<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > son was abducted, the biological father searched for ten years, and after finding the son, he chose to live with his adoptive parents</h1>
In Liaocheng, Shandong Province, Guo Gangtang's 2-year-old young son was taken away by human traffickers. In the next ten years, the Shandong han embarked on the road of searching for a son. His story was made into the movie "Lost alone", starring Andy Lau, released in 2015.
The case was finally solved in 2021. Traffickers were caught. The child was found in Linzhou City, Anyang, Henan Province. After the recognition of relatives, the grown-up child decided to stay with his elderly adoptive parents. Guo Gangtang expressed understanding.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > to please the rich second-generation girlfriend, threw his own children from the 15th floor and fell to his death</h1>
On November 2, 2020, in Jinjiang Huafu, Nan'an District, Chongqing, a man and a woman, two young children under the age of 3, fell from the bay window on the 15th floor and fell to their deaths. The child's father, Zhang Mou, cried bitterly at the scene, saying that he was asleep and did not look at the child.
But afterwards, the police found that this was not an accident, and the child was deliberately thrown down by Zhang. The reason is that Zhang is divorcing the child's birth mother, and it is agreed that both children will be raised by the mother. But the younger son has always lived with his grandparents. But Zhang's current girlfriend Ye Mou (founder of a food company in Chongqing) could not accept the fact that Zhang had a child, nor could he raise it by Zhang, so he planned the matter. On the same day, Zhang thought that his daughter bought clothes and let the two children stay longer for a while, and deceived her daughter to his side.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > what does it mean for humans to identify their loved ones? </h1>
As the saying goes, tiger poison does not eat children. From an evolutionary point of view, in order to continue their genes, parents will instinctively raise their children, and children will instinctively become closer to their biological parents. But why is this instinct not reflected in the above two cases?
This has to do with the way humans identify their loved ones.
Different animals identify their loved ones in different ways. The more common way is odor. Unfortunately, humans have not been able to evolve this ability. It is the tragedy of all the men who have discovered that the children they have raised for many years are not their own. You don't need a DNA paternity test, just go over and smell it.
Some birds will see the first moving object they see after breaking out of their shells as their closest relatives. Scientists call this the "imprint effect."
The way humans identify their loved ones is to live together for a long time. In other words, people who live together for a long time will be treated by our subconscious as their own blood relatives. Once included in the scope of a loved one, two instinctive reactions will occur: 1. be kind, and 2. It is difficult to produce sexual attraction.
That is to say, it is difficult for brothers and sisters to have sexual attraction between themselves, not because of their blood relationship, but because they have lived together since childhood. This is also verified in the adoption of children in the same family. Some scholars have counted the fertility rate of child brides in modern Taiwan and found that it is half lower than the average fertility rate.
But if it is a blood relative who has not been able to experience a common life, no matter how close the blood relationship is, it is possible to attract to each other. In Korean dramas, the rotten stems of long-lost brothers and sisters falling in love have a scientific basis. In 2019, a 21-year-old girl from Nebraska, USA, met her 40-year-old biological father for the first time. Later, the two became attracted to each other and married. From the perspective of biological instinct, the father was absent from the growth of his daughter, resulting in the subconscious inability of the two to regard each other as relatives.
The two children in Chongqing, one living with their mother and the other with their grandparents, the father did not participate in its growth, he could not subconsciously regard it as his own flesh and bones, but became a stumbling block to his own entry into the rich.
Abducted children in Shandong will also be closer to their adoptive parents. Of course, other social factors cannot be excluded.
Finally, it is emphasized that the parents of two young children who fell to their deaths met after working for a "small loan company". Senior Chinese should understand what such companies do. The young child's biological father, Zhang Mou, was born poor, and his father was a mason and had died long ago. Zhang, who only has a primary school culture, why is he in his twenties living in such a high-end community as Jinjiang Huafu on the south bank of Chongqing? It is not difficult to understand the viciousness of the attack.
Finally, may every parent no longer be absent from the growth of their children.