick was immersed in the lows of insecurity, what he did not expect was that Miyahara Kanae had fallen in love with him.
At the end of 2007, newspapers on the streets of Illinois published a news story titled "The Incredible Story of Life."
The protagonist is Nick Hu zhe, who was born without limbs, but has the limits beyond life, so that hundreds of millions of people are deeply moved by his story.
The "Life Without Limbs Association" is a public welfare organization initiated by Nick, and Miyahara, who is studying nursing, has long been silently paying attention to Nick Huzhe, who is touched by his deeds and public welfare behavior, and what makes her feel warmer is Nick's smile. The time opposite Nick's four eyes was not the first time Thatachi had listened to Nick's speech.
At that time, Nick received more than 30,000 lectures a year from all over the world, and the Limbless Life Association was officially established as early as 2005.
Before the organization was founded, Nick made a living by speaking until he developed the organization into a nonprofit to help people in need around the world.
Nick has organized thousands of visits with his team in 25 countries, visiting prisons, drug rehabilitation centers, and refugee centers.
He raised funds for children in the disaster area, used his experience to guide children who had made mistakes to regain hope, and also helped these adolescent children out of psychological difficulties.
In Nick's impassioned speech, some of these audiences cried, some laughed, and some even shouted.
He asked all the girls present to join him in shouting "I'm so pretty!" Let the boys present shout with themselves "I am the best!" I am unique! ”
Although Nick has achieved fame now, when he first embarked on the road of speech, it was difficult.
With his own efforts, Nick has a double bachelor's degree in economics, and he could have spoken without such hard work, but Nick chose this difficult path.
When Nick was 17 years old, he began to dream of speaking because a famous black speaker, Reggie Dubs, came to Nick's high school to give a speech.
Reggie tells Nick that he is the illegitimate son of a prostitute who has lived in someone else's colored glasses all his life, but eventually changed his fate with his own efforts.
At this time, Nick is still a little boy who is addicted to pain, and he does not know how to stand in society on his own unsound appearance alone, or even how to continue his life.
But after listening to Reggie's speech in the audience, he seemed to see a glimmer of light, because he also wanted to be a speaker like Reggie.
But Nick, who was born with a disability, did not know how many obstacles were waiting for him.
At the age of 19, Nick called australian schools to sell his speeches, but in his memory, he had a hard time getting a chance after he had marketed himself 52 times. This time, the school gave him 5 minutes to speak, and when he left, Nick received only a $50 salary.
In 2011, Nick published an autobiography called Life Without Limits, which chronicled his experience speaking in Australia.
When he first took the first steps of his speech career, there was no audience in the audience, but he never gave up, pleading with the major schools and some groups to give him a chance, but he was still rejected, and the reason most of them gave was: "You are too young and inexperienced." ”
But this time, a school in Brisbane, Australia, agreed to give a speech, but because of his strange appearance, Nick was worried, and in the process he was eager to find a crack in the ground, and when he left the school, he felt that he was simply the laughing stock in people's eyes.
Nick was born cheerful and an optimist, but over time, he couldn't stand the rejection and ridicule, and his mentality would change somewhat, which made him feel as if he had returned to that inferior childhood.
The appearance of the disability seems to isolate him from the outside world, and even makes him burst his dream of speech, once living in the shadow of failure.
However, when Nick was 25 years old, his speech in a chapel in California brought him out of the mood.
On this day Nick gave the speech as usual, because there was no audience, so he was still in a very depressed mood, and after the speech, a couple walked up to Nick and said to Nick with tears in their eyes: "Thank you!" Thank you! Our children will grow up to be as good as you are. ”
It was only then that Nick noticed that the couple was holding a swaddled child in their arms, exactly like when he was a child, born without limbs.
Later, when Nick recalled the experience again, he said: "At that moment, looking into the eyes of this child, I found guidance in an instant. It can be said that it is this child that gives Nick the confidence to become his ideal self.
He decided to go from being an orator to an advocate of philanthropy.
At first, people didn't dare to hug Nick because they were afraid of taking him home by accident. And Nick jokingly said, "I'm not worried about breaking the law because my hands won't be roasted." So girls are always relieved to be with me because they don't worry about my hand on them. ”
Losing his limbs became Nick's humorous way, and when he joked with everyone, everyone stopped paying attention to his appearance and instead felt that he was very close.
He has touched a wider audience with optimism and his extraordinary experience, and more and more institutions have sent invitations to speak to Nick.
But what changed him was another detail, and this detail was his complete turning point.
One day, Nick happened to be staying at home, his sister walked in with a puppy in her arms, and Nick, who was on the side, was mistaken by the puppy for something delicious, and no matter what three seven twenty-one came up, he licked Nick all the way, gave Nick enough to choke, and threw the puppy out with all his strength.
My sister watched Nick and the puppy fight, laughed loudly, and jokingly said to him, "Brother, you see you have a small chicken foot, but this little chicken foot is quite cute, why don't you turn into a joyful joke?" ”
Later, Nick also said that it was his sister's kind joke that made him wake up like a dream. Since you can't change it, just laugh at the mutilation. With his wit and humor, Nick soon became famous.
His speech was contagious and attracted more and more listeners and people who loved him. Perhaps the most memorable attraction for him was Miyahara Kane.
Nick said: "In the future I have a wife, I can't hug her with my hands, but I will hug her heart with my heart." Real men will always wait with their hearts. ”
After waiting for more than 3 months for Miyahara's e-mail, Nick began to browse an article she had written on the Internet one day, which said: "I did not wait for the miracle to come, I created the miracle myself, I took a physical disability in my life, I have nothing to wait for." ”
Presumably, he already had the answer in his heart, because his love was also like this.
In July 2010, Nick finally stopped waiting, and he took the initiative to go to Dallas to find her at the house of a friend who was staying with Her, but coincidentally, Jia miao was not at home that day.
But Nick, who came to visit, did not directly say the purpose of this visit, ostensibly reminiscing with old friends, but inside and outside the words were asked again", "Where has Jia Miao gone?" Or did you go out with your boyfriend? ”
The friend answered Nick's question casually as he poured coffee. As he asked, Nick was a little remorseful, he felt that a girl like Jia Miao must have a favorite object, who can see such a "monster" as himself.
At this time, Jia Miao returned from outside.
Seeing Kaneon again, Nick seems to be a little out of control, because he longs to live with this girl for the rest of his life.
Nick took the initiative to say hello to Kanae and said, "Miss Miyahara, if I mention the day we met, what will you think?" ”
Jia Miao said without hesitation, "Think of our eyes." Nick, it made me feel a certain way, which scared me a little because I had never felt that way about anyone else! ”
This answer completely surprised Nick, because if nothing else, it would be a complete confession.
Miyahara once said in an interview: "The first glance made us have a chemical reaction. At the beginning of the relationship, even Nick said to Jia Miao, "Our kisses are too frequent." "This sweetness can be imagined. Even Jia Miao did not think that she would have such a special love.
But since she had a good feeling, why didn't Jia Miao give Nick her own email address in the first place?
On the day of the speech, Jia Miao saw that Nick and his sister had also talked, and when Nick and Jia Miao asked for an email address, Jia Miao mistakenly thought that Nick was in love with his sister.
While Nick is anxiously waiting for Jia Miao's email, Jia Miao is in the stage of breaking up with her boyfriend, because the relationship has not yet been broken, so she does not know how to deal with Nick's good feelings.
Two months later, Miyahara and Nick officially came together, and the news of "chicken feet hugging beauty" quickly became headlines.
But some bad public opinion began to follow, in the eyes of outsiders, Miyahara Kanae became the woman who coveted Nick's fame and money, and a normal person fell in love with a person without limbs.
During her relationship with Nick, Jia Miao was very low-key, and rarely exposed her photos in social software, so the media did not dig up more valuable information about Jia Miao.
For money, many people think that Nick has held so many speeches and participated in so many public welfare, he must be a rich man, but in fact, Nick does not have much money.
In the face of outside suspicion, Jia Miao enjoys every time she falls in love with Nick, can live peacefully like an ordinary person, and enjoy the world of two people.
In 2011, Nick even went into debt of more than $50,000 for "Something More" to release public welfare songs. In the face of Jia miao, Nick is full of guilt, and he is honest with Jia Miao about his bankruptcy. Jia Miao said, "It doesn't matter, I can do nursing work and feed the two of us." ”
It was also this sentence that Nick felt that Jia Miao was the woman he had been waiting for.
Why is Jia Miao, who does not seek fame and fortune, attracted to the crippled Nick?
Jia Miao once said: "I have been involved with other men, and only focusing on appearance makes me a little tired, when I met Nick, I felt that he could be my husband, although there is no perfect appearance, but it is perfect for me!" 」 ”
Jia Miao has always admired Nick very much, whether it is from the fighting spirit of life, or the concern for the vulnerable groups, so that Jia Miao admires Nick very much, every time Nick speaks on the stage, his blue eyes make Jia Miao feel deeply in love.
In Jia Miao's eyes, Nick is like an ordinary man, even better than a normal person. In the end, the two sides broke through the world and arranged to meet with the parents of both sides, and Jia Miao planned to personally tell them the news that the two people were going to get married.
However, Jia Miao's father has passed away, because when Jia Miao's parents divorced at the age of 5, Jia Miao was raised by her mother. In the face of his future mother-in-law, Nick, who has experienced many speeches, seems a little unconfident.
He asked Jia Miao repeatedly, "Will your mother agree?" "After all, this love is too special.
In order to make a good impression on her mother-in-law, Nick specially prepared a Mexican dance, and although her mother-in-law did not see the dance that Nick danced after the dance, she liked Nick very much because he was optimistic and sincere.
Jia Miao's mother knew Nick very early on, knowing that he had no limbs, but played various sports and could take care of himself.
He also knew that Jia Miao liked to skydive, so Nick accompanied her and tried to push his limits. In the eyes of Jia Miao's mother, only fear is the biggest disability, even if there are no hands and feet, but Nick can bring Jia Miao the security she wants. Therefore, the marriage of two people was agreed.
What Nick did not expect was that his parents did not agree to Nick's marriage to Jia Miao.
Because Jia Miao is a healthy person, Nick's parents are very worried that Jia Miao is just a momentary impulse, after all, choosing a person without limbs to wait for a lifetime is a long process.
Nick's father's question was sharp, and in front of Jia Miao's mother, he asked Jia Miao bluntly, "Nick has seal limbs, what if you and Nick's child don't have limbs either?" ”
But Jia Miao seemed to be ready for it, replying: "We want five children, even if all five children don't have limbs, it doesn't matter, because Nick is their best role model." ”
In early 2012, 30-year-old Nick and 24-year-old Miyahara had a wedding, and on the day of the wedding, when exchanging wedding rings, Nick took the ring in his mouth and put it on Kane's ring finger little by little.
Nick recalls that on the day of the wedding, when the priest asked Jia Miao if he would like to marry Nick, Nick saw tears of excitement and happiness in Jia Miao's eyes.
After marriage, Jia Miao wholeheartedly supported Nick's speech career, at the same time, they cherished each other more, loved each other more, and they used actions to dispel all kinds of speculation from the outside world, which made many people meet them on the street, and they can't help but sigh: "I believe in love again!" ”
The wonderfulness of life lies in this, we can't change the beginning of the story, but we can create the end of the story, and I hope that everyone will be treated kindly.
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