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Today is the 230th day of Chenxing Reading to accompany you to study
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Movie "Heroes and Children" Theme Song "Hero Song"
Heroes and Children is a 1964 war film produced and produced by Changchun Film Studio. Directed by Wu Zhaodi, starring Liu Shilong, Liu Shangxian, Tian Fang and so on. The film is adapted from Barkin's novel Reunion.
The film tells the story of the volunteer soldier Wang Cheng during the Period of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, his sister Wang Fang insisted on fighting with the help of political commissar Wang Wenqing, and finally reunited with his adoptive father Wang Wenqing and his biological father Wang Wenqing on the Korean battlefield. Anything, including a healthy diet, don't go to extreme labels. There is no "junk food" in this world, only junk recipes.
Many people do not know that eating high-protein low-carbon water in Europe and the United States is also a matter of the decades after World War II. Ancient humans mostly ate more vegetables and less meat, the whole world is similar, the relative best is the United States.
The greatest cultivation of the elderly is to control the desire to criticize the young. - Maugham
What's interesting? The fun is that you can make fun of yourself instead of making others laugh! To amuse others is called a trick! Don't think that the older you get, the more you must live to understand, many people just muddled up and confused almost after so many years, in fact, they didn't want to understand anything, just simply pushed by society with the tide. Don't say an answer, they don't even know why they want to go
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Share why Li Jiaqi killed Double 11, mentioning that this year's Double Eleven will be a watershed, born from 2009, in 2021 officially entered the inflection point, towards loneliness.
The reasons and new thinking are as follows:
1. Live broadcasting has destroyed the inherent price system of brand owners. Almost every commodity in the live broadcast room is sold by the brand owner who loses money, only to earn a brand exposure, which is used as an advertisement, not when the channel is used. And the 50% discount of double eleven, most of the merchants are profitable.
2, the anchor new role into the field, break the balance, help the merchant "refined operation", after calculating your production costs, quickly estimate how much goods can help you bring, and then calculate the pit fee, strictly control you to lose about 10%, is the offer.
3, consumer goods are not Internet platforms, and can not eliminate the second place third place, and even the 10th place is likely to live still moist, do not see high growth and use the crazy valuation to blindly invest.
4, the previous world, more dependent on "boss can do", but now must rely on "organization can fight", basically five years to grow a new group of young people.
5, the new consumer brand, now from 0 to 100 million, much easier than at any time in history. But doing 1 billion a year is harder than ever. And more than 5 billion a year, the odds are small to the lowest point in history. Relying on the three axes of "burning VC money + little red book laying mat + losing money to sell traffic in the live broadcast room", there is no "ecological niche", and there is no consumer mind without ecological niche.
3
Do you know what really belongs to you?
Your parents don't belong to you, your lover doesn't belong to you, your children don't belong to you, your friends don't belong to you, your job doesn't belong to you, and your career doesn't belong to you.
All these things that require the cooperation of others, things that may go wrong on their own because of you, are not really yours.
Only your asset truly belongs to you, and if you lose it, it must be your own choice to lose it, not for some other reason. This kind of thing that truly belongs to you is more important than everything else, so in your lifetime, you must use the particularities of each stage to transform the resources, energy, and emotional relationships at hand into assets as much as possible.
You must understand that your energy will disappear, relationships will disappear, resources will disappear, they are all time-limited, such as when you have a good relationship with your lover, when you have a good relationship with your friends, when you are happy with your partners, when you talk to your boss and need each other... If you don't solidify it in the form of an asset in that moment, the window period is likely to be fleeting, and when the day goes wrong, everything will be gone, away from you.
Assets are proof of the things you've worked hard and owned. It's like a storeroom, storing those things and then when you're helpless, it melts back into resources, energies, relationships, so that you have it all again. When you look at someone, you may only see 50% at most. Who is he? You want to know the rest of him, that would only ruin everything. That's the lesson I learned. - "Days Without Me" by Isabelle Cosette
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I wrote a sentence before, if a person really knows his evaluation in the minds of friends, there will be no "shortcomings" of a friend's child, usually reflecting the fear and incompetence of parents, such as worrying that children cannot integrate into society, are not accepted by others, and cannot adapt to competition. The higher the degree of fear of the parents, the more and deeper the intervention of the child (to reduce the parent's own anxiety), and the greater the additional pressure on the child, which is equivalent to the parent putting everything he cannot bear on the child.
Avoid tips that are sucked away by energy:
1, prevent the people around you from devouring your energy, pay more attention to your feelings. Some people walk into you, and before they can speak, your body starts to feel uncomfortable, and it may be the energy black hole around you.
2, like to complain, often angry people, look at nothing unpleasant, will be very picky, look at things are negative, ignore the positive.
3, the chat topic center is full of "I" people, like to dominate the topic, always let you focus on his person or the things he says, in fact, he needs energy: you listen to me, you listen to me, usually will be very strong, will not listen to what you say.
4, there are some weak people inside, let you have sympathy and pity, want to help him, you desperately give, but also in the process of being absorbed energy.
Contact high-energy people more, you will find that your unhappy things are just a small episode in the life link, with him, you will learn a lot of wisdom, and even the soul will be nourished. The imbalance between men and women after the 90s is much more serious than that of the post-80s, and the majority of white-collar workers are women, and there will be greater trouble in the future, and the social and family structure will undergo tremendous changes. Among the only children born after 90, there are also more rural children, and the old couple guarding a son who cannot marry may go crazy. For the first two years, I was particularly tolerant of making friends. Because I feel that going all over the world, every place has a little friend, easy to do things. So as long as I show politeness and kindness, I will be willing to add WeChat, or even give some help, or help pull the group to dock some things.
At that time, I thought about making friends too simply, and I thought that you help me, I help you, we are friends. Anyway, I'm not snobbish, I don't care how you mix, we are all friends when we get along. As a result, my big and small troubles were brought by this group of people. For example, some people will silently screenshot my circle of friends to go out to brag, some people use the dynamics of my company's business to deliberately copy and make trouble, some people insist on sending me messages every day to find me to do things, and some people insist on pouring me bitter water for comfort. In short, it's like stumbling into kindergarten. Some children have a runny nose, and some children have to wipe their butts. But now I'm not so stupid and only make friends with adults. Measured by my own particularly strict set of selection criteria, I will never let down my guard because the other party has said a few more good words. And then... Those broken things are 80% less, but I can suddenly understand the brothers and sisters who were misunderstood by me as "dating snobs", it turns out that they really are not vain, but are too good at protecting themselves.