Zhang Xinwen, 38 years old, from Nanjing. Married to her husband Li Da for 12 years, she has a son and a daughter. Li Da worked as a marketing director in a real estate company with an annual income of nearly one million. After Zhang Xinwen gave birth to her second child at the age of 30, she quit her job and worked as a full-time wife at home. The husband can take care of the family, the son is well-behaved, and the daughter is cute. Her life is the envy of those around her.
After the Spring Festival holiday, life began to return to normal. On the first working day of the new year, Li Da, as one of the main leaders of the company, went to the company early in the morning. After Zhang Xinwen drove the two children to school, she went to the supermarket near her home to buy daily necessities. She had just parked her car in front of the supermarket when her phone rang..... The woman who called her was Peng Yun, 24 years old, and the purpose of calling Zhang Xinwen was to ask her to "negotiate" at the tea house.
In order to make things clear, she suppressed the anger in her heart and came to the tea house agreed by Peng Yun. The two met, and Peng Yun looked at her with a defiant look, proudly and conceitedly hoping that Zhang Xinwen could "take the initiative to quit" and fulfill her and Li Da's love. Peng Yun said to her: "In fact, there is no love in your marriage, Li Da is only responsible for you..." She even said that Li Da and Zhang Xinwen were in bed just to fulfill their obligations, in fact, he was not happy at all. These words came out of Peng Yun's mouth, and Zhang Xinwen's heart stung, but for the sake of the home she still loved deeply, she had to be calm: "Little sister, if you think about it carefully, only when he tells you that he doesn't love me and doesn't love this family, will you feel that you have a chance, and only in this way will you obediently listen to his words." Zhang Xinwen "calmly" took a sip of tea and continued to say to her: "He doesn't love me anymore, he wants a divorce, and he doesn't need you to notify me, not to mention that this morning he also ate all the breakfast I made, and kissed me and the children before going out." We've been married for so many years, we've had a fight, but he never mentioned the word "divorce"..."
"Don't fool yourself!" Peng Yun, who was clearly behind in the negotiations, argued. "Li Da has severe sweaty feet, his socks need to be changed frequently, the socks he wears all year round are placed in four drawers of different colors; he will video with me every time before socializing, asking me to check whether he is dressed appropriately... I can't live without him, and our children can't do without him, but more importantly, he also needs me and my children. Your presence only satisfies his curiosity and freshness, he has been tired this year, his work has been affected, and his fatigue has increased day by day. If you can't always satisfy his curiosity and freshness, do you think Li Da can still give you the love and marriage you want? After saying this, Zhang Xinwen got up and left, and before leaving, he said: "I don't think it is necessary for Li Da to know about the matter we met today, and you also need time to consider how you and his things will develop, I hope you can figure it out." ”
For the next two months or so, Zhang Xinwen continued to live her life as if nothing had happened. But the undercurrent of the past was only clear in her heart, and in the days when her husband was having an affair, her heart was tormented, and she did not have the ease and confidence that she had when facing the "third party" Peng Yun. Insomnia all night long, let her lose about 15 pounds in less than a month.
Her marriage was kept, because she understood that when an affair arose, if there was still room for salvation in the marriage, it must be dealt with calmly. When it is impossible to keep, it must be simply handled, and there is no need to entangle. He who should stay, he who should go.