Do a test and you'll know what your dark side is right away

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In this article, I want to talk about a very interesting topic, a person's "light side" and "dark side", he can make you know more about yourself.

I heard this concept in Huang Zhizhong's emotion management course.

Just do a small test and you'll know the two personalities you're hiding.

I personally feel that this test is very accurate, and the original purpose was to put it in some long-episode American dramas, such as the Big Bang Theory, Friends and so on.

Because these dramas are too long, the audience will be tired of the back of the broadcast, and the ratings will decline.

At this time, they will use this test to explore the characteristics of this character, so that he can re-attract the audience, and even a special profession called "screenwriter doctor".

Because the character's characteristics are actually more important than what he has said and done, just like Xie Er, you will think that this person is very strange, but you can't remember what he said or did strange things.

Let's take an analogy:

There is a female nurse, who is a small character in the play, but often hooks up with the dean, so how do we make the role of this nurse prominent?

The screenwriter doctor will give the nurse some tests, and the tests will find that the nurse often wants to hook up with the dean, and it turns out that she wants to meet the feeling of being needed.

The next plot arranged this scene for the nurse, when he was treating the patient, one patient finally recovered, thank you very much for the nurse to take care of him all the time, and suddenly the nurse realized that she wanted this feeling.

Since then, he has begun to take care of patients more carefully, and find this feeling of "being needed" from patients, rather than hooking up with the dean.

This test, which I also did, was amazing and had a great effect on me as well.

Let me start with two of the questions in the test, which impressed me:

1) What personality traits do you particularly hate about other people?

2, you envy the personality traits of others the most? But you don't have it.

My first answer was arrogant and my second answer was outgoing and cheerful.

The most amazing place came, it turned out that the place where I hated others was my dark side, and it was exactly that, in life, I liked to argue with others, and thus became a proud and arrogant person.

However, my bright side is extroverted and cheerful, and I will be particularly introverted when I am with strangers, but once I am with someone familiar, I will become another person, and I will be more extroverted and cheerful.

The point is that the "dark side" and the "light side" cannot coexist, and you either fall into a "dark side", and for me, you become arrogant and arrogant, and your personality will become depressed.

However, as long as I break through the "dark side", I can have the "light side" and begin to become extroverted and cheerful, and even the problem of arrogance and arrogance does not need to exist.

So how do you say you're going to break through?

That is to overcome the "weakness", which involves the next problem test, only by knowing, knowing more about yourself, can you have the opportunity to change:

1. When people see you for the first time, what kind of impression will they generally have on you?

Be quiet

2) What was your biggest childhood fear?

lonely

3. What are the biggest strengths in your personality?

persist

4. What do you envy most about others? But you don't have it.

Outgoing and cheerful

5, you are always in trouble because of what characteristics of your personality?

passive

6) What personality traits do you particularly hate about other people?

Arrogant

Next up is the answer:

1, Mask, 2, Fear 3, Weapon 4, Light Side 5, Weakness 6, Dark Side

The first problem, the explanation behind it, is the "mask", through which you hide your "fear", so I use "quiet" to hide my fear of "loneliness". (Pretty accurate)

If the "mask" can't solve the "fear", then we will use the "weapon" to deal with your fear.

That is, if "loneliness" cannot be solved, I will use "persistence" to deal with fear.

But this "weapon" is useless, and if it does, the "fear" will disappear.

The fourth problem is the "true self," the "bright side" of me, and if one day this fear disappears, then I will become such a person.

That is to say, if one day, I am not afraid of loneliness, then I will become optimistic and cheerful, indeed, since I studied abroad to the present 5 years, I have changed a lot, and I have been very cheerful.

I even once deliberately stayed in the UK alone for 3 months to overcome this loneliness, and now I basically don't feel lonely, but enjoy being alone.

Why can't my "fear" be brought down? This brings us to the 5th question, because we have "weaknesses", and this is where life tests us the most!

In recent years, I have also taken the initiative a lot, such as opening a knowledge planet, writing public accounts, shooting videos...

This "weakness" is actually the most interesting part of us, and in the eyes of the screenwriter doctor, this is also the place where the whole play revolves.

The last sixth problem is the "dark side", once you find that the "mask", "weapon", "weakness" are all problematic, if you can't overcome these problems, you will enter the "dark side", if you can overcome it will enter the "light side".

In simple terms, I am going to become active, and I will overcome the dark side, enter the light side, and become an extroverted and cheerful person, which feels really accurate.

In this way, I can find my own problems, it turns out that I don't have to read a lot of books, think about a lot of problems, and constantly cultivate hobbies... And for me, the most important thing is to become an active person!

I hope that readers will have the opportunity to overcome their "weaknesses" and enter the "world of light"! They are all able to "be their true selves."

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