The title sentence comes from the evaluation of the male protagonist Ma Xuewu in a domestic film by the moving company master, which has sympathy and ridicule.
In the eyes of outsiders, although this husband is a cadre of a state-owned enterprise, he does live a very "nest". With such a strong wife, the husband seems to say that nothing works, and everything is wrong.
Even after the masters were sweating profusely, Ma Xuewu, as the head of the family, wanted to scatter a few cigarettes and buy a few bottles of soda, but he was scolded back by his wife Li Baoli in public: Did I not give the money that should be given? What can you do here?
Ma Xuewu was stupid and stunned in the same place, and did not dare to return his mouth, seeing that his wife wanted to fight with the masters, he had to rush forward to stop him.
In the words of the owner of the clothing store where Li Baoli works: She doesn't know the rules very well.
Such a stubborn woman, of course, will not care about any polite rules, and sometimes there will be a little "miss temper".
In her eyes, the people who had chased me lined up, and it was his blessing that I could look at Ma Xuewu in the countryside. If he doesn't treat me well, do you want me to serve him well?
Even if the new house is a welfare house issued by Ma Xuewu's unit, it has not helped Ma Xuewu improve his family status a little.
It should have been a big day to move to a new house, but Ma Xuewu felt that his wife had lost face for himself, although he was silent, it did not mean that he only had helplessness and dissatisfaction and anger.
After his self-esteem and patience were worn out, finally on the night of the move, Ma Xuewu calmly proposed a divorce to his wife, leaving the house clean and not wanting anything.
After the showdown, Li Baoli realized that she had gone too far, and from time to time she tried to save her husband's feelings, but her husband has been ignoring it, and she always works overtime after work and does not want to go home to eat. Whenever she thinks of her husband's divorce, Li Baoli will feel like a knife.
The couple was so consumed, Ma Xuewu was completely dead hearted, Li Baoli's temper could no longer bear it, on the contrary, a trade union in the factory called Zhou Fen, who looked quiet and sweet, treated people and things generously, Ma Xuewu's heart was empty, and naturally he moved his mind.
Although he did not say a word as soon as he returned home, Ma Xuewu could say that he was extremely funny in front of Zhou Fen, as if he had returned to the time of love, and the relationship between the two quickly became ambiguous.
Finally, Ma Xuewu took advantage of his birthday to ask Zhou Fen to go to the hotel, and before leaving work, he called Li Baoli for the first time in the world and said that he would accompany the leader to dinner at night.
Li Baoli felt very strange and decided to follow Ma Xuewu and followed him to the hotel. Listening to the sound coming from the room, Li Baoli raised the fire extinguisher next to her and planned to rush in to catch the adulterer in bed.
At this time, I remembered my 8-year-old son Xiaobao, if I directly rushed in and got divorced, what should Xiaobao do?
Li Baoli ran to the public telephone, dialed 110, and reported that a room in the hotel was engaged in prostitution.
Watching the police car drive by, Li Baoli collapsed on the ground, crying into tears.
Li Baoli still loves her husband deeply in her heart, no matter what happens, she still wants to live with Ma Xuewu, but when her husband cheats, she can't act as if nothing happened.
After the girlfriend knew that it was Li Baoli who reported it, she also felt that it was too much, and she couldn't help but be upset about Ma Xuewu:
You want him to lie by your side and don't want to go, that's what you do.
After being taken away from the police station by Li Baoli, Ma Xuewu suddenly fell to the lowest valley of his life. The cadre identity was also lost and reassigned to the workshop. When I got home, I didn't dare to say a word, I felt particularly sorry for my wife, and Li Baoli could only endure the sour words all day.
At this time, the old house was demolished, and Ma Xuewu took the old woman to the new house, but Li Baoli was so angry that she didn't want to fight: The house is too small, I don't care.
Soon the wave of layoffs came, and Ma Xuewu, who had a stain on his life, was dismissed by the first batch. The frustrated Ma Xuewu couldn't help but look for comfort from Zhou Fen again, but Zhou Fen revealed that he was investigated that day because he was reported by a woman.
After Ma Xuewu confirmed that this woman was his wife, he could not accept that his bright future was actually ruined by his wife's own hands. He left a suicide note and committed suicide by jumping into the river.
In the funeral home, Xiao Bao, an 8-year-old son, kept crying and slapping Li Baoli: You still have my father, you still have my father.
Li Baoli can't understand, it is difficult to move to a new home, but it is divorced and jumping into the river, what is the reason?
Girlfriend Xiaojing said quite scrupulously, there is a problem with your house, and seven or eight roads downstairs cross it.
In feng shui, this is called "ten thousand arrows through the heart".
"Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart" 丨 2012
Director: Wang Jing
Starring: Yan Bingyan / Chen Gang / Jiao Gang / Li Xian / Zhao Qian / Wang Moxi / Yang Mingqiu
This is an extremely excellent domestic film, the Douban score is even as high as 8.5, even if the film poster claims to be "the peak of Chinese cinema in 2012".
Just like many life feature films such as "Labyrinth of Hearts" and "The Piano of Steel", although the reputation is good, there are no stars, no small fresh meat, and the box office will only be cannon fodder.
"Labyrinth of Hearts" finally grossed 10.65 million, "The Piano of Steel" 6.41 million, and this "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart" was even more miserable, with a total box office of less than 2.65 million.
So that although Yan Bingyan, who played the heroine Li Baoli in the film, won the Beijing International Film Festival and the Lily Award, she could only laugh at the box office and how many movie queens were useless.
Really polish the script and acting skills but can not get the market recognition, casually find a few popular actors to fight together but can get high box office, whether there is good acting skills and stories is not important. This is the current situation of China's domestic films, you can't believe it.
Speaking of "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart", the film is adapted from the novel of the same name by Wuhan writer Fang Fang.
Fang Fang is best at telling stories at the bottom of society, and this film is no exception.
There are big times backgrounds, and there are all kinds of trivial things in life. Mid-life crisis, infidelity to suicide, parent-child relationship, all involved.
The English name of the film is "Feng Shui", as the name suggests, which means feng shui.
Girlfriend Xiaojing blamed the misfortune of taking turns to blame feng shui, but Li Baoli did not believe in this evil, and her husband died, so I would support the family alone.
There are old and young, all waiting to use the money, why do you do it? Li Baoli changed jobs, directly picked up the flat burden, and transported luggage for passers-by. Although the strength is sold, there are not many women who pick up the flat burden. But as long as the money comes quickly, Li Baoli can continue to do it.
Girlfriend Xiaojing can't look at it and wants to directly rescue her. Li Baoli refused her girlfriend's wishes: You can't help me for a lifetime, I still have to support this family on my own.
XiaoJing lives a carefree life, driving a luxury car, glamorous and gorgeous. Even if the husband brought Xiao San home and beat himself to the nose and face swollen for Xiao San, Xiao Jing could accept it, because he took 80,000 yuan from her husband, which was not a loss.
Although Li Baoli is very angry about her husband's cheating, she still wants to live a good life with her husband in her heart. Even when the sky fell, she wanted to carry it herself.
After the death of her husband, she did not think of remarrying or finding other good friends, every day she went out early and returned late, and when she earned money, she bought food for her mother-in-law for Xiaobao, and she saved money.
Ten years have passed, Li Baoli has been picking up the burden for ten years, and Xiao Bao has also risen to the third year of high school to prepare for the college entrance examination.
But Xiao Bao has always refused to call his mother for 10 years, he only knows that his father was forced to die by his mother, and it was his mother who let him have no father for 10 years.
Li Baoli has no culture, and every time she cares about her son, she can only ask if she has done her homework, which will also cause her son to be impatient.
But no matter how indifferent Xiao Bao's speech is, Li Baoli still pays unconditionally to her son, and her only hope is that her son can be admitted to college, even if he still has to study for a doctorate, he is willing to pick up the burden of picking the old.
When Xiao Bao was close to the college entrance examination, Li Baoli was afraid that her son would see that he was upset, so he took the initiative to move out.
At the end of the college entrance examination, Xiao Bao, who usually has excellent results, did win the title, but when the family celebrated, Xiao Bao forced her mother to move out and cut off the mother-child relationship.
Although Xiao Bao grew up, he also knew that his father cheated first. But he also knew that if it weren't for his mother calling the police and ruining his father's life, the family wouldn't be like this now.
Even thinking that my mother has a man outside, I directly rebuke my mother for "not having a face".
Li Baoli slapped her son and cried that it was not easy for her to be so many years, but Xiao Bao was still so desperate, even the closest grandmother was useless.
The upper and lower parts of the film about Li Baoli's personality can be described as earth-shaking changes.
At first, it was still barbaric,, selfish, careful eyes, and slamming doors, but after the death of her husband, her positive energy suddenly exploded, and she was willing to give everything.
In fact, if you think about it, such a person's design and transformation, although slightly abrupt, is reasonable.
The upper part of the film reflects Li Baoli's "horizontal and cutting" personality through many details, and when moving, she repeatedly told workers not to crush the floor tiles, did not allow shoes to enter the door, did not agree to add money to the workers, even refused to send cigarettes, and did not buy water, in short, to save money.
Li Baoli is like this, in fact, we are the same in life, but maybe not as strong as Li Baoli. Living at the bottom of society, life is not rich, to maintain a home, naturally will be preoccupied.
After her husband jumped into the river to "liberate", she also took the initiative to take on the heavy responsibility of making money to support the family. Tirelessly, she has no culture, she can only do manual work, everything she does is for her son, which is the greatness of motherhood.
It's just that the son wants to break with himself, which once again makes Li Baoli realize the "ten thousand arrows through the heart" that watched her husband betray himself 10 years ago.
Even the son does this to himself, so what is the point of living?
Regarding the marriage between Li Baoli and Ma Xuewu, Pi Ge would like to talk more.
Obviously, Li Baoli "did", Ma Xuewu cheated, the marriage broke down, and both sides were at fault.
But the pinnacle gave birth to hypocritical supporters, and dusk witnessed true believers. The same is true of marriage, and to truly judge a person's qualities in some way, we should not only look at the good times, but should look more at the performance in the adversity.
Although Li Baoli has many deficiencies, it is annoying. But after the death of her husband, she still shouldered the heavy burden and fulfilled the responsibilities of a wife and mother, without complaint or regret.
You and I have not reached such a situation, it is difficult to appreciate how difficult this is, let alone for a woman who has been abandoned by everyone.
At the end of the film, Li Baoli also figured out that the child did not want to forgive himself, so let him go, as long as he was happy, what could he do with some grievances.
A stomach full of bitter water, left to swallow, life is like this, there are ups and downs, there are also heartache.
Even if you "pierce the heart with ten thousand arrows", you can only continue to move forward.
After all, you can't all learn horses and learn martial arts, and when you encounter a little blow, you will abandon everything and jump into the river.
So cowardly, who else will look up to you?
You tell me?
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