My cousin's daughter is a guest of my family. My son was very happy. He found nori and shared it with her. Unexpectedly, the cousin was very nervous and snatched the seaweed from her daughter's hand, "You can't eat it!" "In fact, I don't approve of children eating and drinking indiscriminately, but seaweed is the only snack in my family." But I still can't imagine how tasteless her childhood was when I didn't know anything about ice cream and chocolate! I think parents should allow their children to taste what kids around the world have eaten.
At one point, a colleague told me, "I never let my kids play on the beach or get their clothes dirty." It's one of those things I can't stand. So she often dressed her son up, neat little suits and shiny black and white leather shoes. Once upon a time, we organized a group of kids to play on the beach and shovels to play on the beach. The children happily shoveled sand on the beach, and only her son sat quietly next to his mother and read a book. My son asked him if he wanted to play together, and he whispered, "I don't play, I'm reading." "He and his mother have a tacit understanding. He sometimes looked down at the book silently, sometimes looked at the happy friends on the beach, and the longing look was painful. My colleague's son is of course very nice, he is very knowledgeable and polite at a young age, and he often gets little red flowers. But life is inevitably muddy, and I am worried about how he will accept the world in the future.
Personally, I have always felt that the drama "Where Daddy Goes" is too good to watch, and the second generation of stars is very grounded. I remember when Lu Yi's young daughter stepped into a mountain road village, she screamed excitedly, "I can finally dig up mud." "This is the real cry of childhood. Don't raise your child to be a pure crystal doll. And purely, not every ordinary child can completely reject vulgar things. Playing, fighting and screaming in the mud is like you have to occasionally go to a smoky night market for cumin beef drinks. Trust that your child is good enough, only occasionally returning to the vulgar side.