Can time really heal everything?
Time will take away all the graces and grievances, but it will not take away the love and meaning that remain in time.
Perhaps for Sun Nan, this is just a worry about what he is in, or a kind of attachment.
But what is puzzling is that in Sun Nan's emotional world, why is Xin Xin and Buy Hongmei tearfully abandoned, while only Pan Wei is full of fragrance?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Xinxin: I gave everything up for you</h1>
Xin Xin is an authentic Northeastern girl, two years younger than Sun Nan. Graduated from normal school, he loves talented men.
In 1988, when Sun Nan was not as popular as later, and even when he was still a small resident singer with no name, he got acquainted with the female singer Xin Xin.
At that time, the talented Sun Nan attracted Xin Xin's attention when he was singing in the song hall. Xin Xin, who has a big grin, quickly expressed his affection to him.
Sun Nan saw that Xin Xin looked like a water spirit and was also a music lover. So it is difficult to resist this chic tenderness, and have a deeper understanding of it.
Soon, the love affair between the two was in full swing, although Sun Nan's monthly salary was only a few hundred yuan, But Xin Xin still loved very freely, and did not hesitate to take out all his savings to provide for this beloved man.
Life does not deliberately make it difficult for the lovers, so the feelings of the two during the love period have always been sweet, and everything has followed the thoughts of making up for it to move steadily.
1993 was a very important life node for Sun Nan. Because when Sun Nan and the troupe went to Hong Kong to perform, they were successfully photographed by a record company and directly signed a two-year contract.
Seeing that Sun Nan's career was gradually on the right track, Xin Xin also decided to gamble once this time, and gave all his savings to Sun Nan without reservation to support his singing career. At the same time, he decided to give up his dream of being a singer and become the woman and assistant behind Sun Nan.
Xin Xin's approach made Sun Nan very moved: "You will be my family in the future, I will definitely always love you and accompany you for the rest of my life!" After Xin Xin listened, she felt that her efforts were worth it, and she was very pleased.
With the encouragement and support of Xin Xin, Sun Nan's career also skyrocketed. In 1997, life tested this ordinary lover for the first time, Sun Nan was hospitalized with hepatitis, Xin Xin was busy in the hospital like his wife, and he did not know that Xin Xin was his wife.
Under Xin Xin's careful care, Sun Nan's health gradually improved. In order to thank Xin Xin for his company, the two took out a loan in the same year to buy a home for the two in Beijing. From buying building materials to decoration, Xin Xin took care of everything, and only hoped that Sun Nan would not be distracted and at ease to engage in creative busy work.
The following year, as Xin Xin expected, Sun Nan became famous overnight for singing "Not Seen, Not Scattered". Xin Xin's 10 years of hard work can finally be exchanged for a quiet and peaceful happy marriage.
At this time, the test of life came as promised. Only this time, Xin Xin lost badly.
It happened in 1999, Sun Nan and the sketch actor bought red sister at first sight, and after only 24 hours of acquaintance, Sun Nan proposed to him.
Buy Hong Mei agreed to Sun Nan's marriage proposal, where did buy Hong Mei at that time know that Sun Nan had been in love with Xin Xin for a full 10 years.
A dream that has been done for 10 years finally comes to the day when I have to wake up. In this way, Xin Xin disappeared into Sun Nan's world forever with resentment, without unnecessary quarrels, and without unreasonable nonsense, because Xin Xin was really too tired in the past 10 years.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > buy red sister: You gave me a home that I don't love</h1>
In 2000, after Sun Nan broke off relations with Xin Xin, he soon married Mai Hongmei in Beijing.
It is reported that at that time, the wedding of the two was not a big deal, because when the wedding of the two was not completely over, Sun Nan left the stage early because of an important CCTV performance.
At the wedding scene, the bride was left alone to buy a red sister to entertain the guests. It may be precisely because of such a move that a tragic end has been doomed in the dark.
Although there are many opinions in the outside world, in the second year after marriage, Buy Hongmei gave birth to a daughter to buy Baoyao, and gave up her career to become a full-time wife.
Grateful to buy red sister for giving birth to a lovely daughter for herself, Sun Nan often publishes happy photos of herself and buy red sister on social platforms, and often shows her love in public in many public places.
On the surface, the family seems to be happy, but is this really the case? According to people familiar with the matter, the married life of the two is not happy, and quarrels between husband and wife are commonplace.
One said that buying red sister has a spicy personality, relatively strong in this marriage, and repeatedly opposed Sun Nan's use of beautiful assistants; second, buying red sisters rely on online games for entertainment all day long, leaving her daughter to be cared for by a nanny, and playing games all night before getting up the next afternoon.
On the other hand, Sun Nan likes sports very much, prefers a regular sunshine life, and frequently quarrels out of the disharmony of the pace of married life. In short, many of the outside world's statements have not received a public response from the two, and in the end they can only be dismissed.
In 2009, Mai Hongmei gave birth to a son, as if trying to break the voice of external doubt. However, in March of the same year, the news came out that Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei divorced.
30 million yuan of property, plus 5 houses of property, Sun Nan's brain was all left to buy red sisters, and he went out of the house. At the same time, it was also agreed that Sun Nan would pay nearly one million child support to the red sister every year.
As for many previous speculations from the outside world, it now seems that it also confirms the saying that there is no wind and no waves. Good villains have also received some compensation for buying Red Sister, but are these compensation really what Buy Red Sister really cares about?
Of course, the pattern of buying red sisters is not so small. According to reliable sources, since the divorce of the two, Mai Hongmei once went to Hainan to jump into the sea to try suicide, fortunately was saved by a strange couple, which chose to survive for the sake of the child.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Pan Wei: I don't mind your past</h1>
At the end of 2009, Sun Nan and Pan Wei married. At the time of marriage, many people said that Pan Wei came together with Sun Nan for money, but according to Sun Nan's situation at that time, this statement seemed to be self-defeating.
Pan Wei has also had two failed marriages before, and to say how the two got together, it comes down to the fact that both couples have a different kind of complex for golf. Both have experienced failed marriages and have similar interests, and their marriage has always been harmonious.
Originally thought that such a life would continue to be warm, but at this time, the red sister still broke into Sun Nan's life with a grudge.
At that time, the two children were still young when the divorce was gone, Sun Nan could not take it with him before he had to give it to buy Red Sister to take care of, and now that the child is older, Sun Nan also began to play the idea of two children, buying Red Sister is not willing, so later there was a farce of "In 2010, Sun Nan snatched the child and confronted his ex-wife in court".
Parents are so noisy, in the end it is naturally two innocent children who are hurt. In order not to continue to deteriorate, the two finally chose to settle out of court.
Since then, Sun Nan has often traveled with Baoyao to try to get her daughter's forgiveness. And Pan Wei can also be regarded as a generous woman, not only does not prevent her husband from frequently contacting him, but also often advises Bao Yao: "You have a good father!" ”
Since Sun Nan and Pan Wei got married, the married life of the two has always been sweet and loving, although there have been small fights in the trivialities of life, but in the end, under the premise of not affecting the family, there is a little more understanding and tolerance.
The stumbling of married life is naturally inevitable, but how to stabilize the harmony of a family is an art.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > summary</h1>
After experiencing the tempering of 3 women before and after, Sun Nan can also be regarded as living her ideal happy life as she wishes. It's just a pity that Xin Xin, who was once willing to give everything for him, paid for many years with his wife to buy a red sister. Maybe feelings have always been selfish, but some people take it too seriously.
And Pan Wei, it is also after experiencing 3 men including Sun Nan, that she found her so-called happiness, and then the fragrance is full of paths. Feelings are a thing, love is right is fate, and love is wrong is a person's life. But in the end, I still advise everyone not to be "too grandson Nan", and encourage you together!
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