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There is a joke circulating on the Internet: "Zi Xuan and Zi Xuan quarreled, were bumped into by Zi Xuan and Zi Xuan, Ke Xin, Ke Xin and Ke Xin came forward to persuade each other, and then met Ruo Xi, Ruo Xi and Ruo Xi ..."
It's just too big to know what kind of mentality the teachers at school have when they face these children.
When we were studying, although the name was not elegant enough, but the whole school encountered a person with the same name as himself, it was also a minority, and now a class, you can meet several homophonous classmates, the child's psychological shadow is too big, especially just catching up with a classmate he does not like, and his own name, that mentality is probably like buying a dress, and then after bumping the shirt, want to throw it away directly.
But the name, given by the parents, once fixed, will accompany it for life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="47" > Henan kindergarten hit "Zixuan", the repetition rate is too high</h1>
Looking at a survey, the target of the survey is Henan, and among the kindergarten freshmen in 2021, the most popular name is "Zixuan".
According to the survey, there are 5453 people in Wang Zixuan, 3730 people in Zhang Zixuan, and 2576 people in Li Zixuan.
The number of "Zi Xuan" alone is tens of thousands, and there are more than 10,000 "Zi Xuan" in a province, for these "Zi Xuan", this is no longer a name, this is a common code name, ah, completely without characteristics.
More popular than "Zixuan" is "Xinyi", and the total number of "Xinyi" surnames has exceeded 15,000.
Among these explosive names, I don't know if there is your baby's name.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="53" > child's name has the characteristics of the times and represents people's mentality</h1>
When I was in college, there were four people in our dormitory, all of whom were born around 90, and the names contained Xue, Li, Min, and Ting, respectively, and in the 90s, when parents named their children, they had already transitioned from "Jianjun, Jianguo, Juan, and Hua" to "Xue, Min, Ting".
At that time, people's lives gradually improved, and the mentality of parents naming their children also changed greatly, hoping that children could have a bright and beautiful life and be full of expectations for the future.
After our generation became parents, we changed our mentality by naming our children, hoping that our children would have more "literary" names, and our next generation, children, were born in a very good era, with abundant material conditions and rich spiritual life.
But at the same time, parents are prone to hold a "fluke" mentality, and do not seriously study names like ancient people, hoping to choose a good and literary name for their children through the Internet or on the naming website.
Looking at a certain name alone, the name is indeed willing to be good, the syllables are good, and it is definitely a good name, but I don't know that everyone has the same mentality, they all use the same method, and as a result, when the child enrolls in school, he finds that the original parents think that there is a good name with characteristics, which has become a cabbage full of streets, which is not surprising.
Now the children's explosive names are all found by parents from the Internet, or selected from the naming website.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="60" > take your child's name seriously and give your child a unique, low-repetition name</h1>
When parents name their children, this casual mentality is not correct.
Li Lixin, deputy director of the Henan Academy of Social Sciences, said: "A person's name pins on the expectations of parents for their children, represents the good wishes of parents to their children, since ancient times, parents have attached great importance to naming their children, 'it is better to teach a son to have an art, and it is better to teach a son an art than to give a good name to a son'. ”
If you want to give your child a good name with a low repetition rate, you still have to use those classical literature, rather than using this casual mentality to choose a name for your child on the website.
The name not only pins on the hopes of parents for their children, but also has an important impact on the children, because once the name is determined, it will be integrated with the child and become the code name of the child's life.
A good name will bring good luck to the child, this is not superstition, but there is a certain reason, a good name is easy to make a good impression, and a name with a high repetition rate is difficult to make a deep impression, and then it may be a good opportunity for the child.
The high repetition rate will not only bring trouble to teachers, but also bring a lot of trouble to children, not easy to be remembered by classmates, not easy to be remembered by teachers, and not easy to be remembered by colleagues and leaders in the future.
In addition, the high repetition rate also increases the burden on the social system work, and the Ministry of Public Security has launched a double name check function on the Internet, which is convenient for parents to check the child's name and avoid giving the child a name with a high repetition rate.
Take your child's name seriously, find some words with good meaning from the book, and then use it skillfully in the child's name, rather than simply finding a name from the Internet to give to the child.