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A few days ago, there was a broadcast accident on the Hangzhou News Network.
After the two anchors said hello, the male anchor who was preparing to broadcast a news of the day suddenly found that the teleprompter was down and could not continue broadcasting.
He repeatedly pressed the remote control in his hand without responding, and then simply raised the hand holding the remote control slightly, and pressed the remote control in his hand impatiently.
After trying for a while, it still couldn't be solved, and the male anchor's expression changed from impatience to helplessness.
Netizens said that this scene is very similar to the scene when we watch TV at home and press the remote control, and the expression of the male anchor is also very similar to "the next second will be crazy".
The clip of the broadcast accident was immediately widely disseminated on the Internet, and it was also on the high-level hot search on Weibo, which caused heated discussion among netizens.
Some people say that the failure of the teleprompter is also beyond his control, and it is still an urgent draft, there is no paper draft prepared, and the male anchor is powerless.
Some people also say that the performance of male anchors is extremely lacking in on-the-spot adaptability.
It is undeniable that the reason why the situation occurred at that time cannot be completely attributed to this male anchor.
For example, when the director finds a problem with the teleprompter, he can switch the screen in time instead of still facing the face of the male anchor;
In addition, the failure to prepare a paper backup in time is also a mistake, although it is an urgent draft, it is said that it is not a temporary manuscript.
There are many factors that caused this accident, and it is indeed not the fault of the male anchor.
However, at the time of the accident, the male anchor pressed the remote control on the camera, and the impatience shown was somewhat inappropriate.
As netizens said, this is a reflection of insufficient professionalism.
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As an anchor and host, a very important ability is the ability to respond to the scene.
There are also many hosts who are praised for their excellent on-the-spot adaptability.
For example, when the famous host Yang Lan went to Guangzhou to serve as the host of a literary and art evening during the hosting of "Zhengda Variety", an incident that happened has been circulated to this day.
During the performance of the party, she accidentally stepped on the empty steps and fell off the stage.
Suddenly, the audience was in an uproar.
Only to see Yang Lan calm and self-assured, get up and go back to the stage and then open his mouth and say:
"When people really have missed their feet, horses have lost their hooves, and the show I just rolled the lion hydrangea ball was not skilled enough, right?" It seems that the steps of this performance are not so good, but the show on the stage will be very exciting, believe it, you see them. ”
The host accidentally fell on the stage, which easily interrupted the rhythm of the show.
Yang Lan's self-ridicule not only got rid of his embarrassing dilemma well, but also smoothly connected the program and successfully diverted the audience's attention.
Not only the host, when the unexpected situation suddenly occurs, the on-the-spot emergency response we make can also reflect the psychological quality, emotional intelligence and other aspects of each person's level.
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The incident of the male anchor of the Hangzhou News Network can give us the following 2 points of inspiration:
(1) Attach importance to the influence of psychological quality
Psychological qualities significantly affect a person's performance.
Why is it that the more critical situations some people are, the more likely they are to play abnormally?
One of the reasons is that people with poor psychological quality are difficult to calm down in the face of pressure and difficulties, and play to the level reflected in normal situations.
Here's an example:
In the final round of the men's 50m rifle three-position final at the 2008 Beijing Olympics, there was a dramatic scene.
Matthew Emmons, the previous leader of the United States, in the case of winning the championship with little suspense, the last shot actually hit an incredible 4.4 rings, and the total result fell to fourth.
Qiu Jian, a Chinese player who was originally ranked no. 3, miraculously won the championship with the last shot to surpass the Ukrainian player 0.1 ring.
What is even more deplorable is that this is the second consecutive time that Emmons has failed in the Olympic Games.
At the Athens Olympics 4 years ago, Emmons bizarrely hit the last bullet on the target position next to him in the same event, in the same absolute lead, and finally China's Jia Zhanbo won the gold medal.
Emmons' strength is beyond doubt, but after three consecutive Olympic games, from Athens to Beijing to London, Emmons invariably fell on the last shot and finally had to give up his medals.
The audience's expectations, the psychological shadow of the failure, put Emmons under high-level pressure, and his psychological quality is not enough to withstand this pressure, resulting in abnormal play and loss of the championship.
Victory or defeat often depends on certain key moments, who can have a better psychological quality, who can maintain a calm and calm state, who can win the final victory.
Therefore, no matter what happens, our emotional fluctuations should be maintained at a relatively stable level, not rushed, not alarmed, only in this way can we better exert our ability to control and solve the current problems.
(2) Improve emotional intelligence
An important part of emotional intelligence is managing your emotions.
As the Intensive Reader's Dictionary entry for Lifelong Growth, 86: Emotional Intelligence, says:
Properly dealing with emotions is the ability to understand one's own emotions.
People with poor emotional regulation ability are often plagued by negative emotions such as pain, while people with strong regulation ability can recover from setbacks and troubles in life faster.
When the male anchor occurred, he did not properly express it, exposing the negative emotions.
Therefore, to improve emotional intelligence, a very important part is to learn to express our emotions appropriately and maintain the stability of our state.
"University" has clouds: "Knowing and being fixed, being still and then being able to be quiet, being quiet and then being able to be at peace, being able to worry about it, worrying and then being able to get it." ”
Keeping our emotions stable, we will not be controlled by sudden emotions, on the contrary, we will try our best to solve the problems that should be solved and do the things that should be done well.
We all have to try to be adults who are still quiet on the outside, even if the waves are turbulent inside.