Recent headlines have often recommended children who are depressed and have dropped out of school, and even children who commit suicide. What happened to the children now? Is it the child who is vulnerable, the lack of family education, or the social reason?
I can't afford to investigate why, after all, it's not something that can be explained in a sentence or two.
I think of the kids I tutored in college, Shin Shin.
Xinxin was born with a brief lack of oxygen, so although she looks like a normal child, she is still a little deficient in terms of responsiveness. Tutoring elementary school students would have been an easy task, but I ran into a wall here in Shinshin.
Xinxin works hard, but due to her own problems, her various disciplines have difficulties.
The basic mathematical operations are OK, but the calculations with the addition of the operation rules are not understood. The rules are memorized, and when they are used, they will not be. With the addition of triangles, Xinxin could not keep up with the trip, and abstract thinking was limited. Later, I recommended to Xinxin's mother that the math master in our class specialized in tutoring mathematics, and I was barely able to keep up.
The biggest problem with language is imagination and power. The composition is not even a good record of the flow account, let alone the beautiful sentences. We thought of a lot of ways, memorizing sample texts, writing sample texts, copying sentences...
And English...
In short, after nearly a year of counseling, Xinxin's learning can barely keep up, and Xinxin's mother has also affirmed our tutoring.
However, my classmates and I were ready to go to graduate school, so we suggested that Xinxin's mother change to a more professional teacher.
Xinxin family is a demolition household in a first-tier city, naturally it is not bad money, from a more well-known university to invite a one-on-one tutor, Xinxin's mother sent messages several times, Xinxin's grades are steadily improving.
One day many years later, the classmate A who introduced Xinxin to me at the time told me that Xinxin was depressed and dropped out of school.
Xinxin went to middle school, learning is really hard, under the strict requirements of one-on-one, Xinxin's pressure is very large, as long as the grade declines, her mother will continue to criticize. Shin Shin began to exhibit all sorts of strange behaviors. First of all, the mother found that Xinxin had hair loss, and the doctor who took her to the hospital did not check it out. Once, the class teacher found That Shin Shin was pulling her hair in class, and the doctor said that this was a stereotypical behavior, indicating that she was very anxious. Mom thought it was okay, improved her food, and forced her to change her habits.
Another year, Xinxin began to lose weight significantly, and her mother thought that she was too nervous to study and constantly improved nutrition, but she was still visible to the naked eye. Until the teacher found out that she was vomiting in the school toilet. My mother beat and scolded again this time, and asked the teacher to keep looking at her. But the teacher could not watch 24 hours, she still kept inducing vomiting and Bao Shi language, and finally one day, Xinxin vomited blood.
Shin Shin was taken to the hospital, although it was only gastrointestinal bleeding. Shin Shin never went back to school.
Without indulging in online games, without violent resistance, Shin Shin just tortured herself and sealed herself.
Seeing these news, I suddenly thought what happened to Xinxin?
