One
Why do people now talk about a love affair? Most of them are because of the incompatibility of the three views.
The three different views of people getting along, is bound to cause a lot of quarrels, friends are not used to it, lovers may be broken up.
It is said that in ancient times, the contract was about the door to the door, and now it is the same, although it is not so absolute, but two people with different concepts will be particularly tired together.
Two
In the popular TV series "The Ideal Life of Love", Dai Xixi (song Yi) and Liu Ke (Li Tiannuo) are two kinds of family members, one with a good family and one with a poor family.
Liu Ke has been in the help of the Dai family for a long time, whether it is family, work or feelings, they are all labeled by Dai Xixi.
No matter how deep the feelings are, they can't withstand the torment of the heart for a long time, money, house, these sensitive words have become the source of Liu Ke's breakup.
Inferiority has always been buried in the heart, flowing into a river with time, and the last burst is out of control and completely explodes.
Even if they break up, Dai Xixi can also give a million to support Liu Ke at will, because in her opinion, this amount of money is not a big deal.
Therefore, wealth is not an obstacle for them, but Liu Ke's deep inferiority and sensitivity is the biggest reason.
Dai Xixi has always taken marriage as his life goal, but Liu Ke is not, even perfunctory marriage proposal, forgetting this matter.
People with different views of the three views are together, even if they are not affected at first, they will quarrel over these trivialities in the later stages.
Therefore, in a relationship, the three views are the same, and two people who are evenly matched can go further.
Three
It's not that people from two kinds of families can't be together, but just like in the play, two people with different views will eventually fail.
Now is an era of rapid development, but also an era of information explosion.
Every day we can receive all kinds of information, a variety of articles and videos fill our minds, and all kinds of ideas change our three views.
Everyone's concept is different, it is good not to intersect, if you really want to love, you still have to consider it first.
In any case, love is to dare to love and dare to hate, but in love, the three views are different and do not have to blend.