#Hu Xing'er three children to give birth to children #Care for children to grow!
Every child is a god-given treasure to their parents, and when they come to their parents, it means that parents have to spend a lot of energy to cultivate them so that they can better adapt to the world. It is often said that the child is like a blank piece of paper, and what kind of scenery there is depends on the parents' actions. As a new parent, we must continue to strengthen our learning in parenting to better provide more possibilities for our children's future. How to raise your children to be envied by everyone as a "genius baby"? Only parents need to do the following three points.
One. Expose your child to the outside world
When the child is young, when the physical conditions permit, when the weather is good, take him out for a walk, play, contact nature more, enrich his vision, broaden his horizons, let him start to know the people, things and things around him, and slowly build his own cognitive world. Of course, some parents may say, I often take him out to play, but the child has not seen much wisdom, talking about this parents should reflect on it, when you take the child out, you are seriously explaining to the child that there is a grass and a tree outside, one person and one thing? Or do you push your child to look at the flowers and keep brushing your mobile phone? The contact mentioned here is the need for parents as a medium to help children understand the world, parents should tell ordinary things to their children through gentle words, when children hear more and see more in the brain to form an objective image, it will be remembered, and many things will be understood in the later stage.
Two. Let children read more books to increase knowledge
Parent-child reading is a simple and easy way to improve children's cognitive ability, but also the most unnecessary investment for parents to spend money, good parent-child reading can help children establish a basic knowledge system in the early stage, especially in early childhood, children's memory is better, there is no obvious difference in learning knowledge, parents can choose suitable books according to their children's preferences to guide reading. Of course, do not hope that children can read by themselves, most of the time it is parents to read and explain to children, children can remember many adults think that children are more difficult knowledge points for children through their parents' warm narration. Don't force your child's knowledge too much, parents only need to be responsible for reading for him to increase his input, as for how much to remember do not care, because one day in the future you will find that your child can tell a certain story that you have read to him, then your reading input will be successful. It is emphasized here that the child's reading casualness in early childhood is good, and the main purpose is to let the child develop the habit of reading, rather than increasing the dislike of reading.
Three. Make your child's life more possible
When the child is young, many parents worry that their child will lose at the starting line, so they plan the future life path for him. In fact, this is not fair to the child, he does not have the opportunity to contact different things, experience different situations, which also makes the child lose the happiness of life. In fact, as long as parents follow the child's inner happiness, reasonable opinions, everyone can make a joint choice to let the child experience the joy of life, allow the child to have a variety of problems, do not give him pressure too early, after all, the free child is the most conscious, because he knows what he should do!