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Do you remember the opening ceremony of the 2008 Beijing Olympics, the cute little girl Lin Miaoke who sang in a red dress? She was selected by Zhang Yimou at a young age and quickly became popular on the Olympic stage. Later, Lin Miaoke's fake singing was discovered, and everyone learned that it was another little girl, Yang Peiyi, who really sang.
Lin Miaoke was a lucky child, she got a good opportunity to show herself, and thus embarked on the road to fame. On the contrary, Yang Peiyi, who was replaced, missed a good opportunity. Although the starting point of the 2 people is very different, but their current situation is different from what everyone imagined before, Yang Peiyi successfully counterattacked after studying abroad, while Lin Miaoke, who originally had a smooth star path, failed to emerge in the entertainment industry, but became a "passerby".
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Back in 2008, Lin Miaoke was a little girl who stood in the center of the Olympic stage and sang, and the eyes of the whole world were focused on her. The childish and beautiful children's voice sounded, and many people were touched by it. However, 4 days after the opening ceremony, Lin Miaoke's false singing was declared by the law, and the real singing girl Yang Peiyi gradually entered the public's eyes. Many people changed the fate of the 2 little girls in this "double reed", Lin Miaoke got the opportunity to show because of her sweet and cute appearance, and Yang Peiyi could only succumb to being robbed of attention behind the scenes.
Looking at the current situation of the 2 people, the person who finally succeeded was not Lin Miaoke, but Yang Peiyi. After the fake singing, many media wanted to interview Yang Peiyi, and entertainment companies wanted to sign Yang Peiyi, but this was rejected by Yang Peiyi's parents one by one. Parents choose to protect their daughter and let her concentrate on her studies.
And Lin Miaoke's parents' approach is completely thoughtful, they push Lin Miaoke to the program again and again, the time to read and study is occupied, but like an artist, running back and forth every day to announce. Now Yang Peiyi is studying in the West, and a proper scholar is very enviable. In contrast, Lin Miaoke is high and low, and his popularity has dropped sharply, and he has become a "passerby" in the entertainment industry.
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1, do not rush to make a quick profit
Many children have specialties and hobbies, and may be very concerned and liked by their elders when they are young, but if they want to be really successful, the most important thing is to educate their children to be down-to-earth. For parents, it is also necessary to abandon the thinking of quick success and short-term profit, and do not think about the current interests to make children too busy, so that they have fallen behind in learning and exercising. The mentality of quick success and quick profit is easy for children to become very impetuous together, immersed in small interests and suffer losses.
2. Separate interests and abilities
Everyone is interested in hobbies, but not many people can make achievements in their favorite fields. Some children especially like mathematics and study difficult math problems without problems, but if he really develops in the mathematical world, he may not have a very bright future. The same is true for other interests and hobbies, when considering the child's life development goals, parents should know how to separate interests and abilities, so that children can continue to maintain their own interests, but must recognize the reality of ability and maximize their advantages.
3, pay attention to the child's mentality
To take every step of life, the change of mentality cannot be ignored. If the child is too focused on achievements and benefits, then he will not feel happy, but will be prone to worry about anxiety. Even if the goal is completed, children without a good attitude will not be able to go on smoothly. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their children's mentality, help them relieve stress, relax and relax, and let them grow into people who practice both inside and outside.
Hoping for Jackie Chan and Hoping for a Daughter to Become a Phoenix is the expectation in the hearts of many parents, but there are very few children who can truly become big stars in real life. Instead of rushing to let the child squeeze his head and continue to climb up, it is better to help the child find a life goal that suits him and find a long-term beneficial development direction.
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