In recent years, the frequent occurrence of left-behind children has made the problem of left-behind children more and more prominent, and people's analysis of the problems of left-behind children has become more and more in-depth.
But after deep reflection and analysis, what we need to do is not only to pay attention, but also to respect left-behind children and solve practical problems.
Today, Xiaomei recommends a movie about left-behind children for everyone to discuss this topic with you -
"Stay in Summer"
The title "Liu Xia" has three meanings:
The first layer represents the summer of left-behind children, as well as the children's love for summer and wants to keep summer; the second layer, the harmonic sound "stay", is the call of children to ask their parents to stay; the third layer is the empty nest elderly's reluctance to their children.
This small-budget film does not have actors to join, and the main actors are all ordinary people, who use their own personal experiences to convey the truth to people.
The film is real like a documentary, the whole film is in dialect, and the story is presented to the audience in a flowing account-like narrative.
The protagonist, Zhang Hanxiang, is a lively and cheerful boy, his parents have been working outside for many years, and he and his grandmother are dependent on each other.
Every day of the summer vacation, he spends it with his friends in the same village.
The grandmother, on the other hand, works in the hot sun every day and is responsible for taking care of the children's lives.
The film records a series of play clips, plain and real and interesting.
When the first rays of light in the morning hit the earth, Grandma prepared breakfast and went out to the fields to make it.
After getting up and eating, Zhang Hanxiang and Zhang Zile stole watermelons to eat, played marbles, and happily shuttled through the fields and countryside.
On the playing platform, the bullet screen always triggers a series of climaxes: this is my childhood; I miss my childhood; I miss my childhood...
Yes, real and beautiful memories always resonate with people.
Do you remember the friends who used to play family and marbles together?
Although those unscrupulous summer vacations are far away from us, the joy of childhood, the simple and innocent smiling face makes us unforgettable.
At that time, we were free, every day was full, from poking the honeycomb, down to burning ants with a magnifying glass, and hearing the cries of grandparents in the distance knew that it was time to eat, and the game was temporarily over.
Relatives of Xiao Fat in the same village often drive and bring Fun toys and snacks that they have not eaten from the city.
Looking at this, Zhang Hanxiang was envious in his heart, but he would never show it.
Until Yiyi's arrival.
That day the sun was shining, the rare sound of cars approaching, seeing the beautiful Yiyi, Zhang Hanxiang's heart stirred up waves.
Perhaps due to the germination of emotions in childhood, or perhaps out of curiosity, Zhang Hanxiang is very concerned about Yiyi.
In the past, when he saw Xiao Chu, he would keep his distance. But when he saw Yi Yi's gaze, Zhang Hanxiang would take the initiative to challenge Xiao Fat.
Even sometimes, he would use his handmade top to "fight" with a small fat toy top.
Although the result of the duel was always a failure, Zhang Hanxiang never put away his competitive heart.
In this way, Zhang Hanxiang and Zhang Zile listened to Yiyi's description of life in the city while taking Yiyi to experience rural life.
Zhang Hanxiang is a child who inserts a knife into his friend's ribs.
His companion Zhang Zile lost all the marbles, and Zhang Hanxiang exchanged the jade pendant he hung around his neck with Xiao Fat.
Zhang Zile was bullied by Xiao Fat, and Zhang Hanxiang did not say a word and slapped Xiao Fat with a brick.
Fighting righteousness is a beautiful quality, but the price paid is heavy for the family, Xiao Fat is injured, and Grandma has to bring something to make reparations.
Here's a detail that's particularly touching:
Grandma put the eggs in the house one by one in the basket, and when the last few were left, Grandma hesitated, and when she saw the child, she did not hesitate to put a few back into the drawer.
This is mixed with Grandma's deep love for her grandson, which is ordinary and great.
When she came to The Little Fat's house, Grandma guiltily put down the eggs, carefully took out the money wrapped in the bristle, and gave it to the little fat parents as an indemnity.
The reality is harsh, the only money left is used to atone for her sins, and Grandma has to rush to the market to sell eggs and return home at night.
These behaviors reflect the simplicity of rural people, while on the other hand contain heartache, poignant circumstances, poignant frugality and poignant love.
Summer is hot and beautiful, and at the same time, summer is destined to be the season of farewell.
After the summer vacation, Yiyi and his good friend Zhang Zile went to the city one after another, but Zhang Hanxiang accepted everything calmly, and he knew that his grandmother needed his company more than to live in the city.
However, the reality is always helpless, and the arrival of a phone call has changed zhang Hanxiang's current situation, and his father wants to take him to the city to go to school.
Zhang Hanxiang is eager for city life and the care of his parents, but in the face of the cruelty of separation from his dependent grandmother, he is sad and unwilling.
Growth only takes a moment, Zhang Hanxiang from mischievous to mature and sensible, heart-wrenching, and what leads to all this is the problem of left-behind children.
Parting is the most affectionate.
Xiao Fat gave the marbles to Zhang Hanxiang, reflecting the simplicity and friendship between the two; Grandma spent all the money to make a rich parting meal for the child.
Grandma's lonely back is thought-provoking, the old man who should have enjoyed the joy of heaven, but he worked hard in the hot sun, a lonely person, and the most basic life was not guaranteed.
This is the sadness of the left-behind elderly, and it is the sadness of this society.
The film exposes the current situation in contemporary rural areas, the two major social problems of left-behind children and left-behind elderly people.
Young people want to go out and work hard and change family conditions, which is understandable, but they must also think more about their children, give their children more love, and give them a complete and loving "home".
The poster for the Chinese version of "What a Home" has a slogan that stands out: I want to sue my parents because they gave birth to me.
When we try to understand this society, we pay more attention to the change of fertility concepts.
If you don't have the ability to give your child a home, don't let him come into this world.
From the perspective of our children, we must care more for our elderly parents, solve the daily life problems of the elderly, often go home to see, do a piece of filial piety, and assume our own responsibilities.
Let the left-behind elderly no longer empty nest.
Society is a melting pot that plays a non-negligible role in the growth of everyone.
It is difficult for us to change this profound social problem, but we can take practical actions to start from ourselves and jointly create a beautiful and harmonious social environment.
Do more volunteer activities to respect, care, and help left-behind children and left-behind elderly people so that they are no longer so lonely.
In addition to reflection, at least make a little change.
If you have not encountered these problems yourself, please abandon greed and laziness, study well to earn money, give parents and future children more chips, and prevent problems before they happen.