Happy weekend!
A pleasant weekend is suitable for chatting about light topics, such as the obsessive "cloud baby" career of 88. Watching "Where Did Daddy Go 6", the heart that was hurt by Yang Shuo was recently all healed by this little cute baby.
Leonardo, 3, is the son of 47-year-old actor Geng Le. Many viewers initially went to see the show for the little bell pepper jasper, and were half killed by Yang Shuo's stupid and arrogant education methods, and after insisting on watching it, they were circled by this smart little boy who always loved to cry and look for his mother.
No comparison, no harm, everyone! Compared with Yang Shuoyi, Geng Le's education method is simply textbook-level gentleness and thoughtfulness.
The child who grew up in the environment of being respected and loved, although he was only three years old, has become a sensible and caring little warm man.
Love is the inheritance of life, and this truth is once again confirmed in Geng Le and Le Na Duo.
——I am the dividing line of cute love——
Geng Le, surnamed Geng, but his son's name is "Le Na Duo", the surname "Le". Geng Le, who came from the Academy of Fine Arts, gave his son this name, which is the name of the great painter Leonardo da Vinci who was seen on the plane, and Leonardo's first two letters 'Le' happened to be his "le".
Therefore, the son does not follow his last name, with the last word of his name. The meaning of "Le Na Duo" is "so much happiness", Geng Le said, simple to be happy.
And Leonardo is liked by many viewers, also because he has a particularly simple and pure happiness in him.
Because he wanted his mother to cry, but his father Geng Le fed him food, he still cried while eating it, and after eating enough, he took the initiative to cry and say, "I ate well." Yes, you should cry, but there is no delay in what you should do.
In the program, other fathers except Yang Shuo were temporarily left, testing the reaction of the children after they could not see their fathers. As a result, after the children found that their father was gone, they sighed like a little adult: "Daddy who doesn't talk like words!" ”
Then he asked himself and encouraged himself: "I don't have a father now, so I'll go on an adventure myself, right?" "Okay!"
When Leonardo talks to children of the same age, although from time to time "little adults" are on their bodies, they habitually use an inquiring tone. Playing with the children in the village, the other party made a mistake, and Leonardo wanted the other party to apologize to him, so he asked him: "Did you say you were sorry?" ”
After the other children said "I'm sorry", he could add cutely: "This is good." ”
The language habits of children are a projection of parents' way of education. Leonardo always habitually asks each other when he gets along with children, because his father Geng Le also faces him in the same way.
In "Where Did Daddy Go 6", the children of The first two issues of Leonardo should be renamed "Tears Nado". He was crying when other children were playing games, and he was still crying when other children memorized ancient poems, and the crying point was very concentrated and clear - thinking of mother!
The state is similar to the Mori disc in "Where Daddy Went 1". At that time, Tian Liang had no strength to resist Sen Di's crying, so he had to let her cry all the time, and when she was tired of crying, she was physically strong like the wind, and how to cry would not be tired.
Geng Le's method of appeasing is very different. The first time Lena duo cried and said that he missed his mother, Geng Le crouched down and told him: This is a trip with dad, do you understand?
Leonardo was still crying and thinking about his mother when he ate, and Geng Le continued to gently tell him: "You can only see your mother after completing the task, do you understand?" Do you understand? ”
Geng Le did not regard Le Naduo, who was crying for his mother, as an ignorant child, nor did he show a trace of impatience, he felt empathy and understood the child's situation and needs, and could handle it in a gentle and equal way.
In posture, he and Leonardo either crouched down or half-bent when talking, basically maintaining an equal height with the three-and-a-half-year-old Leonardo.
Even in the case of Le Naduo's over-reliance and making Geng Le angry, he would still crouch down and talk to the child, compared to Yang Shuo, who was always standing tall and pointing at his son.
In terms of language, he rarely preached a big truth to Leonardo, telling him to learn to breathe in the plateau, and patiently demonstrated it himself a little;
After Le Naduo made a mistake, Geng Le told him how to correct it, and often added a gentle sentence of "Do you understand" and "Understand".
Between Geng Le and Leonardo, it is not a one-way father who exports education to his son, but a close emotional connection and interaction with each other. Leonardo will clearly tell Geng Le, "Daddy I understand", and will also express his love after being trained.
The same is the hope that his son will become a man, but Yang Shuo chose to suppress education without a bottom line, and Geng Le's point of view is that although the son wants to become a man, the warmth of the father is equally important, this warmth is not the same as the warmth of the mother, and it is necessary to treat the child as a friend and put it on an equal footing.
——I am the dividing line of the Buddhist family——
Geng Le provides Leonardo with enough warmth and security as a father, so that Leonardo can always be the one who takes the initiative to stand up and comfort or break the siege after encountering a situation.
The children wanted to eat watermelon, Yang Yuchen helped to break the watermelon, and a group of children began to grasp and eat it with their hands happily. The other fathers giggled and laughed like a group of little monkeys after seeing it, only Yang Shuo asked his son with a straight face: "Can watermelon be eaten like this?" ”
Le Na more came out to break the siege: "Watermelon can be cut open to eat, today is too hungry ~ we grab it with our hands to eat, this idea is great, right?" ”
A three-year-old child not only answered the adult's questions, but also adjusted the atmosphere of the scene, no wonder many viewers saw this scene and sighed: "This child is too popular!" ”
For Leonardo, he received a lot of love from his father, so he always gave it back.
Praise to the village chief,
Help Yang Yuchen to breathe his eyes and say that he will take good care of him.
And although he talks about loving his mother the most, he actually often says "I love you" to his father.
The love and warmth that parents give to their children is a kind of confidence that allows them to go out and face the world. Meeting a father like Geng Le, who is willing to communicate respect and understand his child's world, injects more strength into this confidence.
Although from the presentation of the show, Geng Le's education method is worthy of praise, in fact, Geng Le does not spend much time with his children, and most of the time Le Nado is still with his favorite mother.
Who was her mother? The show did not give a positive face shot, Geng Le only suddenly announced on Weibo two years ago that his son was two years old, no wedding photos, and never showed love.
Some melon-eating masses compared the side face of Geng Le's wife who appeared in the show, suspected to be Wang Biqi. She was a national first-class table tennis player, won the second place in the women's singles of the National Olympic Star Cup in 1999, and later transformed into an actress, and also cooperated with Geng Le in 2012.
The ping-pong table in the basement of Geng Lejia also makes this statement more credible.
The childlike fun in Leonardo may be innate, and the thoughtfulness and gentleness may come from the mother, but the "Buddhist system" must come from Geng Le.
When a man went out to look for a sheep, he fell solidly, and the ordinary children either cried or were strong enough to pat the soil and start again. After the Buddhist Children fell to the ground, they "fell down, where to rest", and sighed on the grass with peace of mind: "I am so tired, our father is not tired, right?" ”
This picture reminds people of a story of Geng Le and Yan Ni. One day, Geng Le suddenly received a message from Yan Ni about "how to forget a person". He immediately called over and comforted her: Spring is coming now, but don't look forward to that spring. You have to learn to enjoy the winter, the cold and cold of winter, you have to recognize this.
Where the son fell, he rested, and the father comforted others to admit it, really born.
Geng Le's gentle Buddhist lineage also came largely from his family. The 1990s were rock'n' roll years, with rock and roll youth each holding a pair of ripped jeans and waist-length hair.
Geng Le, who came from an artistic family, his grandfather was Zhang Tong, a famous Chinese modern and contemporary painter, who participated in the design of the national emblem and was also the chief art designer of the classic animation film "Nezha Noisy Sea";
Uncle Geng Le was the famous art designer Zhang Langlang. After geng le himself graduated from the affiliated middle school of the Central Academy of Fine Arts, he was admitted to the printmaking department of the Central Academy of Fine Arts, he painted portraits of Yan Ni and Mei Ting, and from time to time he opened a painting exhibition, and the artistic atmosphere of his body could not be stopped.
When director Guan Hu filmed his debut film "Hair Messed Up", he wanted to find a person with rock temperament, but he could try to pick and choose in the circle, either not long enough hair fluttering, or the strength on the body was not enough.
The casting director suggested to Guan Hu that if there is no one in the entertainment industry, give it up, go to the conservatory of music or the academy of fine arts to try it. As a result, after Guan Hu came to the Academy of Fine Arts, he found Geng Le in the playground ten minutes later, who met his requirements, and opened the door of the showbiz circle for him.
A student of the Academy of Fine Arts from an artistic family suddenly came to make a movie, and also filmed one after another, from "Sunny Day" to "The Subway to Spring", Geng Le's film contract was almost uninterrupted.
First, his image was very scarce in the show business circle at that time, and the hormones burst with a little literary temperament; moreover, although he had not studied acting, it was precisely because of this way that he jumped out of the box and had his own personality and style, so he was very favored by the director.
Leave the established route and suddenly deviate from the route and take another road, even now, there will be many parents who will talk to their children and want to guide their lives. Geng Le's parents gave him great freedom, whether it was when he first learned to paint or make movies, they never interfered.
Geng Le's parents gave him an extremely inclusive growth environment, he did not listen to lectures in class when he was a child, did not do homework after class, and did not do homework, but his parents rarely asked for his grades.
Geng Le once said in an interview that in the early 1980s, when he was in elementary school, he encountered reform and opening up, and American films were screened in Beijing, called "American Film Week". Foreign films are a rarity, with only two shows released every day.
At that time, Geng Le's father took him on leave with his teacher, and as a result, he turned around and led him into the movie theater. Geng Le's father felt that if the homework was left behind, it could be made up, and the movie would be gone without watching it.
This way of education, I believe is what many children's shoes have dreamed of, Geng Le, who grew up in a relaxed and comfortable family environment, has gained absolute freedom in the era of youth growth, so now the educational concept of his son Leonardo also inherits the views of his parents.
Geng Le said that one of his most hated sentences is "don't let the child lose at the starting line", because this sentence has misled countless parents, is the fastest to reach the end of life first?
Of course, today's times are different, and the competitive pressure is much greater than in the era when Geng Le grew up; and Geng Le has no worries about food and clothing since he was a child, and he does not agree with "winning at the starting line", the actual reason may be because his family background allows him to cross the starting line directly from birth.
But whether it is an ordinary child trying to win at the starting line, or an ordinary child who is already at the finish line at birth, Geng Le's words are very applicable: what children need most is love and companionship, and what kind of person they become in the future is not something that anyone can design and control.
In the promotional video of "Where Did Daddy Go 6", Geng Le said to Leonardo: "No matter what your future looks like, Dad wants to give the brush to yourself, and I, I am responsible for spreading the canvas for you, holding your hand, and guiding you to draw the first stroke." Tomorrow's color, it is up to you to decide. ”
May you meet such parents, may you be such parents.