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In China, which is heavily influenced by Confucian culture, the topic of "sex" is "ignored", especially in public.
Even when it comes to related topics, it is only a very subtle innuendo or hint.
For different genders, women's voice on this issue can be described as even more powerless.
Because we traditionally think of women as introverted, silent, and intellectual, they also consciously develop in these aspects.
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Although women's social status is relatively limited and affected by various remarks, in terms of sex, women's requirements for sexual life are actually higher than men's.
It's just that in society, public opinion and people require women to behave more conservatively, so this demand cannot be expressed.
Men have more missions because they have relatively strong strength and endurance.
So women gradually became in a subordinate position, and after the emergence of patriarchal society, women were relatively in a relatively low position. Once you say your sexual needs, you will be considered "unruly".
Whether in ancient China or in Western society, there are relevant views. The West is due to the influence of religions such as Catholic Christianity, while in China it is the "Three Principles and Five Constants" and so on.
With the development of time, although people have become much more civilized than before, there are still many people who are affected by traditional ideas today, especially those who are elderly.
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There are many differences between the sexes, such as men being more "thick and leafy" and women being more sensitive. Similarly, men will be more realistic about their views on sex, and women will have some idealistic views.
For men, the meaning of sex is its own meaning: to get pleasure, to reproduce children.
For women, in addition to their own meaning, sex life has a deep meaning, that is, the communication between the souls of both parties.
In this regard, we can understand some of the related concepts of Sigmund Freud, a giant in psychology, "Libido".
Freud believed that in the process of sexual life, both men and women will lift the "guard" in daily life and return to a sexual nature affected by "libido".
Therefore, in daily life, the strong, masculine men and the weak, gentle women will become completely different from usual. Women who have been silent about sex in the past may release the long-suppressed desire for sex in their hearts at this time.
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As mentioned earlier, men adopt a relatively simple attitude towards various things in daily life, as long as they meet general needs. But women are more eager for a sense of solidity, so they will care more about spiritual feelings.
For example, Maslow's hierarchy of needs divides individual pursuits into different levels. Among them, spiritual pursuit is a relatively high level.
This leads to the fact that when having sex, men and women, although they have to go through the same process, are in a state of "taking what they need": men want pleasure, and women want spiritual communication between the two, the so-called "fusion of souls".
But this does not mean that men and women have sex just to get that pleasure, but the starting points of both parties are different.
Mind-blown sex is good for the female body
The relationship between the quality of life and physical health status has been followed up by many hospitals in Europe for a decade in conjunction with some colleges and universities. The results of the study show that a quarter of a woman's physical health depends on physiological factors, and the remaining three-quarters is affected by acquired behavior.
The acquired behavior of women basically includes physical exercise, psychological movement and sexual life. Regarding the part of sexual life, the study found that a satisfactory sex life will make women's appearance and mood in a better state.
Relevant medical experts also said that not only sexual life, but even intimate behaviors such as kissing and hugging are also conducive to the secretion of hormones in the body.
So for sex life, especially women's sex life, we should form a correct understanding.
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References: Behavioral & Brain Sciences
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