Not long ago, I talked to a friend about anime when I was a child:
"Magic Card Maiden Sakura's card I still have a set at home."
"I specially bought Sakura's handmade from Japan, the first generation of cute gods, the dream lover came ~"
"I still see detectives Conan and Doraemon more."
"The hottest thing we had at that time had to be Dragon Ball!"
"The fighting power is only five slags!" Hahahahaha!"
Everyone seems to have one thing in common after adulthood, the more you grow up, the more your childhood experience is like a piece of chewable bubble gum, how to chew has a taste.
From elementary school to high school, college to entering the society, every time I talk to people, I find that the common point of everyone's growth experience is that I once chased so-and-so anime.
Only the classics in anime can resonate with everyone, no matter how many times they talk about it, people still talk about it.
Now watch these classic anime again, only to find that when I was a child, I watched the plot, and when I grew up, I watched life again.
In Doraemon's dream, there is an episode called "Daddy Will Be Spoiled", in this story, Nobita's father is also drunk at home because of his work and drinking tincture, and the family can't stop him.
So Doraemon took Nobita and his father back to the past, and when Grandma was still alive, he asked Grandma to teach Dad a lesson.
However, Grandma's "lesson" is to ask Dad if he has been doing well lately, and tell him not to put any burden on his body.
When Nobita's father heard his mother's words, he was suddenly extremely aggrieved, and he threw himself into his mother's arms, calling out to his mother while telling him that he had been bullied by the minister.
Mom just patted him on the back and said, "Well, cry well, you've worked hard." ”
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When I was a child, I didn't understand it, but when I grew up and watched this plot, I understood a truth: even the most powerful people need to rely on.
After leaving home, we have always felt that going out to report good news and not reporting worry is the greatest filial piety, and we have to find a way to digest our worries, as if we can be a good "adult".
And when we let go of the identity of omnipotent adults and are treated as children again, the grievances that are pressed in the bottom of our hearts are like a tidal wave.
It turns out that those sad things have not dissipated because of time, but we keep reminding ourselves to be a silent adult.
If Conan can't change back, what will Xiaolan do?
The ninth OVA in the Conan series, "Strangers After Ten Years", tells the story of Conan who did not become a new one after 10 years and grew up smoothly...
Conan wakes up to find that his era is 10 years later, the Junior Detective Team has grown up to become a sophomore in high school, and Heiji and Kazuya have reached the age of talking about marriage.
The unbelievable Conan rushed to Xiaolan's house, and when he heard the garden say that Xiaolan was about to get married, Conan was completely panicked, because he had eaten too much of the antidote developed by Xiao Lan, and Conan had never appeared as a new one in 5 years.
On the one hand, the unexplained disappearance of her sweetheart, on the other hand, the pursuit of a new doctor, Xiaolan fell into a dilemma.
Unable to accept Xiaolan marrying someone else's Conan, he searched through the places where the two of them had dated, and finally saw Xiaolan standing there silently in his study, seemingly waiting for the return of Xinyi.
In order to stop Xiaolan, Conan does not hesitate to expose himself as Xinyi, but Xiaolan does not believe it. Xiaolan told Conan that she had waited for a new decade and didn't care to wait for another decade.
At this moment, it is more clear that the most precious thing about love is not the flower before the moon, not the sweet words, but someone who is willing to spend time on you all the time.
And the sentence "Companionship is the confession of the longest love" is not as good as "waiting is the confession of the longest love".
When I was a child, I thought that in the Conan series, Xiaolan's role setting was not how unique it was, why did she become the heroine?
After experiencing a long-distance relationship, I understand that the strong girl who can withstand loneliness in ordinary and ordinary life and endure the next time and again is the most unique person around us.
The emotional gap caused by the unsynchronization of time and space is held up by misunderstandings again and again, and the problem that can be solved by a hug will easily become the fuse for announcing the breakup.
Obviously, it is two people's love, but it is more lonely than when they are alone.
So when I watched this episode again, I felt that I was full of bitterness and discomfort at that time, because I knew that Xiaolan had waited for a new decade, but in exchange for a lifetime of loneliness.
When I watched Dragon Ball as a child, my eyes were full of blood boiling fight scenes, and now when I look at Dragon Ball, I find that it is the friendship between Goku and Kling that supports the plot of the entire Dragon Ball.
Timid Kling is willing to die for Goku, Goku completely explodes for Kling's death, transforming into a Super Saiyan, no matter what the battle, Kling's expression when he sees Goku saving the field, will always be so assured, down-to-earth, 100% trust.
It is precisely because of this that "Dragon Ball" has that very classic sentence: Kling sacrifices the heavens, And Goku has boundless mana!
The two of them are like you and me who were enemies of the whole class for the sake of their best friends in middle and high school.
At that time, we always thought that our best friends would be together for a lifetime, but now we have parted ways and even become strangers.
Another episode that I will never forget is the end of gt, where Goku is about to leave Earth with the Dragon and he is back on the island by the sea, where his friendship with Kling began. However, at this time, Klin has already become an old man, and Goku has returned to his former childlike appearance.
This reminds me of the phrase "children say goodbye, adults silently alienate each other" When two people go farther and farther, the contact is less and less, and they want to open their mouths again.
It is also more and more clear that true friends do not meet every day, eat, drink and have fun, and praise each other, but can not contact for a long time, but the meeting is still familiar as ever, irreplaceable.
Dragon Ball never deliberately portrays friendship, but inadvertently, these precious emotions occupy all our memories.
When he sees Goku deliberately losing to Kling in a contest to fulfill his wish to win. I understood that friendship was never a constraint, a formal choice, but a mutual fulfillment and heartfelt joy.
Recently, I have come to a new understanding of Sakura, the magic card girl I have admired since I was a child, and it turns out that the Chosen Son has the same troubles as me...
Even if she can turn the tide every time she is in danger, she still can't become a god like Kulorid and can't get the approval of her companions, and Sakura begins to question whether she really has the ability to become the master of the Kulo card.
So Sakura used the "back" card to return to the time and space when Kuloride was still alive. As soon as she arrived at this time and space, Sakura was touched by the warm picture of Kulorid, Korubelos, and Tsuki in front of her, and was even more convinced that she could not do as well as Kuloride.
Sometimes, we are used to being swayed by other people's opinions.
Just like we are asked to learn from others from childhood, but we are rarely encouraged to be ourselves, but our denial of ourselves is the most terrible than the sadness of being questioned.
When I was a kid, I didn't understand why Kulored didn't tell Sakura how to get stronger. But when I revisited the play and heard Kulored say, "A new spring has begun," the moment the background music sounded, I suddenly understood.
Without this sentence, Sakura would not have created her own Kulo card. She was just a person who lived in Kulo's shadow and collected The Kulo cards.
It's like winter to spring, the four seasons change, every life in the world has its own color, and everyone has its own scenery.
When we enter the work, we will always experience confusion, whether to continue freelancing, or honestly take a preparation, or find a slower pace of the company to retire in advance, when we refer to the experience of countless people around, or find that other people's choices are not suitable for themselves.
Everyone's future is not a copy of someone else's past.
Everyone's future is tailor-made, and only when they truly understand in their hearts what cannot be abandoned, the road will go through.
I also finally understood why I still loved "Magic Card Girl Sakura" when I grew up, because the person who accompanied Sakura to grow up was myself.
Why it is easier to watch anime after adulthood is red-eyed, because we can still see our own shadow from it, and the truth that we only understood after adulthood has long been foreshadowed in these anime.
No matter when, the time to watch anime is always happy and happy, but unfortunately now many things occupy our time, so that these classic anime can only be active in chatting with friends.