<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, make a rose full of thorns on the body, and build a natural anti-wolf artifact! </h1>
1. Erect a safety defense area for the sex demon
As a woman with a little posture, when she enters the workplace and begins to contact complex crowds, she should wear a suit of armor and a colorproof mask.
Cultivate a lonely and arrogant temperament, convey a message that refuses to be thousands of miles away, this special armor and mask, which is intimidating and cannot be approached.
In fact, it is a kind of "anti-color weapon that cannot be invaded by all poisons".
A woman with this temperament, even if she is as beautiful as a heavenly immortal, will be intimidating, and can only be viewed from a distance, not approached.
In this way, protect yourself and erect a safety zone against the sex demon,
2, normal male and female interaction, are through step by step temptation, step by step to inch forward, the relationship will develop closer and closer, more and more intimate.
The boss always wants to hug you, that must be think that you are beautiful, personality, appearance are in line with his taste, want to hug to test you,
See if your reaction can you be in your pocket and become his vase.
If you don't refuse, half push and half right, he will make further progress until he takes you down.
3, your heart must understand that this kind of person will not marry you, not to mention will not divorce for you, he just treats you as a delicious, delicious dish to eat, at most to give you a promotion position, give you some benefits, in order to achieve the purpose of occupying you for a long time.
4, the boss always wants to hug you, excluding him from the wolf, you have thought about whether there are their own reasons, whether their affinity is too strong, giving people a sense of opportunity. If you leave a frivolous and casual impression on others, this itself is a signal of sucking color, and your boss does not want to hug you.
Don't think that giving him a hug will satisfy his desires and stop harassing you. After tasting the sweetness, it will only make the sex ghost think of wrongdoing and make it more inch-by-inch.
Therefore, from the beginning, with indifference, resistance to treatment, extinguished the fire of the boss's obscenity.
5, when the boss wants to get close to you, you should immediately be serious, self-disciplined, firm in your position, do not be afraid of offending the boss and timid, only promises.
Throw him a look: If you dare to hug me, I will dare to kick you to death. There are thorny roses on the body, has anyone picked them?
As a woman, when the break is broken, no matter which one, it is set early and good, don't get tangled. Half pushing and half is actually giving opportunities, not taking a stance is also giving opportunities, to agree to find him to pick clear, disagree also pick clear! Good for both sides!
6, simply refuse to hug! And point out with the boss: I am already a person with a family, you want to hug me, I will shout all over the street, you ruin the future, I ruin the innocence. A chicken flies, an egg fights, this is called a lose-lose situation! If you take revenge for hurting me, I am not a vegetarian.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, decisively refuse to take four steps</h1>
The fact that the boss wants to hug you must indicate that you have many opportunities to be alone with the boss.
How old is this boss, whether he is married, if he is married and has children, but he wants to hug you without anyone,
Then this boss must not be a person of good character, you must stay away from him, avoid being alone with him,
You can also directly tell him that he should be self-respecting, and if he really can't do it, he should resign and not do it.
1, first salute and then soldiers, give the boss a step
Pay attention to the attitude and don't make him too ugly, because men are better looking.
He wants to hold you, so you try to avoid him as much as possible, try not to be alone with him, don't give him a chance to slight you.
As soon as he wants to hold you, you stand farther away. As long as it's not his assistant and there's no chance of getting close to him, you use all sorts of excuses to avoid it.
If it is an assistant or secretary, when reporting work, try to use the intranet or email to report. He tells you in person, and you keep your distance from him, in short, don't let him succeed.
Knowing that the leader wants to hold you, you don't want to cater to him. You must do a good job of strategic defense, but also do a good job of tactical attacks at all times! Don't create an opportunity for the boss to be alone, it is necessary to see the boss, but also think of letting female colleagues accompany you! Don't forget to be a thief!
2, push away violently, want to take advantage of no way!
Your boss is definitely spending from veterans, old drivers. You are looked at by him, and you are not his opponent, he embraces you, is to test you, but also to trick you, to test whether your reaction is too extreme. Of course, the harassment will escalate step by step until you are gotten.
If you are a person who can't rub sand in your eyes and are loyal to your feelings, then you reject him directly, and if he succeeds, you push him away, or burn his fingers with hot coffee and pretend to accidentally splash.
3. Multiple hearts and eyes, retain evidence to call the police
Because there is a direct stake between you, if you don't give him any face,
Such an evil leader will definitely look for an opportunity to take revenge on you! Make it difficult for you to move forward in the future work!
If you have a person you love deeply, you are not cold to him, and you are very disgusted with this hug, the reaction is stronger,
Then he will transfer you from your current position and put you in a dirty and tired place, as a punishment for cooperation that you do not understand the meaning of leadership and do not understand.
So, you have to prevent retaliation. Collect good evidence, be prepared for prosecution,
If he repeatedly harasses you after you sternly refuse, you tell him that you call the police. If he threatens you, you keep the evidence and insist on calling the police.
Can't let such a man get away with it!
4. Tell a case
Lily is a financial officer at a company and has been with this company for three years! The previous leader was a woman, and then the company transferred her away and transferred a middle-aged male leader!
At the beginning, the male leaders were very kind to everyone and very good!
But a few months later, he often called Lily to his office! Saying that it is a guide work is actually a change of method to get close to her!
The leader also asked Julie to go to dinner and go to the movies!
Lily didn't promise the leader? Say it more directly! Lily's leaders began to take revenge on Lily!
He often told Lily a lot of things, and often criticized her! Anyway, I often pick her faults, because I don't know how many times Lily has cried!
Finally Lily made a move! Agreed to the leader's request and ate together!
In the process, Lily secretly recorded their conversation as evidence!
Then, Lily directly told the general manager the evidence that the leader harassed her! The general manager transferred the leader to another branch and did not punish him in any way!
Lily later worked in that company, although the current leader is also middle-aged, but this new leader is still better!
5. Firm resignation
As far as you are a girl, the boss wants to hug you, if you have a boyfriend, or a husband, you have no feelings for him, and you don't want to have a half-cent relationship with him.
Then you have to reject him sternly!
You can't hesitate to make him feel that it is possible.
Really can't stand it, resign decisively, meet this kind of boss, it is not interesting to stay any longer, there is no thousand days to prevent thieves, continue to work, in case there is something, the gain is not worth the loss.
Leave this company, leave this boss whose thoughts are not pure;
Because this matter violates your dignity and gradually becomes a problem for you, it is better to find a place to work without harassment.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > three, be a lover, do a small three</h1>
If you just want to take the opportunity to ascend to the throne, or want something material, then you can definitely understand what he means, and you will half push and half complete him.
1, the boss always wants to hug you, he must be looking at you, either you are beautiful and sexy, or you have the ability to face,
Bosses appreciate your talent and charm; they need not just your physical but also your spiritual wealth.
When men struggle in this society, everyone will feel tired, and at this time, they especially want to find a reliance, but they don't want others to know.
So, that's what it means to be a lover. If you also feel that the boss is OK, is the talented, capable, attractive boss you want,
You can understand each other more, and you can get comfort from each other that others can't get, so you will be with you.
Lovers do not need your material things, but will give their own money when you need them.
2, when the "little three" trilogy
Although you meet a boss who wants to hug you like this, either he is bored, and the boss simply thinks that your beauty and young body are a satyr and wants to take advantage of you.
But you don't want to leave him, maybe you care about your work, maybe there are other reasons.
If you want to become a small third, accept it, think about it, half push and half from it, then your benefit income will increase in the future,
Usually the male boss wants to hug the female worker, beautiful, otherwise no one hugs, master their own advantages, smart, the brain turns a few more circles,
You have to know your situation, what you need, but not forever, for long. Then leave farther away.
If you want to use him as a springboard, or if you don't mind how you do with him, as long as you can make more money, then you are definitely a match made in heaven.
(1) Through their youth, they accumulate the first bucket of gold in life and lay a solid foundation for a happy life in the future.
(2) After having money, who dares to laugh at you. In the real world, there are many women who rely on their beauty and complete the jump in life.
(3) I found a boy of my choice, married, perfect.
3, lovers, small three is not good, you are just a pastime.
You have to know that men are insatiable, especially these men who are full of guts, you let him hold him today, tomorrow he will have further actions, until he coaxes you into bed, and after playing, he will throw you aside, just like taking off his clothes, because he is the boss, he has money, he can use his hands and feet on you, and he will use his hands and feet on other girls, you are just playthings he hunts, smart girls are not fooled.
(1) The boss just treats you as a consumable in the empty and lonely cold, and you get nothing but a short period of physical pleasure to yourself.
(2) The boss himself is the kind of person who is messed with flowers and grass, he will be good with you, he will also be ambiguous with others, and you will invisibly become a "shrew", light vinegar, heavy mental breakdown.
(3) Not to mention the attitude of the boss's wife and family to you.
(4) Ending: Was recognized by the boss's wife or family, recognized, scolded, driven away, and forced to leave the company
If your boss is affectionate, he will give you a breakup fee or compensation
If the boss himself slammed the door, you will not only not get any mental and financial compensation, but also be beaten upside down by the boss and frame you!
In 2018, the most famous "so-and-so" incident in the entertainment industry, the heroine was not sent to prison. It is estimated that the heroine's heart is also better than death, and her intestines are remorseful.
If a girl does not know self-love, covets vanity, will inevitably lose her personality, and even cause trouble, this consequence will always hurt you. In reality. There are many examples of this.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > fourth, drive away the main room, and become the "boss lady"</h1>
There are also many examples in this regard, the most well-known is Deng Wendi, you can Baidu will know.
1. Wendi Deng (21 years old) and the first man, Cherry (53 years old)
The first man let Wendi Deng get a green card in the United States
2, Wendi Deng and the second man Wolf
The second man solved the problem of Wendi Deng's continuing education.
3. Wendi Deng (31 years old) and the third man, Murdoch (68 years old)
The third man solved Wendi Deng's money and childbirth problems
4, Deng Wendi and the fourth man Putin
The fourth man raised her prestige once more
5. Wendi Deng and the 5th man Zahoran (21 years old)
Getting younger and younger, after all, forty-year-old Aunt Deng needed comfort.
Many people are criticizing Deng Wendi's behavior, in fact, from another point of view, Deng Wendi has a lot to learn. Those big guys are not stupid, they are all human spirits, why are they attracted to Wendi Deng? In addition to his looks, Wendi Deng has terrible ability and execution, dares to fight for everything he wants from the world, and seizes every opportunity.
She is resourceful and purposeful, her complex, amazing resume, controversial, but still alive and well, and countless drools and flowers will not prevent her from continuing to create the next topic. This is Deng Wendi, perhaps many people do not necessarily agree with her human life method, but her future, or to set new goals and dreams, will never be old.
To have a better life, making yourself better is the most important thing!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > five or five cases for your reference:</h1>
1, in fact, the boss is also observing the color, this moving hand, that one can not move.
Bosses want to hug female employees, and many bosses have this mentality. I've seen a boss, in his 60s, not dead, and an old cow eating tender grass.
When I was working in a hotel, one day a new female employee came in, very tall and plump, quite manly style.
Soon in the hairdresser's shop in the hotel, the boss got off, and the woman's backhand was a slap, just in the boss's face, and the boss left silently.
As everyone knows, ten days later, the girl brought her 2-year-old child and her brother to work. The two sides live side in peace and peaceful coexistence. Soon I saw this girl going in and out with the boss.
Since then, the girl has worked half a day and taken a half-day off, and her brother has been converted from a handyman to an electrician apprentice, with a good salary.
In this way, the boss wants to hold you, you stick to the bottom line without wavering, he can't help you He.
The boss is not a bully when he sees a woman, he also has a bottom line, as long as you are not a stinky fish, he is not a rotten shrimp, you are not a turtle, he is not Wang Ba.
Case 2、
That year, I had just graduated from college and was recruited to work in a foreign-funded enterprise that said it was not big or small.
The boss is an American, and he is quite handsome. But as soon as I got into that company, someone told me that my boss was a satyr and told me to be careful.
To be honest, at first I still didn't believe it, but I was still a little worried. Because, if I rated my appearance, I thought I would get a 9 or more (10 out of 10).
Sure enough, not long after I went to work, the boss asked me out several times in the evening. Sometimes, let me go to his office; sometimes, let me go to his single dormitory; and even sometimes, just drive me out into the wilderness.
However, I refused one by one. Later, he came to me directly and said how much money he wanted to give me, asked me to accompany him, and finally I reprimanded him severely.
Later, I couldn't stand his perversion and disgust, and I approached him to resign, but he didn't agree. He also said that if I work well, he will definitely respect me in the future.
At that time, for various reasons, I was not able to resign. And I also feel that after all, the unit is treated well, if he can really respect me, then it is okay to continue to work for a period of time.
Until one day, he called me to his office on the pretext of work. Then, despite my objections, he rushed up and hugged me.
And I, directly lifting the leg is a foot. After a scream, he squatted on the ground for half a day without making a sound.
I said I was going to call him 120 ambulance, and he shook his head. I then took out my resignation report and asked him to sign it. I said, not only am I going to resign, I'm going to call the police.
Finally, he begged me not to call the police. When I saw that he was pitiful, I didn't call the police again. However, I am sure to resign and not to do it.
hum! He's underestimating me too! Although I am a girl, although I have just graduated, I also know how to clean myself! Only clean money, spend it smoothly!
Case 3、
My former boss was like this, several times when no one suddenly hugged me, and then I resigned decisively and changed to a new job.
He himself has a wife, and he doesn't know what he thinks, he always wants to hug me, and on the afternoon of the 12th, he took advantage of me to hold me, and after I hid over, he forcibly pushed me to the wall, saying that he had to hold me today, and as a result, I was hugged by him, and at the same time, he also took his hand....
Disgusting no, I went home at night to take a shower and almost washed myself off a layer of skin, and I cut and threw that dress in the trash.
Last weekend, he suddenly called me to tell me that there was a problem with the PPT I did, and asked me to go to the company to change it, there were very few people in the office that day, and he received an email from me to send him. Saying that there was still a little problem with PPT, I went to his office, he asked me to go to the computer to see where there was a problem, he stood behind me, and suddenly hugged me from behind, trying to put me on the desk. Fortunately, a woman pushed the door in, and he immediately let me go, otherwise, I didn't know what would happen.
When I went to work on Monday, I directly submitted my resignation, and I didn't dare to stay any longer, in order to make so much money, I put myself on board, it was not worth it. However, he did not approve it, saying that he would have to submit his resignation a month in advance before leaving. But I can't manage so much now, I've been absent from work for three days, which is not good, but I really can't stay.
Later, the boss asked me if I could go, and I said that someone in the family was injured and needed my care, and I didn't go to work.
Today, the boss also called to say that he would take leave first, take care of the family and then go to work, and the boss also said that I would not deduct my salary for leave.
But I clearly refused, I just want to resign, meet such a boss, resignation is the best way, do not be patient.
Case 4、
A friend of mine used to be a supervisor at a company, and he always looked for an opportunity to pat a woman's ass as if he had inadvertently slapped it. Some female workers are angry and angry on the spot, but some female workers are fine, perhaps considering that the supervisor is unintentional or just joking. As a result, the female workers who were slapped on the butt and thought that the supervisor was joking were basically all taken care of by him.
Case 5、
If a simple hug does not explain the problem, if the boss appreciates your personality, work seriously, can create wealth for the boss to be intimate with you, it is normal, Guan Jian can not cross the moral bottom, I generally hug with employees twice a week, Monday morning before going to work, Friday afternoon after work, let employees feel as warm as home, father-like love
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > five, as a boss also have to be self-respecting? </h1>
1, desire and face vicious with, good and good and the United States gather, respect your family members, respect the feelings, but also respect other people's relatives and friends, but also cherish their physical and mental health and personality.
2, if it is a small fresh meat, the beauty must be eaten, poor is a piece of old bacon! He was originally a broken flag, and he also missed the bunting flag fluttering outside home? Light knows that the whole world hates yellow-faced women, does not know that he is a face of folded flesh?! Even if you are the boss, jade girl still does not want to hold.
3, is the boss is not fake, single dogs are also true. Don't pee to take care of yourself, just like that bear, you also want to hold a beautiful woman? It is not proud, obscenely like a three-inch nail; it is not tall, the big characters do not know a basket; Zhi is not far away, and she drools when she sees a beautiful woman. What woman can look up to? As far as this boss is concerned, it is not the power that is exchanged for gold. What beautiful woman would want to commit herself to such an embrace?!
4, as a woman, in the unit must not leave a frivolous impression, as the saying goes, "flies do not sting seamless eggs", want to hug you, but do not say love you, itself shows that you have problems, otherwise, others will not make a gesture of hugging you. If the boss wants to possess you and never just wants to hug you, he will have many reasons to leave you alone with him.
4, beautiful women, life and work must pay attention to their own dress and speech and behavior, leaving people with a sense of maturity and stability,
This will avoid some unnecessary annoyances.
5, girls should also have dignity when they go to work.
Be a good girl.
By your own ability. Take advantage of opportunities. Talent is excellent.
You can't rely on anything. Not long-lasting.
In the end, life is a kaleidoscope, the same thing, some people succeed, some people lose, all by themselves!
So, the ending is all on its own. Taste for yourself!
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