What is happiness? Happiness is a psychological feeling. Whether or not to be happy is up to you. Knowing how to be happy and being good at happiness is really a kind of wisdom, a kind of arrogance, and a kind of courage. Happiness is sometimes like a kite flying in the sky, although sometimes you can't see it, but the line is in your hands, it doesn't fly far, as long as you want, happiness will always surround you, forever. With a happy heart, you know that happiness is everywhere. No stress and no worries. Do what you love to do.
Wang Xiwei is a happy girl, and everyone who lives around her can feel it. She was an enviable girl, she had a proud figure and an angelic face. As a result, she is often a hot beauty in the modeling industry and showbiz. "In fact, I want to make my life more exciting, not just acting." I think doing any industry, anything is an interest and a like. In fact, everyone looks at me more ladylike now, in fact, I am a very extrovert in my bones, and I am a very boyish personality, and I am not very convinced of losing. Because I think that to do a thing is to do it well, like a thing to work hard to do, the work is still very dedicated. ”
There is a big premise in the pursuit of happiness: that is, to understand that happiness is not within reach. It is neither a gift nor a right; you have to seek it out and pursue it diligently to get it. When you realize that you can't just sit there and wait for happiness to come, you've taken a big step in the pursuit of happiness. What do you think? Doesn't feel bad, right? Don't be happy, and when you have taken the other nine steps, you will be able to reach the true state of happiness.
There are many ways to pursue happiness, not only the one you have a dead eye to identify, because such an idea is too narrow, but it will increase pain and will not make people happy. Be flexible with things, don't be stubborn, and remember that there isn't necessarily only one of the best things. Of course, it is not to give up your actual, dreamed goals, but to encourage you to go all out and achieve your dreams. George Bernard Shaw famously said, "Why does the average person see only what has happened and say?" I dreamed of something I had never had before and asked myself why not? "Young people in particular should have dreams and hopes, because the process of struggle, like achieving goals, can make people feel extremely happy." You have to have the courage to dream of becoming a famous doctor, a star, a brilliant scientist or a writer... And go all out, run towards ideals and goals.
Of course, your dreams should be reasonable and specific and feasible, don't be ambitious and dream of picking stars. For example, if you are born with a "crow's throat", don't dream of becoming a thrush! Also, you have to remember that even if you don't reach that goal, it's not the end of the world. Browning once said, "If everything that mortals dream of is within reach, then why should there be heaven!" ”
From the moment we understand things, we feel the pressure of "achievement" all the time, and this pressure becomes more and more intense as we age. Therefore, young people want to perform well everywhere, thinking that they must be perfect, and others will accept themselves and like themselves. Once you find yourself inferior everywhere, you begin to be sad and inferior, and the result is of course no happiness.
So you should use your own yardstick and think about what was wrong when you started? Is there any progress today? If you have really done your best, I believe that today will be better than yesterday, and tomorrow will be better than today.
If you are very concerned about certain people, things, and things, your view of life will change greatly. If you live only for yourself, believing that your life will become very narrow and limited everywhere. Self-centered people may continue to improve, but they will never feel satisfied.
So what should you care about? Who do you care about? Open your eyes and think about it, although we are ordinary, we can at least help schoolchildren to go to and from school, study for patients, go to the nursing home to do chores, and even clean up the surrounding environment... Only by giving a little, you will be happier. The psychologist Allison once said: "Those who only care for themselves will eventually become their own slaves!" "But people who care about others can not only contribute to society, but also avoid taking care of themselves and living a boring and uninteresting life."
You may be busy from morning to night, like a clock. But when you stop and think for a moment, do you feel uncomfortable and dissatisfied? Many people, because they are afraid of facing emptiness, use a lot of trifles to fill up the time, and the result will be that the pace of life will be too tight, but they will not get real happiness.
Make a list of all the things you've done and see what you can delete so you can set aside a little free time and take it easy. Leisure is also like a luxury that can make you feel satisfied. Don't be sad and angry because of other people's cold words or criticism, be calm in everything, think about how fair criticism is? Why not smile and face it happily.
The taste of happiness is like drinking water, which varies from person to person. What makes others happy doesn't necessarily make you happy. Only you know how to pursue happiness. But remember: don't wait for the rabbit to sniff! Happiness is a cunning rabbit, you can try hard to pursue it to get it!