No baby is born timid Yesterday met a mother and complained to me: her child is naturally introverted and timid, and when he goes out to meet an acquaintance to say hello, he is afraid to hide behind people, and Ladu can't pull out. But what to do, too sad [what] the child's lack of security may be caused by the growing environment of the baby needs to be encouraged and recognized (the baby is fully adapted, it only took half a month) No baby is born timid. Be more patient and less blameful. Every child is an angel.

<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" > yesterday I met a mother and I complained: her children are naturally introverted and timid, and when they go out, they meet acquaintances and say hello, and they are afraid to hide behind people, and they can't pull out. But what to do, it's too sad [what</h1>].

I happen to have the same type, my relative's baby was more than two years old last year, and he was cute and cute. Lively and cheerful and active in front of your family, as soon as you go out and meet someone to hide behind you (it is said that it is like that in a few months, when you meet someone in your arms, you cry in fear).

<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" > children's insecurity may be caused by the environment in which they grew up</h1>

The world of children is sometimes really not understood by adults. The child is born as a blank piece of paper, and the early childhood period is a safety sensitive period, which may be the unintentional behavior of the family or nanny that causes the child to be insecure and distrustful of people, thus affecting the child's social relationship with others.

<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" > baby needs encouragement and recognition (the baby is fully adapted, it only takes half a month).</h1>

I was particularly impressed by the first time my aunt and I took the baby downstairs. Holding hands and small hands, looking at flowers as they walk, crouching down to look at small ants, picking small leaves... When I saw two men with handbags walking in front of me, the baby's hand holding me suddenly worked very hard (a year later, today I have not forgotten the scene at that time: the baby's small face was white, I felt the stiffness of his body, and there was panic and uneasiness in his eyes), I squatted down, put my arms around him and patted him gently, and reassured: Don't be afraid, we are together, the two uncles must be busy going to work. When we grew up, we were as busy as our uncles, going to kindergarten to sing, play ball, and play games with the children. It wasn't until people walked away that the baby slowly relaxed.

<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="04" > no baby is born timid. Be more patient and less blameful. Every child is an angel. </h1>

In the days to come, every morning and afternoon, I will spend an hour or two to take the baby out to the public place, and when I meet a large group of people on the street, the baby can lead you to pass by calmly, and the baby's self-confidence has been established.