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01
On the day that Xu Meizhen and Zheng Xiaohai reunited, the scene was a little awkward.
She was standing at the door of the building arguing with the taxi driver.
A man, holding a child, dragging his luggage, his mouth still unforgiving.
The driver said, if you don't have money, don't take a taxi.
Xu Meizhen said that with black heart money, you are not afraid of having a life to earn, and you have no life to spend.
The driver was so angry that his fists were raised. Fortunately, someone stepped forward to break the siege, yelled, and looked for death! Bully people bully our chemical community is coming!
The driver was also afraid of being soft and afraid of hard, put two harsh words, and slipped away.
The person who helped was Zheng Xiaohai.
He took the luggage in Xu Meizhen's hand and said, It's still the same old way, they are all so good when they are mothers.
Xu Meizhen said fiercely, I want you to take care of it.
Just this sentence, as if the youth years have returned.
02
Xu Meizhen and Zheng Xiaohai were born in the small city of Inner Mongolia, which has a large coal-based enterprise in the city.
Both parents are employees in the company.
Live in the same neighborhood and attend the same school.
Zheng Xiaohai has been chased and beaten by Xu Meizhen since he was a child.
Who let Zheng Xiaohai's mouth be cheap, and his hands were also cheap.
When summer came, he grabbed Tianniu and secretly put it in Xu Meizhen's stationery box to scare her.
But Xu Meizhen was not afraid at all, and generously picked it up, pulled open his neckline, and threw it in.
Frightened, Zheng Xiaohai screamed while jumping around the classroom.
At that time, it was already junior high school, and Zheng Xiaohai innocently asked Xu Meizhen, why do you say that I put it, and you have no evidence?
Xu Meizhen lifted her chin and said, I said yes, what evidence do you want!
At night, Zheng Xiaohai couldn't sleep, and his mind was full of Xu Meizhen's proud look.
The teenager didn't understand the like, that is, to wait for her to fight, wait for her to scold.
However, in Xu Meizhen's heart, she couldn't let go of these.
03
Xu Meizhen has two children in the family, and there is a three-year-old younger brother below.
Dad was the workshop director of the factory, grumpy and drunk.
For many years, he has been doing a good job at home, and he will beat people when he is not happy.
Mother, brother, Xu Meizhen, none of them escaped.
When she was a child, Xu Meizhen always wondered if she did not do well enough to make her father angry. But she later found out that it wasn't.
He wants to scold and beat people, and it has nothing to do with whether he is good or not.
The door is closed louder, the toilet time is long, the rice is eaten less... All can be grounds for being scolded.
Math test 97 points, the second in the class, to the father, asked her how the 3 points lost, is not under-playing.
Some people will grow into a timid and fearful personality in obscenity, such as Xu Meizhen's younger brother.
But some people will become cold and hard in the midst of violence.
I don't remember when it started, Xu Meizhen didn't care if her father lost his temper.
When he scolded her, she turned a deaf ear. He hit her, and she looked up at him.
Dad said, you deadpool don't want to die!
Xu Meizhen's cheeks were bruised, but she still said lukewarmly, then die, then you will have to go to prison for decades, and your mother and brother will be relieved.
04
In fact, Xu Meizhen began to persuade her mother to divorce her very early.
But her mother is a very conservative woman, preferring to be beaten rather than bear the name of divorce.
Later, Xu Meizhen gave up. She just wanted to grow up faster and leave this dysfunctional home quickly.
Sometimes I think that in her young years, it was fortunate that Zheng Xiaohai gave her a bright color.
Zheng Xiaohai is the eldest in the family, and there are two older brothers on it.
Naughty personality, but very righteous and kind.
He nicknamed Xu Meizhen and put bugs, but he also helped her in his own way.
In English class, Xu Meizhen forgot to bring a book. Zheng Xiaohai threw his book to her and then punished her.
If Xu Meizhen had taken sick leave, he would have known that he had mostly been beaten. Xu Meizhen, who has a wound on her face, will definitely not come to school.
Then Zheng Xiaohai will definitely copy the notes carefully, and then send them to Xu Meizhen after school.
Dad had probably not returned, Mom was cooking in the kitchen, and the faint sunset curled up in the window, a little idyllic, and a little sad.
Zheng Xiaohai said, do you hurt?
Xu Meizhen bit her lip and did not speak.
Daddy beat her, and she wouldn't shed tears. But Zheng Xiaohai's silly greeting made her want to cry.
05
When they went to high school, the two were no longer in the same school.
Xu Meizhen went to the city key point, while Zheng Xiaohai entered the factory-run secondary school.
Zheng Xiaohai came to find Xu Meizhen every three to five minutes and went home from school with her.
He would invite her to eat the kebabs on the side of the road. At this time, Zheng Xiaohai has reached 1 meter 8, and will not provoke Xu Meizhen to be angry like before, with the thoughtfulness of a big boy.
He would tell his boss to sprinkle spicy powder, sprinkle cumin, bake a little charred, not too salty.
Xu Meizhen said, how do you look like my mother.
Zheng Xiaohai scratched the back of his head and smiled, unable to guess whether Xu Meizhen was praising him or hurting him.
Xu Meizhen especially liked to look at him like this, and all the admiration was piled up in her eyes.
She felt that she was going to fall in love, the kind of green plum bamboo horse in the book, two little guesses.
But she couldn't help but ask herself if there would be a future when she fell in love with Zheng Xiaohai.
Who would be in their teens and think of such a realistic question? Probably only Xu Meizhen.
06
In the summer vacation before the third year of high school, Zheng Xiaohai plucked up enough courage to ask Xu Meizhen out.
He deliberately cut a new haircut and bought a small gift.
Two people sat by the small lake in the park, the ice cream in their hands sweet and cold.
Zheng Xiaohai said, Meizhen, can you do me...
Xu Meizhen was shocked and said quickly, no.
Zheng Xiaohai was a little embarrassed, he said, you know what I'm going to say?
Xu Meizhen said, Xiao Hai, what kind of family our family is, you know, even if you give me a million, I will not stay here. And you're definitely going to pick up your dad's class. Let's be friends, so as not to feel bad later.
The thousand words in Zheng Xiaohai's heart were blocked in his throat and could not be said.
Xu Meizhen was instantly distressed.
She kind of regretted that she had spoken so bluntly and rejected it so crisply.
She had never imagined that watching her beloved boy get hurt so much would hurt her heart.
In fact, she was panicked. She was afraid that such a hasty start would stop herself from escaping.
After all, she is not an ordinary girl, and reason is a matter of melting into her bones.
Someone else's youth can be used for romance, and she must plan to get out of this small town. No one could hold her back.
Xu Meizhen lowered her head and said, I'm sorry.
Zheng Xiaohai wiped the corners of his eyes and said, OK, from small to large, finally listened to you and me say sorry, it's worth it.
Xu Meizhen quietly looked at him, worthy of being the boy she liked.
It was as if the sun, golden, had been left in the green years.
07
Xu Meizhen went to Suzhou.
No matter what her mother thought about her going back to work, after graduation, she chose to go to Shanghai, which is farther away from home.
At first, she and Zheng Xiaohai still had contact, but slowly, the change of environment finally opened up the distance between the two people.
In 2011, Zheng Xiaohai made a girlfriend, a very good-looking girl.
Xu Meizhen saw the photo on the QQ space, and there was a slight pain in her heart, which passed in an instant.
Since then, she has let go.
In 2013, Xu Meizhen met Tang Jun.
Tang Jun works in the same office building as her. The two met in a dinner party.
At first, we ate together at noon, and later we would do activities together on weekends.
Tang Jun is 6 years older than Xu Meizhen. It's the kind of honest person who never drinks at a party and ends driving friends home one by one.
His hometown of Changzhou, after graduating from graduate school, he naturalized in Shanghai, paid a down payment at home, and bought two small houses in the suburbs of Pudong.
The hardware is OK, but it looks ordinary, the height is not high, and the monthly salary can only be said to be more than enough.
In addition, he also has requirements for the woman, so he has been single.
Until he met Xu Meizhen.
Xu Meizhen did not feel excited about Tang Jun, but she decided that this man was honest, did not drink, and would not bully himself in his life.
With these two points, the relationship is enough to unfold.
08
Tang Jun invited Xu Meizhen to dinner, watched a movie, and later visited his room in Pudong.
It was in that house that he took out his ring and proposed.
There are not too many romantic dramas, but Xu Meizhen feels a kind of security and steadfastness.
She was like an escapee who had been floating in the universe and suddenly met the safety capsule.
When she got home that night, Xu Meizhen was very surprised and thought of Zheng Xiaohai.
I thought that I rejected him in the first place, but it was because he could foresee the future.
Graduated, entered the factory, worked as a worker, rose up after N years... It was like a copy of his father.
She was unconsciously afraid, afraid that she would fall into the cycle of never turning over.
Sometimes people really have to spend their lives to get rid of the shadow of their original family, to choose all the things in the opposite direction to heal their wounds.
Four months later, Xu Meizhen got married. The wedding was held in Shanghai.
After the honeymoon, I had another drink in my hometown. Xu Meizhen invited Zheng Xiaohai, but he did not come.
She felt good about it, so as not to be embarrassed.
At the banquet that day, the happiest person was dad. When he saw people, he bragged about how bad his daughter was and took root in Shanghai. This is all the result of his strict education.
If it wasn't for her own wedding feast, Xu Meizhen really wanted to flip the table.
At that moment, she felt that it was only right to try to stay away from this home.
09
The days after marriage are plain and calm.
In 14 years, he gave birth to a male baby, and the family was happy.
It was also this year that Xu Meizhen's father died. Drink too much. The doctor said that the liver had become hard as a stone.
In the middle of the month, her mother did not let Xu Meizhen go back to the funeral.
Xu Meizhen couldn't say what was wrong with her, she hated him, but she was still uncontrollably sad.
Then it was 2017. Tang Jun's company organizes a trip to Vietnam, and the family can pay for it at their own expense.
Xu Meizhen and her son went with them.
While riding the bus in Nha Trang, Xu Meizhen's headphones ran out of power. A female colleague lent her headphones.
Colleagues said that I this headphone bose, especially good.
Xu Meizhen took over and said thank you.
After getting the headset, Xu Meizhen will not use it, and pressed the switch 3 times back and forth before opening it, and the headset is automatically connected to someone else's mobile phone.
The first reaction of the colleague was to ask Tang Jun, is your Bluetooth on?
Then, Tang Jun's face suddenly turned red.
10
Tang Jun and Xu Meizhen explained that he had tried this headset on his colleagues before and wanted to buy it.
But how to say it.
The reason is right, but the expression is suspicious.
Xu Meizhen's steady and steady personality did not question on the spot, and silently collected evidence for a month.
The opening record was there, the chat screenshot was also available, and Xu Meizhen and Tang Jun showed their cards.
Under the evidence, Tang Jun admitted happily.
That colleague was 2 years older than Tang Jun and 7 years older than Xu Meizhen. I also have a family, and my children are in elementary school.
Xu Meizhen couldn't help but ask him, why?
Tang Jun thought about it for half a day and said, maybe it is a sneaky thrill.
Sometimes men are honest and just lack opportunities. The so-called peaceful and divided life is nothing but no restless conditions.
Tang Jun said, Mei Zhen, forgive me, look at my son's face, give me a chance to make amends.
Xu Meizhen thought about this question very seriously.
She felt that she had a cleanliness fetish in some things.
She said that it was better to leave early when the child did not grow up.
Maybe it is more than this, such as Tang Jun's dereliction of duty in taking children, so that Xu Meizhen's heart has long been disappointed.
Derailment became the final fuse.
It is a lie to say that you are not sad, but you can only accept the facts.
11
At the end of 2017, Xu Meizhen officially went through the divorce procedures.
The son belongs to her, and the property is divided equally.
The life of a single mother is not good. To go to work, but also to take care of the children, although hired a nanny, but still physically and mentally exhausted.
One morning in November 2018, she had just gotten up from her toilet when she fainted on the floor of the toilet.
Low blood sugar, although not a big problem, but the doctor said that her physical function has reached a critical point, let her pay attention to rest.
Sometimes, the body is more honest than the spirit. No matter how Xu Meizhen told herself, it was okay, just divorce.
But the body finally let the damage of betrayal break down.
Xu Meizhen felt that she really couldn't stay up like this.
She quit her job and wanted to adjust herself, and she also wanted to go back to her hometown to see her mother, and then go back to Shanghai to find a new job.
In recent years, my mother's health is not very good, after all, the age has arrived, and there are many three highs. The younger brother went to Huhe again.
She didn't tell her mother the exact flight time, for fear that she would pick her up. A taxi home alone.
I just didn't expect the driver to ask and didn't ask, and I pulled a carpool halfway through. The way home is far from being said, and the car is also charged according to the meter.
Xu Meizhen just held the child in one hand and dragged her luggage with the other hand and quarreled with the driver.
Fortunately, Zheng Xiaohai came out to break the siege.
He had changed so much, he had a mustache, but he was still thin and tall, and he opened his mouth with a lot of momentum.
Before the old house of the chemical industry was demolished, the new house of the old neighbor was replaced by this side.
He asked Xu Meizhen when he helped her carry her luggage upstairs, and he came back by himself, what about your husband?
Well...... Off.
Zheng Xiaohai said his heart in passing, not bad.
Xu Meizhen's eyes narrowed, are you so happy that I divorced you!
But some kind of long-lost, fierce warmth, like the warm current returning to the Pacific Ocean, suddenly rushed into the heart.
12
In fact, Zheng Xiaohai has been able to toss around in the past two years.
The advanced factory worked for two years, really bored, ran. Make a deal with a friend and lose money.
After two years of marriage, his wife felt that he was unreliable, gave him a green hat, and left.
Good not to have children.
That year, the blow to Zheng Xiaohai was quite big.
And Xu Meizhen just came back to put back the door wine. Zheng Xiaohai received the invitation and replied without a face.
He stood at the door of the hotel and looked at it, and his heart was full of mixed feelings.
The girl who was once beloved has completed the transformation, but what about herself?
He followed his friends to learn to be an agent of nemont, and slowly became a career.
The girlfriend has talked about another one, it may be that there is a shadow in the heart, the feelings are difficult to invest, intermittent, or divided.
Time passed, fate reset, he did not expect anything, fate sent Xu Meizhen back to him.
One night, he chatted with Xu Meizhen on WeChat and said with great interest, "Tell you something, I'm going to Shanghai to open up the East China market."
The subtext speaks for itself.
But Xu Meizhen said calmly, neither is a child, and I don't go around the bend. I have a child, can your family accept it? Moreover, I am not the original me, I do not understand the current you, with the impression of the student era, can the feelings be reliable?
Zheng Xiaohai paused for a moment and said something extremely shocking.
He said, you have the lead in analysis, so are the men you were looking for before reliable?
Killing people, Xu Meizhen was stunned.
Zheng Xiaohai said again, so let me try it, as long as you love each other, there is no problem that cannot be solved.
13
Xu Meizhen lived in her hometown for two months, and Zheng Xiaohai would come to her almost every day.
To say no, that is false.
The boy she had once liked, back to her side, she didn't want to miss it again.
However, divorced women remarry, and there are too many concerns.
Mom didn't want them to be together, because Zheng Xiaohai's unreliable reputation was out there. However, the Zheng family's parents were quite concerned, and they also asked Xu Meizhen to have time to go to dinner.
Before returning to Shanghai, she went to the Zheng family, more or less wanting to listen to the wind.
Mother Zheng said, my family Xiaohai is only motivated by being with you. When he secretly went to see you set up a happy wine, he came back to collect his career.
Zheng Xiaohai was busy making eyes and not letting her say.
Mother Zheng joked that the three sons of our family are not more than one, and one less him is not much. If he were to go, it didn't matter where he went.
Xu Meizhen could understand that this joke was to give her a reassuring pill.
After Xu Meizhen returned to Shanghai, Zheng Xiaohai then came with funds.
For the cause, but also for love.
Xu Meizhen went to pick up the machine and took the initiative to give Zheng Xiaohai a big hug.
Zheng Xiaohai almost jumped up in public, he asked, is this promised me?
Xu Meizhen said, Xiao Hai, I was not with you before, and one of the reasons was that I was afraid that you would be like my father. Don't let me down.
Zheng Xiaohai was heartbroken in an instant. The girl in front of her, from an early age, was rational and tough, and dared to catch bugs and stuff them into his clothes. But deep inside, there is still fear.
He hugged Xu Meizhen and said, Rest assured, I will only love you and will never hurt you.
Then he called his mom, happy like a child, and he said, Mom, I'm finally catching up with her.
Xu Meizhen somehow blushed.
14
That's how they got together.
Every weekend, Zheng Xiaohai will come to accompany her and her son to attend study classes, or go out to play and cultivate feelings with children.
Later, it was Valentine's Day, and Xu Meizhen waited for her son to sleep before bringing out a candlelight dinner.
Adults with babies are also in love like underground love.
She did a thousand levels, Zheng Xiaohai brought the hometown famous wine, Ningcheng old cellar, the two people lightly touched the cup and kissed.
Zheng Xiaohai took out a small box from his pocket and gave it to Xu Meizhen.
Xu Meizhen probably guessed what was inside and made sufficient psychological preparations.
However, when she hit the ring box, she couldn't help but say, just this?
The box is really not a ring necessary for a marriage proposal, but a silver hairpin. Above the hairpin was an earthy butterfly with wings attached to springs, trembling majestically shining with colorful light.
Xu Meizhen said, what is this a hundred years ago?
Zheng Xiaohai said, it is not so old, it is more than ten years. You didn't let me finish my words at the beginning, and I won't have a chance to give it to you until today.
Yeah, a dozen years ago, this hairpin was popular.
Xu Meizhen momentarily remembered the summer vacation before her junior year of high school. She and he, sat on a park bench.
Youth was thick, but she did not dare to take that step.
Zheng Xiaohai clipped the butterfly hairpin in her hair and said affectionately, Marry me.
Xu Meizhen wanted to say yes, but the tears ran out first.
She didn't know whether to regret the time she had missed, or whether to rejoice that love was still waiting for her.
The only certainty was that in the years to come, she would never let go of his hand again.
They got married, and she eventually became Mrs. Zheng.
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