Sex education for children should be carried out early.
You can't wait until the child enters puberty to develop before starting, after all, parents can wait, bad people will not wait.
The scope of sex education should be wide, not only to let children know healthy, normal sexual knowledge, but also to tell children that there are still some abnormal bad people in this world who will do perverted things, and must know how to protect themselves!
Sex education is not a flood beast, to tell children about sexual knowledge frankly, parents do not have to hide the hazy and hazy want to say hugh, it is not a mysterious thing, there is no need to put a mysterious veil on him.
Before children leave their parents for kindergarten, they should be told what they should not touch. What can't be done, what can't be done, what can't be said.
Especially for young girls, the sooner they start sex education, the better.
Let's take a look at sex education measures in other countries.
1. United States
Obama has strongly supported that children should be educated about sex at the age of five. In some parts of the United States, schools also teach sex education at the age of 5.
The first lesson of sex education in american secondary schools is to teach students to recognize condoms calmly and to let students understand the identity of men and women. The course will explain how to identify gender, brain- and hormone-controlled sexual orientation, and different expressions of different genders. The course uses charts to explain gender in detail, so that students understand that there are third sex people in the world besides men and women, so that they can correctly understand this group.
2. United Kingdom
Children in the UK have been compulsorily subject to sex education classes since the age of 5, and this lesson lasts until the age of 16. During this period, the main sex education curriculum for children in the UK was "personal, social and health education", which was not a light interest course, but a compulsory course for rigorous assessment.
When it comes to teaching sexual knowledge, the UK is not at all subtle. Sex education cartoons, movies, and textbooks for 5-year-old children, depictions and pictures of men and women having sex. British children can not only understand the difference between men and women from an early age, but also know how they came to this world.
3. Germany
In terms of sex education classes, Germany's rigor and rigidity have not been reflected too much, and simple and straightforward, not so aesthetic comics are the main force in sex education textbooks. In Germany, students are exposed to sex education classes from the 4th grade of primary school, when the curriculum is more superficial, and by the 6th grade, the sex education curriculum begins to become more formal. Before the start of the semester, parents will receive an email from the school informing them that they will be offering sex education classes.
The main content of the first lesson is, "Where did I come from?" "Through illustrations, children can learn about the different signs of male and female sex, how women get pregnant, how their bodies change after pregnancy, and how they eventually give birth to a child. In one of the pamphlets called "Encyclopedia of the Body", it is an explanation of the vocabulary related to the body, sex, reproduction, love, and emotions, which is easy to understand and practical.
1. France
Since 1973, sex education classes have been part of the French school curriculum, and the French sex education system has been relatively perfect. The French Ministry of Education stipulates that students in grades 8 and 9 are required to receive 30 to 40 hours of sex education. However, some of the knowledge related to sex has been introduced to 2nd grade students, and then in 4th grade will learn the basics related to human reproduction.
The main content of the sex education curriculum syllabus includes knowledge about life extension, sexual cycle, fertilization, contraception, birth control, sexually transmitted diseases, etc. The first lesson is much the same as in every country, and the teacher will tell the student that sexual development begins at about the age of 10, and the body changes, and this period is called puberty. And in the picture, students are told what women and men whose bodies have changed may become in the future. The dialogue in the picture is relatively explicit, such as "Why do I have so much hair?" "My breasts are smaller than others", "My boyfriend said I was cold because I didn't want to have sex" etc.
2. Netherlands
Dutch children are sexually educated from the age of 6. At the dinner table and in small talk, parents will generously explain sexual problems to their children. The child's understanding of the sexual organs is as ordinary as the understanding of the arms and hands, and there is no sense of mystery. Open sex education has proven to be a healthy guide for adolescents. In the Netherlands, it is legal for adolescents over the age of 12 to have sex, but the average age at which adolescents in the Netherlands have sex for the first time is 17.
5.Japan
Sex education is now universally available in most elementary schools in Japan, and students are forced to receive sex education from the 3rd grade (9 or 10 years old), mainly including female menstrual leave and male physiological problems. By middle school, students can already learn some rough contraceptive knowledge from the classroom. Japan attaches great importance to the issue of sex education for adolescents, and the Tokyo Metropolitan Education Commission has formulated a unified sex education guideline that stipulates that middle school students must attend sex education classes, and teachers should guide students to accept their physical development and psychological changes, while understanding the relationship between men and women. Japanese sex education classes tend to be conservative, so the more suitable place for Japanese sex education is actually in the health care room on campus, and some schools will use muppets as props to give lectures. The content of Sex Education in Japan will extend from the understanding of gender to the knowledge of fertilization and pregnancy, but it does not involve the process of sexual behavior.
In fact, in Japan, the consumer group of adult films is more than 40 years old, and unlike Chinese college students who can say names such as Maria Ozawa, Aoi, and Muto Lan with their mouths open, few Japanese college students have heard of anyone who knows so much about adult movie stars. Unlike the situation in China, Japanese people have been exposed to various systematic and formal sex education since childhood, so that by the time they reach college, their sense of mystery and curiosity about sex has long disappeared, and they can have enough time to participate in their favorite university faculty activities or free up more time for study.