After 19 years of marriage and 17 years of widowhood, how long can this marriage last?
The 55-year-old Cui Peiyi was once a saffron Dan, with good looks and acting skills, and there are countless ministers under the skirt.
In the early years, although the "Flower Series" exploded on the screen,
However, because the image of the evil woman was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, she was spurned and smashed into the car.
Since the birth of her son, Cui Peiyi, who cannot be used twice, has decisively stopped taking care of her family.
Unexpectedly, after 17 years of violating the screen, just when Cui Peiyi returned strongly with her new work "Kissing with Sharks",
Taiwan media actually broke the news that Cui Peiyi could not bear 17 years of sexless marriage and resolutely divorced!
Choi's husband, Sam, is Korean-American.
Although he is not from a rich family, he is not small.
Looking at Sam's resume, it is revealed that he was the head of the Asia Pacific region in IBM's micro battery division.
He was also a vice president of business at Samsung.
Four years ago, he was recruited by Taiwanese wealthy businessman Terry Gou with a high salary and became the chief executive officer of Hon Hai Group.
Cui Peiyi and Sam met through a classmate.
At the first meeting, Sam of the Appearance Association fell in love with Cui Peiyi at first sight.
The King of Xiang was intentional, and it happened that the goddess also had a heart, and the two of them hit it off and fell in love together.
However, soon after the relationship, Cui Peiyi found that Sam, who claimed to have no girlfriend, already had a fiancée.
What's even more hateful is that they're getting married soon.
Men change their hearts, one is a woman, the other is money, and Sam has both.
In addition to seeing different thoughts, it is also because his fiancée is "greedy and insatiable", so that Sam ran away from marriage.
The fiancée asked Sam to bring her family to live in the United States after marriage, but also to provide for her brother to study in the United States.
Sam was frightened, and regardless of the set banquet, the happy post sent out, and decided to quit the marriage.
The repentance of marriage hit her fiancée very hard, and she also went to the police station because of this, and even threatened to jump off the building to commit suicide, and the situation was once out of control.
After learning the truth, Cui Peiyi decisively proposed to break up and drew a line with Sam.
Who expected, a year after the breakup, Cui Peiyi and Sam actually reunited abroad.
In Cui Peiyi's view, the reunion of the long-term farewell may be fate.
Since love comes knocking, it is enough to accept it bravely.
After the reunion, Cui Peiyi Sam quickly got married and had children, and in 2003, she made up the wedding.
In fact, when preparing for the wedding, Sam Choi was constantly divided over cultural differences and money issues.
According to Korean tradition (Sam says), men and women marry, from the wedding banquet to the wedding ring, the groom's suit, all arranged by the bride's family.
The point is that the woman pays for it, and the man does not have to pay the gift money.
Cui's mother could not bear to let her daughter marry, so she negotiated with her relatives.
In the end, both parties take a step back, the woman does not want the gift, but the wedding banquet is the responsibility of the man.
It was hard to finish the wedding, and the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law came again.
Cui Peiyi's mother-in-law settled in the United States, so she asked Cui Peiyi and her grandson to immigrate to the United States as well.
At this point, Cui Peiyi was anxious.
Cui Peiyi's career is in Taiwan, and she can't leave her mother who is dependent on her for her life.
In order to live in the problem, Cui Peiyi specially flew to the United States and begged her mother-in-law to retract her decision.
As soon as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law met, they could not take care of the greeting, and Cui Peiyi, who cried into tears, knelt down to tell her mother-in-law about her difficulties, and gave her various guarantees, which successfully solved the problem.
Due to the working relationship, Cui Peiyi Sam has been living in two places for many years, gathering less and leaving more.
Sam comes home once a week, but every time he comes home, he either has a video conference or is busy with work.
Cui Peiyi once complained that Sam rarely communicated with her family and even had to deliver meals to her room.
Since the birth of his son, Sam has been sexually deficient, and the couple rarely have sex together.
Cui Peiyi suspected Sam of cheating.
After all, a married man who owns 6 mobile phones and often travels with female assistants on business is really suspicious.
In the past, Cui Peiyi always secretly doubted, until one time Sam went to Japan on a business trip, she really felt the sense of crisis.
On that occasion, Choi called Sam who was far away in Japan.
Unexpectedly, he actually lowered his voice and simply replied to her twice, and hung up in a hurry, unable to contact her all night.
When Cui Peiyi questioned him, he was furious and scolded: Do you have a brain? If I had a woman, I would be with her every day, and I would go home and be angry with you.
When Sam said this, Cui Peiyi, who was half-convinced and aggrieved, did not dare to mention this matter in front of him.
All along, Cui Peiyi and Sam have had major differences over the education of their children.
Sam supports his son in learning music and pursuing his musical dreams.
But Cui Peiyi believes that her son is still young and immature, and planning his career too early will do more harm than good.
The couple has been arguing over their children's education for many years, and recently the conflict has escalated due to the cost of living.
At the beginning of her marriage, Cui Peiyi was busy taking care of her children and had limited income.
In addition, her mother is not in good health, often runs to the hospital, and uses money everywhere.
Therefore, Sam will give Cui Peiyi 200,000 (NT$) per month for living expenses.
Until 4 years ago, after the death of Cui Peiyi's mother, the cost of living dropped sharply, and it was not as good as before.
Cui Peiyi had quarreled with Sam for living expenses.
However, judging from her recent weight loss comeback series of actions, it is estimated that the negotiation failed and she can only rely on herself.
Sexless marriage, infidelity, lack of communication, children's education is constantly divergent, the concept of money is inconsistent...
Any one problem is enough to make people crazy, even to break up.
Cui Peiyi endured a full 19 years in such a marriage.
In these 19 years, the humble Cui Peiyi has been giving in, sacrificing, and completely losing herself.
I thought that she would choose to divorce herself and let herself be free when she said "I want to live for myself".
Who would have thought that she would finally punch the Taiwan media in the face and say: Cheating is fake, divorce is fake.
Since the Lord has made a choice, we as others can only... Wish her happiness!