Why the group turns, it is because the rope is not broken
Because of the rope, no matter how the kite flies, it can't fly a thousand miles high. No matter how well a horse runs, it can't travel thousands of miles a day... Only by cutting the "rope" that binds you, and only by learning to be busy and idle, can you be free and happy.
A woman says to the man who is chasing her, "I'm too busy to date." The boss said to the employee, "I'm too busy to listen to your advice." The father said to his son, "I'm too busy to go swimming with you." The husband said to his wife, "I'm too busy to listen to your nagging." Everyone is busy, so this woman misses the romance of spring and autumn, and the man falls into lovesickness: the boss continues his busy work, and the employees are frustrated by frustration; The father had an extra apology, the son had a complaint in his heart; the husband was more irritable, and the wife added a little sadness. Everyone's unhappiness comes from a word of "busyness" and becomes the source of unhappiness in the world.
A young man feels too much pressure. To find excuses, he often talked to the old Zen master in the temple.
Once, on his way to the temple, he saw a cow tied to the side of the road, so he had the opportunity to test the old Zen master.
When he came to the temple, he enjoyed tea and Zen with the old Zen master. Suddenly, he asked the Zen master, "Why are they in circles?"
All because the rope is not broken. The old Zen master replied casually.
Hearing the old Zen master's answer, the young man was immediately stunned.
The old Zen master saw him like this and asked, "What surprised you so much?"
Master, I'm surprised how you know the answer? ”
The young man said: "Today on the way here, I saw a cow tied to a tree, and a rope passed through its nose. The cow wanted to graze, but couldn't run away even if it turned around. You didn't see the scene, and you're right. That's really smart.
The old Zen master laughed and said, "What you ask is the question, what I answer is the reason, what you ask is that the cow cannot be liberated by being tied with a rope, and my answer is that my heart is entangled in common things and cannot be separated." Their truth is the same!
Young people suddenly realize, "Yes, I now know why I'm so busy all day that I'm dragged along by the trivialities of work and life." I understand that if you want to be happy, you have to learn to get rid of the entanglement of customs. It seems that there are Zen machines everywhere in life.
The dialogue between the young man and the old Zen master reveals the source of people's unhappiness in the present; For the sake of money, everyone turns from east to west, from north to south; for the sake of power, everyone turns in clusters up and down; For the sake of fame, everyone is busy day and night. Where is happiness? Where is happiness? Because of a rope, the kite loses the sky; Because of a rope, the cow lost grass; Because of a rope, the elephant loses its freedom; Because of a rope, the horse lost the grassland.
Life is alive, not busy, not without leisure. If you're busy and idle, you won't think of breaking the shackles of life and speeding up the burning of life's ointment. Therefore, you should learn to sneak around in a busy schedule.
The Song Dynasty poet Huang Tingjian said: "There is no leisure in life and politics, how many times have you been busy?" This tells people that life is busy, so they should learn to take vacations. Leisure in a busy schedule is not only in line with the literary and martial arts way, but also with the laws of nature. Whether in a busy network of streets, at the end of a narrow alley, or at the corner of a forest road hidden by dense woods, there will always be one or two leisurely places where they wait quietly, telling people to take a nap or two at dusk with one or two flickering lights. When you breathe in the corner of the teahouse with the smell of the scent of Longjing, when you light a cigarette in the small pavilion next to the flowing water, the tiredness and boredom of the day fade away with the wind, you sing a pastoral song in your heart, and the feeling of tranquility and indifference spreads again.
Because most people don't have much time to relax, they can only take a break from a busy schedule. Leisure during busy times is not laziness, but relaxation of tight strings. Prepare for a new sprint. Its benefits are endless.
During World War II, churchill worked 16 hours a day, even though he was in his 60s. What secret did Churchill have to keep his exuberant energy? He worked in bed every morning until 11 o'clock. He read reports, taught orders, made phone calls, and even had meetings in bed. He would sleep for an hour after lunch. I had to sleep in bed for two hours before dinner at 8pm. He is not eliminating fatigue, because he does not have to eliminate fatigue at all. He stopped it beforehand. Because he often rests, he can work with great mental energy until he is over 60 years old.
We should be good at relaxing in a busy schedule, finding opportunities to relax in a busy schedule, and diversifying our ways of resting. In this way, it can not only relax the nervous nerves, but also allow the body and mind to get a complete rest, so as to enjoy the joy of life.
There are always endless things in life, climbing endless slopes, good at stealing "leisure" is a smart person who enjoys the joy of life in leisure.
The third telecommunications industry summit is being held at a resort in California. During each meeting break, the company owner would go back to his room and either discuss plans with his assistant or research information from other companies, so he was busy.
To everyone's surprise, however, whenever it came to the conference break, Hendry, the owner of Global Telecom, always walked alone out of the conference room or walked along the resort's Forgotten Lake, or admired exotic flowers and rare herbs in the garden.
At first, some bosses thought That Handy wasn't paying attention to the summit, or that they were greedily admiring the beautiful mountain scenery, but forgot about the big events in the development of their company. Surprisingly, Hendry always became the focus of the summit with his quick thinking, energy and conversation.
At the end of the meeting, an old man asked him curiously, "Usually I always see you being careless and doing nothing, but when you talk, you are energetic and aggressive, have you ever eaten a panacea?" "Yes, I did eat the elixir of the elixir. The magic bullet I took was walking and admiring the flowers. During this time, my brain got a good rest. As a result, I am getting more and more energetic at this conference!" Handley said.
John, Leyi, once said that when we are tired of life, life has left us. Working hard is about living a better life, but if we do our best to get to our destination and miss the beautiful scenery around us, what is our effort?
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