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Birthdays can not be casually spent, birthdays are exquisite

author:Liu Ge Cultural Station

Birthdays are something that most people are passionate about, as if birthdays are a great pleasure in life and the most important thing. Some people say that giving a child a birthday is how to live it, hoping that the child will grow up quickly, and celebrating a birthday is also to leave a good memory for the child, what is not good.

People who study the theory of bits believe that such a statement is also true, but people cannot celebrate birthdays casually in their lifetime. They believe that human birth is the process of going through the process from "God" to man to "God".

Birthdays can not be casually spent, birthdays are exquisite

That is to say, from birth to the age of 16, people are not yet adults. At this stage, the child is a "god" and not a human being, and it is not too much to give the child a birthday, even with great fanfare.

But after the age of sixteen, it is different, and after the age of sixteen, it is an adult. From the age of 17 to 59, having changed from "god" to man, it is possible to celebrate birthdays at this stage, but according to local customs. Usually every tenth birthday should be a year in advance, for example, the 30th birthday is usually completed at the age of 29, and many places "over three but not four" the saying, that is, the thirty-year birthday can be lived, and the fortieth birthday cannot be lived.

When people reach the age of sixty, they call birthdays birthdays. People think that at the age of sixty, that is, after walking through a year of armor, it is another beginning of life. At this time, it is not possible to live a long life, but the reason for the life is that I am afraid of reminding the king of Yama, and I will tick off the old man's life expectancy.

Only after the age of eighty can you live a big birthday, which is said to be that people of this age have changed from the human stage to "gods", so they have no scruples and can live with great fanfare.

Birthdays can not be casually spent, birthdays are exquisite

In fact, such a statement is also a bit superstitious, people live to the age of sixty is to go through a year of armor, has entered the aging.

To be honest, it has reached the age of ear shun, that is to say, it has reached the age of old age, and it will be like a child in thought, and it is precisely because it loves to listen to good words that it is called the year of ear shun. In feudal times, there was a saying that sixty were buried alive, which shows that it was very old to live to be sixty or seventy years old before.

Now, although with the improvement of living conditions and the progress of all aspects, people's age has been extended, but living to the age of eighty or ninety years old is not everyone can do, so as long as the conditions can be, birthdays can be lived.

A happy family, birthday and birthday is also a way to make the elderly happy. To comfort the elderly, let the elderly have a homely conformity, a feeling of love, this is also a kind of happiness.

If the old man has the feudal superstitious consciousness mentioned above, but life is also a good thing, let the old man himself think that he does not have the feeling of old age. As long as the old man is psychologically happy and happy, he does not have to live a long life, which depends on the situation.

Birthdays can not be casually spent, birthdays are exquisite

Xiaobian believes that whether it is a birthday or a life, it depends on the actual situation of each family, as long as the children have a heart, they can live, as the saying goes: "Life is seventy years old." Life is short, there are few sixties and seventy years old in life, whether it is a birthday or a birthday, as long as it is healthy, peaceful, happy, and happy!

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